Justme4uok: Yeah so they go back to looking for that feeling all the time...
Which is never going to happen... human biology just doesn´t function in that manner... so you find people trying to get the same types of adrenaline rush from creating drama in the relationship or skipping from relationship to relationship.
I´m one that does need the chemistry in order to start something, but realize how much better it can be once you grow to truly love each other, and how much stronger that is then chemistry if troubles arise.
I found this discussion fascinating, so I did a little experiment with my partner in crime, I wrote down what I thought it was and he did, we then gave it to another couple to read, for their verdict.
Mine was very bullet pointed and his was as the female of the couple pointed out like a 14 year old in love.
We laughed about it, but on a serious note, there is no right answer, it is a feeling that we become addicted to at the beginning and then the feeling wanes, for whatever reason, I do not intend to let it wane this time.
Justme4uokOPNorthern CA, California USA5,737 posts
Sommerauer71: I found this discussion fascinating, so I did a little experiment with my partner in crime, I wrote down what I thought it was and he did, we then gave it to another couple to read, for their verdict.
Mine was very bullet pointed and his was as the female of the couple pointed out like a 14 year old in love.
We laughed about it, but on a serious note, there is no right answer, it is a feeling that we become addicted to at the beginning and then the feeling wanes, for whatever reason, I do not intend to let it wane this time.
Experimenting can be fun and enlightning.....Thanks for sharing.
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