DoznEggs: The problem here Siaka36 is you are not "listening" to what these nice people are saying. Your mind is closed, open it.
I leave you with this and my good wishes that you find happiness. Perhaps this will find it's way into your ears.....
Close your eyes, you will see no color. People are people, look past the color of their skin, look past the color of your skin, search with a happy heart, not an angry heart, and the cloud you carry with you will part to let the sun shine for you too.
Wishing you happiness, it's a wonderful world when you can travel it with a smile.
buzzy: Stop with the racial indentification markers. As soon as you identify yourself as a race, or color it creates a barrier between two races. You don't see me calling myself a Dutch, Irish, White American do you. I do not define myself or others by their color. Only by who they are as a person. The reason you can't get a white woman has nothing to do with the color of your skin. I see plenty of mixed marriages in the US. I suggest you take a deeper look in the mirror for the answer.
JayDogg: Hi not to get into all the racial thing & all that , but most of the ladies will not even respond to let u no that they are not interested, so how is bein yourself ever goner work when so many ladies have such high standards but carnt or dont even offer the same in return ,is it any wonder they can be on waitin till doomsday comes to find thier night on a horse (this is a modern day, come on ladies no bodies perfect)...
I canna speak for other ladies. I do respond to my emails and let the gentleman know that I may have found someone after communicationg for the last six months and we are meeting when he returns to the USA from abroad.
I offer friendship and am upfront about that. I will waste no ones time, nor will I play games. There are many whom have thanked me for this, being thoughtful of their feelings.
There are others that have ignored what I wrote and keep hounding me with when are we going to get to know each other.
Then there are the few whom respond very angrily and demand to know whom is stealling me from them.
I was raised to be respectful. Respect IS also a two way street.
If you are not respectful to yourself as well as to others, Then how do you expect others to respect you?
Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia3,764 posts
CjTenorSax: I canna speak for other ladies. I do respond to my emails and let the gentleman know that I may have found someone after communicationg for the last six months and we are meeting when he returns to the USA from abroad.
I offer friendship and am upfront about that. I will waste no ones time, nor will I play games. There are many whom have thanked me for this, being thoughtful of their feelings.
There are others that have ignored what I wrote and keep hounding me with when are we going to get to know each other.
Then there are the few whom respond very angrily and demand to know whom is stealling me from them.
I was raised to be respectful. Respect IS also a two way street.
If you are not respectful to yourself as well as to others, Then how do you expect others to respect you?
Siaka36: am sure almost all black african man are gentle men but richness is agift from God.... many african are here for long no white ladies are accepting them? so wiht out richness no white can fall inlove with black african?
In response to: ....but richness is a gift from God...
Don't think you'll ever get too many riches if you wait for a "Gift"!
Siaka36: what can a black african man do to attract white ladies for a good relationship...? either marriage or friendship...
Well someone not being prejudiced for starters would be nice... your attitude of wanting to find someone white would put me off you before it even got started... try falling in love with the person and not the skin colour.
Siaka36: what can a black african man do to attract white ladies for a good relationship...? either marriage or friendship...
I'm not sure, Saika36. There is such a lot of Scam going on based in Nigeria, and I myself am victim of a Ghanian one, right next do Nigeria. I lost thousands in the double digits. And after a 19 month relationship, found out he was never REGISTERED on the British Airways plane, never cancelled, didn't show...he was NEVER ON the list...So I knew I'd invested weeks of my life and lost the farmland, thousands of money for a Pastor that isn't probably really a Pastor.
I understand you rattraction for white women. I have the same for black/brown men. I've had it since I saw the first black man in my hometown, and I was only 5, which was extremely rare, as we were a fair distance from the USA border.I have wanted to be in missions to Africa since Grade 4 age 9. I will go yet. My church and another here in my area, send work forces over yearly, into Kenya, Rwanda and Senegal. I think the dark race is BEAUTIFUL. And i'd love to be married to a man of color.
I'm not sure what you could do, except for to hang out where missionaires/teachers are. Talk to white folk in the market place. They could be 2 ladies on a vacation, and not married to anyone. College exchange students/Bible Colleges/Christian missions and churches-a lot of our teens and twenties go to Foreign Lands under Ron Luce Ministries for Teens...
Above all, ask God to send you the white woman of your dreams. He loves you...and as you follow Him, He will provide all things.
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