symbolistartistHanko, Southern Finland Finland761 posts
abbiye: well the truth is most white women think most black african men are scammers just after their money and a free ride to the western world.frankly i dont blame them for the way they feel about african men,am an african girl,that likes white men,but am being treated the same way,so its not only the white women that do this,some white men behave the same way too:i guess we really do have a bad reputation
Now here's the core of the issue. We are all afraid of cultural differences and scammers. I just tried to give an Asian guy a chance. When I smelled control issues and inequality and lack of respect for my opinions I told him off. Guess what I got. Several hours of highly abusive and aggressive phone calls and sms's. It's not funny. I can bypass it and get on with my life but he was doing exactly what he claimed he didn't want to do, which was give his kind an even worse reputation. If a man can't understand that a woman is being careful because of bad experiences and a lot of bad stories then they should stick with their own kind.
symbolistartist: Now here's the core of the issue. We are all afraid of cultural differences and scammers. I just tried to give an Asian guy a chance. When I smelled control issues and inequality and lack of respect for my opinions I told him off. Guess what I got. Several hours of highly abusive and aggressive phone calls and sms's. It's not funny. I can bypass it and get on with my life but he was doing exactly what he claimed he didn't want to do, which was give his kind an even worse reputation. If a man can't understand that a woman is being careful because of bad experiences and a lot of bad stories then they should stick with their own kind.
KEEP IT ON THE SITE,instead giving out a lot of personal Phone-no's and E-Mail Addys!
quote=Siaka36]what can a black african man do to attract white ladies for a good relationship...? either marriage or friendship... Why don't you like black ladies?[
Siaka36: what can a black african man do to attract white ladies for a good relationship...? either marriage or friendship...
I just got on and I'm not going to read back 17 pages to see if anyone has asked but.... Why are you so interested in a white woman? Why not someone, no matter what race, that you can love and she loves you? You're putting all your eggs in one basket.
Siaka36: what can a black african man do to attract white ladies for a good relationship...? either marriage or friendship...
Sounds to me like your obsessed. That in itself would send off warnings. Why the great interest in White Woman, You live in Inda according to your profile. Lots of beautiful ladies there. I would say if you approach a woman any woman with the types of questions you are possing here she would have to be a nut case to entertain you.
There are lots of black men dating and even married to white women maybe you should ask them for guildance. You could also look at yourself and ask others close to you what they really think after letting them read you posts.
couscous: It keeps the world in balance if we stick to our own
My paternal Grandfather name is Judah Plumber, and no he is not black. My maternal grandmother was a white woman, but she was raised on a reservation. mY Dad who graduated from college at seventeen. Was dark like charcoal, and he taught me never to judge people by the color of their skin, and he also said when I married my white husband in 1980. "Who cares what "people" think. What do you "feel" in your heart.
May 19, 2009 9:12 PM CST What can a black african man do for a whit ladies to fall inlove with them?
couscouschristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand40 Posts
couscouschristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand40 posts
pubwrite08: My paternal Grandfather name is Judah Plumber, and no he is not black. My maternal grandmother was a white woman, but she was raised on a reservation. mY Dad who graduated from college at seventeen. Was dark like charcoal, and he taught me never to judge people by the color of their skin, and he also said when I married my white husband in 1980. "Who cares what "people" think. What do you "feel" in your heart.
Yes, agree with you totally, but nobody has bothered to read my thread that said i was just pulling yer chain, trying to get a bite, did i go too far etc. Maybe i should not get so carried away in winding people up SORRY ALL
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