In response to: IS THERE ANYONE OUT THERE THAT HAS BEEN COMPLETLEY HEART BROKEN ONCE OR TWICE OR MORE? MY SELF I JUST GOT OUT OF A 7 YR RELATIONSHIP WHERE I NEVER EVEN SEEN IT COMING. THOUGHT WE WERE HAPPY BUT I GUESS SHE WASN'T. HOW DO YOU GUYS GET OVER IT?
Instant Glue! Letting go,which isn't always easy,especially if everything around you is a reminder what could have been. Yeah,Time heals all Wounds,but sometimes Scars hurt too,or are at least uncomfortable. So there aren't really any Hard and Fast Rules.Everyone has to cope as best as they can.
shaun101: IS THERE ANYONE OUT THERE THAT HAS BEEN COMPLETLEY HEART BROKEN ONCE OR TWICE OR MORE? MY SELF I JUST GOT OUT OF A 7 YR RELATIONSHIP WHERE I NEVER EVEN SEEN IT COMING. THOUGHT WE WERE HAPPY BUT I GUESS SHE WASN'T. HOW DO YOU GUYS GET OVER IT?
Hi there! I've been in your shoes before (may be again before I leave the planet) and it really sucks. Nothing wrong with taking some "me time" to find perspective in this situation. And when you find it, you'll also have a little more wisdom to carry you forward. Take the lesson with you, leave the heartache behind...as long as you hang on to the hurt, you give power to the one who did the deed. That's my opinion anyway...
I have had my heart broken by one girl, she was the first and last girl I have completly given my heart to. When she broke my heart it took a long time to get over it, and I can't really say I have ever completly gottan over it. It just takes time, and unfortunetly it won't be until you find the next "real" love of your life, before you can truly but it behind you.
Letting go is not giving up. Mr.or Mrs. Right is always out there you just have to look, bump into or make good choices. Be aware we only have one heart that beats. Broken hearts everyone has sometimes, it's the desire to love and be loved that keeps us going, feeling alive, never lose that!
My heart was broken for a long time after my separation and divorce. I didn't think I would ever get over it. My head was messed up for years. After doing some really crazy stuff and meeting that dreaded pivotal moment square in the face, I took myself out of the dating arena for 5 years, cleaned up my life, became a better mom and now I'm back! Time does heal. Eventually.
I thought my heart was broken a few times as a teenager, until it happened for real. The pain was actually physical when it did happen, took 2 years till I could breath without thinking of him. will never happen again. The expression ' better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all' is crazy..better to never have loved than to feel that pain.
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