My heart has been broken beyond repair.Yet,what can I do?How do I go on..?Is there hope..?Is there peace..? Will the hurt stop..?I'm only human.Do you feel the way I do..?. This is not about,"Look at me,look at how I hurt".This is about coping with the pain of heartache....of life.".
You keep the faith, you remain a surviver not a victim. You relize that it is when we are tested that we become more clear about who we are, what we want, and what is really important. We all get stuck sometimes, I myself am trying to pull myself out of an emotional and mental rut.......... Find things that move you, inspire you........ Every wrong turn we make actually point us more in the right direction.......... I rarely post here, but I can relate and hope you find your way....
shan77: You keep the faith, you remain a surviver not a victim. You relize that it is when we are tested that we become more clear about who we are, what we want, and what is really important. We all get stuck sometimes, I myself am trying to pull myself out of an emotional and mental rut.......... Find things that move you, inspire you........ Every wrong turn we make actually point us more in the right direction.......... I rarely post here, but I can relate and hope you find your way....
"I too hope to find peace.Yet,it hurts. Thank you."
currently where you are now, going through the same crap. i wish i can tell you a more specific way to stop the hurt or how to cope with it better. everyone keeps telling me time will heal all. i live in the hope that they are right. in the meantime, let's both look out for everyone else's 2 cents here.
Polarbutterfly: My heart has been broken beyond repair.Yet,what can I do?How do I go on..?Is there hope..?Is there peace..? Will the hurt stop..?I'm only human.Do you feel the way I do..?. This is not about,"Look at me,look at how I hurt".This is about coping with the pain of heartache....of life.".
it is very hard indeed, i feel like you alot, every relationship i ever had been in , i gave everything and it just seems women want a guy who treats them like dirt, i have never in my life ever been that way, its not in my nature to be cruel to women, yet i end up getting hurt. the thing i dont get is why do women ask for a great guy, then shun one when he comes along ?, looks do not last forever, a good relationship is started on chemistry , and trust. most of the women on here are shallow bygots.im going to be celebate from now on, its not worth the pain anymore.
Polarbutterfly: My heart has been broken beyond repair.Yet,what can I do?How do I go on..?Is there hope..?Is there peace..? Will the hurt stop..?I'm only human.Do you feel the way I do..?. This is not about,"Look at me,look at how I hurt".This is about coping with the pain of heartache....of life.".
Take this time to reflect and heal. Wright a journal. Go to different places, take a book. Wallow in your loneliness. If you feel lonely, call a friend.
Polarbutterfly: My heart has been broken beyond repair.Yet,what can I do?How do I go on..?Is there hope..?Is there peace..? Will the hurt stop..?I'm only human.Do you feel the way I do..?. This is not about,"Look at me,look at how I hurt".This is about coping with the pain of heartache....of life.".
Healing thoughts and healing words Help when we're passing through curt And work just like a soothing balm That make us peaceful and calm
It may sound wierd, but that's true Whenever we're passing through Trouble, agony, distress and pain We desperately wish a view of fain
So at that moment if some one shows Even a glimpse of thoughtful bow We love and also appreciate it For it holds value in every bit
So remember this and keep in mind Things and words that're soothing and kind Always help in the period of curt And work like healing thoughts and words.
I have been where you are PB, and I understand the pain, the despair and the loss of Hope...............
It will get better, One day at a time............
Never give up on Hope, as it is within all of us, sometimes we just have a problem finding it..........
Polarbutterfly: My heart has been broken beyond repair.Yet,what can I do?How do I go on..?Is there hope..?Is there peace..? Will the hurt stop..?I'm only human.Do you feel the way I do..?. This is not about,"Look at me,look at how I hurt".This is about coping with the pain of heartache....of life.".
The pain is intense, tears flow so easily, at night and in the morning.
Time is no healer, but, it allows you to come to terms with your grief, it provides a buffer to learn from.
When you are able, do something totally different, start a new life and use your past experience to help you move towards you new goals.
I have been an engineer all my working life, now, I am studying to become a Teacher, I am moving to another country. I will start a new chapter in my life and I am so looking forward to my future.
Life seems cruel to you at this time in your life, but look around, and you will see others who are in a far worse position, it puts everything into perspective.
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
vinny1967: Healing Thoughts
Healing thoughts and healing words Help when we're passing through curt And work just like a soothing balm That make us peaceful and calm
It may sound wierd, but that's true Whenever we're passing through Trouble, agony, distress and pain We desperately wish a view of fain
So at that moment if some one shows Even a glimpse of thoughtful bow We love and also appreciate it For it holds value in every bit
So remember this and keep in mind Things and words that're soothing and kind Always help in the period of curt And work like healing thoughts and words.
I have been where you are PB, and I understand the pain, the despair and the loss of Hope...............
It will get better, One day at a time............
Never give up on Hope, as it is within all of us, sometimes we just have a problem finding it..........
jeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)10,968 posts
Polarbutterfly: My heart has been broken beyond repair.Yet,what can I do?How do I go on..?Is there hope..?Is there peace..? Will the hurt stop..?I'm only human.Do you feel the way I do..?. This is not about,"Look at me,look at how I hurt".This is about coping with the pain of heartache....of life.".
Polarbutterfly: My heart has been broken beyond repair.Yet,what can I do?How do I go on..?Is there hope..?Is there peace..? Will the hurt stop..?I'm only human.Do you feel the way I do..?. This is not about,"Look at me,look at how I hurt".This is about coping with the pain of heartache....of life.".
I'm sorry you're hurting right now, PolarB, but remember that your heart is not beyond repair. Take the time to heal, cry it out...and it will hurt less with time. And you'll be stronger for it in the end.
Polarbutterfly: My heart has been broken beyond repair.Yet,what can I do?How do I go on..?Is there hope..?Is there peace..? Will the hurt stop..?I'm only human.Do you feel the way I do..?. This is not about,"Look at me,look at how I hurt".This is about coping with the pain of heartache....of life.".
Just hang on it will stop. We all know what it is like, I am sure of that.
Polarbutterfly: My heart has been broken beyond repair.Yet,what can I do?How do I go on..?Is there hope..?Is there peace..? Will the hurt stop..?I'm only human.Do you feel the way I do..?. This is not about,"Look at me,look at how I hurt".This is about coping with the pain of heartache....of life.".
Ones heart is never broken beyond repair. I, as many have been where you are. "For me", it was about learning to let go with love. Wish them the best and realize they may be doing you a huge favor.
As a woman, human being, I wish my last one all of the best life has to offer, I wish for her everything in life I want, I have love for her, I am no longer in love with her, I do NOT want her back for any reasons..
It took me over a year to come to these realizations..
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I do?How do I go on..?Is there hope..?Is there peace..?
Will the hurt stop..?I'm only human.Do you feel the way I do..?.
This is not about,"Look at me,look at how I hurt".This is about
coping with the pain of heartache....of life.".