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Jan 28, 2009 12:29 AM CST "Am I the only one who feels this way..?
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
My heart has been broken beyond repair.Yet,what can
I do?How do I go on..?Is there hope..?Is there peace..?
Will the hurt stop..?I'm only human.Do you feel the way I do..?.
This is not about,"Look at me,look at how I hurt".This is about
coping with the pain of heartache....of life.".
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Jan 28, 2009 12:39 AM CST "Am I the only one who feels this way..?
shan77
shan77shan77Palmdale, CA, California USA2 Threads 137 Posts
You keep the faith, you remain a surviver not a victim. You relize that it is when we are tested that we become more clear about who we are, what we want, and what is really important. We all get stuck sometimes, I myself am trying to pull myself out of an emotional and mental rut..........
Find things that move you, inspire you........
Every wrong turn we make actually point us more in the right direction..........
I rarely post here, but I can relate and hope you find your way....
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Jan 28, 2009 12:41 AM CST "Am I the only one who feels this way..?
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
shan77: You keep the faith, you remain a surviver not a victim. You relize that it is when we are tested that we become more clear about who we are, what we want, and what is really important. We all get stuck sometimes, I myself am trying to pull myself out of an emotional and mental rut..........
Find things that move you, inspire you........
Every wrong turn we make actually point us more in the right direction..........
I rarely post here, but I can relate and hope you find your way....


"I too hope to find peace.Yet,it hurts.
Thank you."


hug
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Jan 28, 2009 12:48 AM CST "Am I the only one who feels this way..?
shan77
shan77shan77Palmdale, CA, California USA2 Threads 137 Posts
The peace you seek can only be found within.......maybe you are looking in the wrong places??
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Jan 28, 2009 12:51 AM CST "Am I the only one who feels this way..?
g33kgurl
g33kgurlg33kgurlMelbourne, Victoria Australia41 Threads 1,995 Posts
currently where you are now, going through the same crap. i wish i can tell you a more specific way to stop the hurt or how to cope with it better. everyone keeps telling me time will heal all. i live in the hope that they are right. in the meantime, let's both look out for everyone else's 2 cents here.
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Jan 28, 2009 12:53 AM CST "Am I the only one who feels this way..?
Everything happens for a reason.

We learn.

That is the nature of our journey.

cool
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Jan 28, 2009 12:53 AM CST "Am I the only one who feels this way..?
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
shan77: The peace you seek can only be found within.......maybe you are looking in the wrong places??


"After 14 yrs. of heartache,believe me,the peace I'm looking for
has been staring at me every single day.Yet,it still hurts..beyond words."

"Hugs...'.




hug
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Jan 28, 2009 1:17 AM CST "Am I the only one who feels this way..?
kurt37
kurt37kurt37manitowoc, Wisconsin USA9 Threads 43 Posts
Polarbutterfly: My heart has been broken beyond repair.Yet,what can
I do?How do I go on..?Is there hope..?Is there peace..?
Will the hurt stop..?I'm only human.Do you feel the way I do..?.
This is not about,"Look at me,look at how I hurt".This is about
coping with the pain of heartache....of life.".
it is very hard indeed, i feel like you alot, every relationship i ever had been in , i gave everything and it just seems women want a guy who treats them like dirt, i have never in my life ever been that way, its not in my nature to be cruel to women, yet i end up getting hurt. the thing i dont get is why do women ask for a great guy, then shun one when he comes along ?, looks do not last forever, a good relationship is started on chemistry , and trust. most of the women on here are shallow bygots.im going to be celebate from now on, its not worth the pain anymore.
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Jan 28, 2009 1:24 AM CST "Am I the only one who feels this way..?
Polarbutterfly: My heart has been broken beyond repair.Yet,what can
I do?How do I go on..?Is there hope..?Is there peace..?
Will the hurt stop..?I'm only human.Do you feel the way I do..?.
This is not about,"Look at me,look at how I hurt".This is about
coping with the pain of heartache....of life.".




Take this time to reflect and heal. Wright a journal.
Go to different places, take a book. Wallow in your
loneliness. If you feel lonely, call a friend.
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Jan 28, 2009 1:27 AM CST "Am I the only one who feels this way..?
takeit4granted
takeit4grantedtakeit4grantednew berlin, Wisconsin USA4 Threads 785 Posts
Polarbutterfly: My heart has been broken beyond repair.Yet,what can
I do?How do I go on..?Is there hope..?Is there peace..?
Will the hurt stop..?I'm only human.Do you feel the way I do..?.
This is not about,"Look at me,look at how I hurt".This is about
coping with the pain of heartache....of life.".



( sighs ) sad flower bouquet bouquet
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Jan 28, 2009 2:03 AM CST "Am I the only one who feels this way..?
maybesoon
maybesoonmaybesoonthe moon, Queensland Australia16 Threads 1 Polls 951 Posts
gozoman2: Everything happens for a reason.

We learn.

That is the nature of our journey.



couldn't of said it better!!! all true!!!handshake
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Jan 28, 2009 4:01 AM CST "Am I the only one who feels this way..?
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
Healing Thoughts


Healing thoughts and healing words
Help when we're passing through curt
And work just like a soothing balm
That make us peaceful and calm

It may sound wierd, but that's true
Whenever we're passing through
Trouble, agony, distress and pain
We desperately wish a view of fain

So at that moment if some one shows
Even a glimpse of thoughtful bow
We love and also appreciate it
For it holds value in every bit

So remember this and keep in mind
Things and words that're soothing and kind
Always help in the period of curt
And work like healing thoughts and words.



I have been where you are PB, and I understand the pain, the despair and the loss of Hope...............

It will get better, One day at a time............

Never give up on Hope, as it is within all of us, sometimes we just have a problem finding it..........

I wish you well..............




teddybear
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Jan 28, 2009 4:11 AM CST "Am I the only one who feels this way..?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Everyone has felt like this at sometime, time helps to heal but you don't forget you learn to live with the experience and move on
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Jan 28, 2009 4:13 AM CST "Am I the only one who feels this way..?
rizlared
rizlaredrizlaredNot in Cebu City, Central Visayas Philippines89 Threads 2 Polls 5,588 Posts
Polarbutterfly: My heart has been broken beyond repair.Yet,what can
I do?How do I go on..?Is there hope..?Is there peace..?
Will the hurt stop..?I'm only human.Do you feel the way I do..?.
This is not about,"Look at me,look at how I hurt".This is about
coping with the pain of heartache....of life.".


The pain is intense, tears flow so easily, at night and in the morning.

Time is no healer, but, it allows you to come to terms with your grief, it provides a buffer to learn from.

When you are able, do something totally different, start a new life and use your past experience to help you move towards you new goals.

I have been an engineer all my working life, now, I am studying to become a Teacher, I am moving to another country. I will start a new chapter in my life and I am so looking forward to my future.

Life seems cruel to you at this time in your life, but look around, and you will see others who are in a far worse position, it puts everything into perspective.
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Jan 28, 2009 4:20 AM CST "Am I the only one who feels this way..?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
hug lips
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Jan 28, 2009 4:21 AM CST "Am I the only one who feels this way..?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
vinny1967: Healing Thoughts


Healing thoughts and healing words
Help when we're passing through curt
And work just like a soothing balm
That make us peaceful and calm

It may sound wierd, but that's true
Whenever we're passing through
Trouble, agony, distress and pain
We desperately wish a view of fain

So at that moment if some one shows
Even a glimpse of thoughtful bow
We love and also appreciate it
For it holds value in every bit

So remember this and keep in mind
Things and words that're soothing and kind
Always help in the period of curt
And work like healing thoughts and words.



I have been where you are PB, and I understand the pain, the despair and the loss of Hope...............

It will get better, One day at a time............

Never give up on Hope, as it is within all of us, sometimes we just have a problem finding it..........

I wish you well..............



Beautiful as usualteddybear
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Jan 28, 2009 4:22 AM CST "Am I the only one who feels this way..?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
Polarbutterfly: My heart has been broken beyond repair.Yet,what can
I do?How do I go on..?Is there hope..?Is there peace..?
Will the hurt stop..?I'm only human.Do you feel the way I do..?.
This is not about,"Look at me,look at how I hurt".This is about
coping with the pain of heartache....of life.".
It takes time... broken heart
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Jan 28, 2009 7:28 AM CST "Am I the only one who feels this way..?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Polarbutterfly: My heart has been broken beyond repair.Yet,what can
I do?How do I go on..?Is there hope..?Is there peace..?
Will the hurt stop..?I'm only human.Do you feel the way I do..?.
This is not about,"Look at me,look at how I hurt".This is about
coping with the pain of heartache....of life.".


hug I'm sorry you're hurting right now, PolarB, but remember that your heart is not beyond repair. Take the time to heal, cry it out...and it will hurt less with time. hug And you'll be stronger for it in the end. bouquet
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Jan 28, 2009 7:41 AM CST "Am I the only one who feels this way..?
pubwrite08
pubwrite08pubwrite08Columbus, Georgia USA14 Threads 2,451 Posts
Polarbutterfly: My heart has been broken beyond repair.Yet,what can
I do?How do I go on..?Is there hope..?Is there peace..?
Will the hurt stop..?I'm only human.Do you feel the way I do..?.
This is not about,"Look at me,look at how I hurt".This is about
coping with the pain of heartache....of life.".
Just hang on it will stop. We all know what it is like, I am sure of that.
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Jan 28, 2009 8:29 AM CST "Am I the only one who feels this way..?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Polarbutterfly: My heart has been broken beyond repair.Yet,what can
I do?How do I go on..?Is there hope..?Is there peace..?
Will the hurt stop..?I'm only human.Do you feel the way I do..?.
This is not about,"Look at me,look at how I hurt".This is about
coping with the pain of heartache....of life.".


Ones heart is never broken beyond repair. I, as many have been where you are. "For me", it was about learning to let go with love. Wish them the best and realize they may be doing you a huge favor.

As a woman, human being, I wish my last one all of the best life has to offer, I wish for her everything in life I want, I have love for her, I am no longer in love with her, I do NOT want her back for any reasons..

It took me over a year to come to these realizations..doh
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