What can a black african man do for a whit ladies to fall inlove with them? (311)
JayDogg: I hav never talked like this to any ladies on cs ever b4 nor am i ashamed to admit this or that i am very new to this & to not undrstandin half of what most of u mean fromm phrases to abreveations of this & that so 4 sum of us that hav never touched a computor b4 4month ago please hav a bit more understandin + i am very thank ful 4 help points...
ps hope not 2long if that is what was meant by text talk please explain more tanks...
ps hope not 2long if that is what was meant by text talk please explain more tanks...
I'm sorry you aren't familiar with computers. My apologies, and I hope you have a nice time learning.
About women not responding, it would be unrealistic to expect people to always be responsive in the ways we expect, just because it's the orthodox thing to do. Just like out in the streets, people either respond to a whistle, stare or hello, or they choose not to. No big deal. If they don't have a minute to spare for you, then they are not the people you would want to end up with, right?
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lusciousmile: I'm sorry you aren't familiar with computers. My apologies, and I hope you have a nice time learning. About women not responding, it would be unrealistic to expect people to always be responsive in the ways we expect, just because it's the orthodox thing to do. Just like out in the streets, people either respond to a whistle, stare or hello, or they choose not to. No big deal. If they don't have a minute to spare for you, then they are not the people you would want to end up with, right?
It is nice u hav made the time 2 try & help me through the beginin of what sum people may not understand is a new thing & very intimidatin world which i hav entered in2 i thank u 4not just judgin me as others have done my whole life not 2confuse sum that may think am just lookin 4simpathy which i am not caperable of acceptin & 2those who r so ready 2judge if i had 1 arm missin wood it b so easy 4u 2still judge some1s disability because u carnt see it so easily...
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JayDogg: It is nice u hav made the time 2 try & help me through the beginin of what sum people may not understand is a new thing & very intimidatin world which i hav entered in2 i thank u 4not just judgin me as others have done my whole life not 2confuse sum that may think am just lookin 4simpathy which i am not caperable of acceptin & 2those who r so ready 2judge if i had 1 arm missin wood it b so easy 4u 2still judge some1s disability because u carnt see it so easily...
Yes, I will not give you sympathy, but understanding.
If you don't mind my asking, are you Gambian?
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JayDogg: It is nice u hav made the time 2 try & help me through the beginin of what sum people may not understand is a new thing & very intimidatin world which i hav entered in2 i thank u 4not just judgin me as others have done my whole life not 2confuse sum that may think am just lookin 4simpathy which i am not caperable of acceptin & 2those who r so ready 2judge if i had 1 arm missin wood it b so easy 4u 2still judge some1s disability because u carnt see it so easily...
Ok well here´s the thing JayDogg, and please bear in mind that not everybody will agree with me.
I teach English, but I also include colloquial English and at times, text speak, so that my students are aware of every kind of English they may encounter. However, text speak is not particularly attractive on a dating site. If you could just try to type normally I´m sure more people would warm to you.
Grammar or spelling mistakes don´t matter (to me yes, but that´s my job sorry, can´t ignore it) just try not to sound as though you are sending a text message from your mobile!
In the main people here are very accepting and don´t judge if we can help it.
Good luck.
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To the other ladies, as i am not 1to jump the gun & judge so quickly as yourself`s sxc666/jan1305/conrad73 it is mayb past your bed times y u hav not bein that quick 2respond 2my requst 4assistance cos i`m sure u wil be so quick 2help or ask if people hav such problems b4 u judge so meanly in future or is it just in your nature 2b so inhumain 2an other human bein...
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Iam sorry 4 putin u in last reply jan1305
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JayDogg: Iam sorry 4 putin u in last reply jan1305
It's ok. Jan is cool actually.
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JayDogg: To the other ladies, as i am not 1to jump the gun & judge so quickly as yourself`s sxc666/jan1305/conrad73 it is mayb past your bed times y u hav not bein that quick 2respond 2my requst 4assistance cos i`m sure u wil be so quick 2help or ask if people hav such problems b4 u judge so meanly in future or is it just in your nature 2b so inhumain 2an other human bein...
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What to respond to.....I'll just touch on these point. As far as the typing goes, just try to type the English you know and try to spell each word correctly, There'll be mistakes, and everyone knows this, so if there's a mistake in spelling, don't worry about it. And as far as white people and black people marring, it's a personal choice for some and for others it just never happens even though the person might be open to dating someone of color. Personally, I don't think I'd mind, I'd be open to it. And please don't think there aren't white women who don't fall in love with black men, because there are. I know this white lady whom I've known for years, she had a child by this black man, in love with him, and very excited that he has fianlly proposed. That doesn't sound like all white woman are against dating black men to me and she is my friend. It is sad though that there is still a society out there that look down at it. What I've always thought in my mind, which I believe to be true, is what matters is if the man treats the woman right and if he loves her. 
Best wishes
to all of us because we all need it. 
Best wishes
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Siaka36: what can a black african man do to attract white ladies for a good relationship...? either marriage or friendship...
I have heard that all you have to do is whip out the starry one eyed monster and the girls just coo with love------ This thread is Archived ------
Mayb u wil hav more of an understandin of the way my mind does & does not work,my brain & hands do not comunicate in unisen as most people do & just because i was brought up not to let anything hold me back inlife i am doin this + even tryin (learn d corse) hope i`m aloud to mention that, in just bare basick of how a computer works, as i said i have never acceped anyones simpathy nor will i,as my life is not about this...
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something: I have heard that all you have to do is whip out the starry one eyed monster and the girls just coo with love
You heard right!
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Thank u plus the other ladie did not get her name wright before replying but wil try as hard as i can to take on board comments, plus as i said in another thread somewhere i no what it means to be slightly gifted in this department & no it only means long term that you are used for your gifts & nolledge of how to use them ,which to me is about as much use as a woman who did not say boo/hello to me entering a venue as telling me half way through or end of night i look atrative once she has cosumed a sertain amount of allcoholic beverages not flaterin what so ever at all...
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JayDogg: Thank u plus the other ladie did not get her name wright before replying but wil try as hard as i can to take on board comments, plus as i said in another thread somewhere i no what it means to be slightly gifted in this department & no it only means long term that you are used for your gifts & nolledge of how to use them ,which to me is about as much use as a woman who did not say boo/hello to me entering a venue as telling me half way through or end of night i look atrative once she has cosumed a sertain amount of allcoholic beverages not flaterin what so ever at all...
each to there own my friend. I personally find it a bit of a turn on when the woman is half drunk loose and ripe for the laying 
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lusciousmile: It's ok. Jan is cool actually.
Thanks Lush
Thanks JayDogg too!
I like being cool! 
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lusciousmile: Yes, I will not give you sympathy, but understanding.
If you don't mind my asking, are you Gambian?
If you don't mind my asking, are you Gambian?
No lusciousmile i missted that little bit at the botterm i am half from granada my mum`s side & half jamican my dad`s side but i can say i have more of my mothers traits
than my dad`s
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something: each to there own my friend. I personally find it a bit of a turn on when the woman is half drunk loose and ripe for the laying providing all concerned are single of curse
Yes if you are both in the same codition on a night out & not in your place of work as it has bein mine for sum years now from one thing to another work & play do not mix`s only a bit of harmless flirting its naturaly in the blood of most as well as part of the job but thats cos i`m a people person...
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JayDogg: No lusciousmile i missted that little bit at the botterm i am half from granada my mum`s side & half jamican my dad`s side but i can say i have more of my mothers traits than my dad`s if this is any help...
Do you have a Jamaican accent like Sean Paul?
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ps hope not 2long if that is what was meant by text talk please explain more tanks...