"Am I the only one who feels this way..? (91)
Read my above post.
mylifewithu: Just lean on your friends, our hearts can heal and keep going just be a survivor sweetie. The pain will get easier.
Then one day a special guy will show up and that pain will be mostly gone. But till then be positive and enjoy life don't let pain keep you down.
Then one day a special guy will show up and that pain will be mostly gone. But till then be positive and enjoy life don't let pain keep you down.
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Polarbutterfly: Read my above post.
I sign on and you are ok. Well darn it, back to the shadows now.
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mylifewithu: I sign on and you are ok. Well darn it, back to the shadows now.
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Finding true Love is like the birth of a child. It is very painful....but once it has arrived.....all pain is forgotten with them in your arms and well worth it.
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I'm glad you found happiness again, maybe I'll get lucky someday.
I think my independent persona just puts women off. I'm not a negative person and get along great with the gals when we're having good times but when the seriousness starts I tend to back off, but I'm working on that! It's not that I don't want to have a relationship with the right person, I just need to take it slow this time around.
I think my independent persona just puts women off. I'm not a negative person and get along great with the gals when we're having good times but when the seriousness starts I tend to back off, but I'm working on that! It's not that I don't want to have a relationship with the right person, I just need to take it slow this time around.
Polarbutterfly: That was then,this is now.
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And,I don't blame you for being cautious,
the heart is easy to break.Good luck.
the heart is easy to break.Good luck.
Desertguy49: I'm glad you found happiness again, maybe I'll get lucky someday.
I think my independent persona just puts women off. I'm not a negative person and get along great with the gals when we're having good times but when the seriousness starts I tend to back off, but I'm working on that! It's not that I don't want to have a relationship with the right person, I just need to take it slow this time around.
I think my independent persona just puts women off. I'm not a negative person and get along great with the gals when we're having good times but when the seriousness starts I tend to back off, but I'm working on that! It's not that I don't want to have a relationship with the right person, I just need to take it slow this time around.
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something i've noticed where i live is that when some people are in a relationship in which they are not sattisfied,wether it's just not clicking or there are major issues. these people have another person they are already seeing or they have one picked out to pursue. to my point now, i don't think people take enough time to reflect on what just happend in their life, so they are involved in another relationship with out knowing how they ended up in the last mess, and they drag the same ??? issues / bagage into the next relationship. not knowing some of the things that they don't like or how to deal with them, or recognise the signs to these traits to avoid them altogether. undelt with bagage creats new bagage somewhere. dosn't hurt to clean the closet out and get some fresh air clear the head and then make someone happy. JMO of what i've seen.
i guess bagage hurts
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Polarbutterfly: Well said.But,no melodrama here.
It's life.
Ive been there nightIt's life.
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Have a good night everyone.Thanks
for the posts.
for the posts.
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Polarbutterfly: Well said.But,no melodrama here.
It's life.
It's life.
Last time I felt like that, I realized I was using sadness
and anger to delay acceptance of my new reality.
The way I stopped was to mind my words, even the ones used for thought. I checked my words to make sure they reflected reality, nothing more or less, just what was. My thoughts became calm and accepting again. Soon after the sadness began to fade.
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All this sad whining makes me want one thing ...... a whiskey-rocks ! Yea baby ! 
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shan77: You just wanna get drunk in the hopes that someone will take advantage.............
I just wanna get drunk so I can take advantage of myself ........again ..........
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shan77: You just wanna get drunk in the hopes that someone will take advantage.............
On second thought ........I'll fly you in tomorrow if you'll indulge me in that way ...........
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shan77: SO you can't even do yourself sober..........awwwwwwwww
No, it just takes longer drunk.......and allows me pleasure longer ......
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Polarbutterfly: My heart has been broken beyond repair.Yet,what can
I do?How do I go on..?Is there hope..?Is there peace..?
Will the hurt stop..?I'm only human.Do you feel the way I do..?.
This is not about,"Look at me,look at how I hurt".This is about
coping with the pain of heartache....of life.".
I do?How do I go on..?Is there hope..?Is there peace..?
Will the hurt stop..?I'm only human.Do you feel the way I do..?.
This is not about,"Look at me,look at how I hurt".This is about
coping with the pain of heartache....of life.".
1. Not much.
2. Carefully.
3. Yep.
4. Yep.
5. nope.
6. nope.
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I do?How do I go on..?Is there hope..?Is there peace..?
Will the hurt stop..?I'm only human.Do you feel the way I do..?.
This is not about,"Look at me,look at how I hurt".This is about
coping with the pain of heartache....of life.".
Then one day a special guy will show up and that pain will be mostly gone.