Appealing Traits! (39)

One that you all missed folks.

The woman / lady has to be REAL. So many i have met are fake, not themselves, trying to be someone else. Christ i love women who are themselves and have the confidence to be themselves.

If i were to list the traits that men like, they probably be similar to what women like (ok given the difference in body types)and there would be loads to mention.

Maybe we mention traits to keep others out and miss that someone special because we dont allow for the smaller things that people dont like or trait that may annoy us or. How many of us have dated or met with people we liked but they have one habbitt or something that just ticks us off, yet we got on with it.

Man Looking for: Someone???
Woman Looking for: Love???

So to answer your question. the most appealing is someone who is themselves, for if we cant hanndle that we may as well give up, or start paying for it (opps)

EZ

Yes,and when a woman knows how to walk in high heels it looks very graceful,but there are some wearing expensive shoes who look like they're plodding along in wellingtons.

I like the idea of being yourself to the Letterkenny man...sound words!
Suppose that's a given - hello! Dont' be false!
I'm just looking to see is there a general sense of what men like...though I have no intention of ever changing for a man unless to compromise !!!

The way someone carries themselves is good too...


You insightful people lol

All you have to do is smile Miss Dundalk and im sure the rest will sort itself out :)

personally speaking the eyes are a turn on for me. strange i know but i cant explain it.

I'm with you on this Andrew. However, some men can't handle real. It scares the bejapers out of them! JMO!





Minx

not really i was in college with her she's tiny(thats hight i mean)

Hey, attractive ladies such as Miss Dundalk and Little_Miss would be sure to tell you if they liked you or not. Maybe you and they have answered it by realism being a huge thing. irishminx also eluded to it. I know people have other things on their lists such as the following,
nice personality, caring blah these are the usual traits people look for. its the unspoken traits that make people wana get together, that look of warmth, fire & passion, people with convictions (not criminal mind you) strong character,

I know i said i like REal women as in not fake. Irishminx said some men cant handle that. I agree, they cant, but isnt that what a relationship is partly about, work. The most successful relationships in the world take loads of work, so another trait is someone who wants to work at things and not run at the drop of a hat. Anyway must RUN hahaha Ciaooooooooooooo