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Feb 3, 2009 8:30 AM CST A Constructive post, I hope
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
hopefloats: KMD!


Thank you hun..it really just get to me
why someone on here as some much interest
in my Married Lifedunno
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Feb 3, 2009 8:30 AM CST A Constructive post, I hope
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
kissmedeeply: Thank you hun..it really just get to me
why someone on here as some much interest
in my Married Life


has so muchdoh
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Feb 3, 2009 8:31 AM CST A Constructive post, I hope
snugglebunnie
snugglebunniesnugglebunnieDover, New Jersey USA49 Threads 284 Posts
My two cents is:

If they don't have a photo, chances are he/she is married.

If he brags about candlelight dinners, holding hands when walking on the beach



DazzleYou: Since this is a dating site, and all come from a myriad of experiences with online dating, I want to know what you consider a red flag, or what concerns you when talking with a prospective match?

I will go first.

1 - When I read a profile, if it is laden with profanities or is not written with coherent thought, that is a red flag to me.

2 - if someone is clearly outside of my preferences

3 - If they want to go to email too quickly - sometimes even in the initial mail they send on the site.

What can you add?
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Feb 3, 2009 8:32 AM CST A Constructive post, I hope
catwomen64
catwomen64catwomen64somewhere, New Jersey USA15 Threads 1,628 Posts
kissmedeeply: Thank you hun..it really just get to me
why someone on here as some much interest
in my Married Life
sad flower
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Feb 3, 2009 8:33 AM CST A Constructive post, I hope
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
hello catwoman.

I am ok..really but tired of this
same woman always having something
not so interesting to say to me..

Tired of her coming in and saying
things she knows nothing about..
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Feb 3, 2009 8:35 AM CST A Constructive post, I hope
snugglebunnie
snugglebunniesnugglebunnieDover, New Jersey USA49 Threads 284 Posts
Yesterday I received an email telling me how beautiful I am, how wonderful my profile is, yada, yada, yada with BS. Then he said "women of your continent have so much to offer". His profile said he is in Florida and he looked like a clean cut American man. When he used the word "continent" I knew it was one of those Nicaraugan (sp?)scams. A police officer I know said it's best not to even answer those emails so I deleted it right away.
DazzleYou: Since this is a dating site, and all come from a myriad of experiences with online dating, I want to know what you consider a red flag, or what concerns you when talking with a prospective match?

I will go first.

1 - When I read a profile, if it is laden with profanities or is not written with coherent thought, that is a red flag to me.

2 - if someone is clearly outside of my preferences

3 - If they want to go to email too quickly - sometimes even in the initial mail they send on the site.

What can you add?
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Feb 3, 2009 8:36 AM CST A Constructive post, I hope
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
kissmedeeply: hello catwoman.

I am ok..really but tired of this
same woman always having something
not so interesting to say to me..

Tired of her coming in and saying
things she knows nothing about..


Harrassment can turn into ugly things. Really makes you wonder about the depths of the person's mind.help help
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Feb 3, 2009 8:37 AM CST A Constructive post, I hope
snugglebunnie
snugglebunniesnugglebunnieDover, New Jersey USA49 Threads 284 Posts
Hey, that's what I said about compromises in my profile where it asks what is your ideal date. Compromise, compromise, compromise.
pretzelman: the biggest "red flag" to me is...I deserve it. I won't settle!
Get over yourself! We all have to make compromises.
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Feb 3, 2009 8:42 AM CST A Constructive post, I hope
catwomen64
catwomen64catwomen64somewhere, New Jersey USA15 Threads 1,628 Posts
doh
kissmedeeply: hello catwoman.

I am ok..really but tired of this
same woman always having something
not so interesting to say to me..

Tired of her coming in and saying
things she knows nothing about..
dunno confused
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Feb 3, 2009 8:43 AM CST A Constructive post, I hope
catwomen64
catwomen64catwomen64somewhere, New Jersey USA15 Threads 1,628 Posts
Sorry to hear thatmumbling
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Feb 3, 2009 8:43 AM CST A Constructive post, I hope
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Its confusing to me too catwoman

Hope you are enjoying ur daybouquet
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Feb 3, 2009 8:46 AM CST A Constructive post, I hope
catwomen64
catwomen64catwomen64somewhere, New Jersey USA15 Threads 1,628 Posts
kissmedeeply: Its confusing to me too catwoman

Hope you are enjoying ur day
Well try to enjoy the rest of yours dollbouquet
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Feb 3, 2009 8:47 AM CST A Constructive post, I hope
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
catwomen64: Well try to enjoy the rest of yours doll


Thank you i will..

My son is off from School..so my Husband and I
and alex will be going out soon..

Have a great daybouquet
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Feb 3, 2009 8:49 AM CST A Constructive post, I hope
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
livinglarge: Hi K,
so sorry you are being hassled
please report the person doing this to you,
I find it hard to believe this is happening ,
you know CS can take action, let them do it


Well tired of her being in my business

It shouldnt matter to her about my life
anyway...

My Husband has read everything and laughs about it..

but agrees why should it matter to her..about our marriagedunno
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Feb 3, 2009 8:51 AM CST A Constructive post, I hope
Hammermann
HammermannHammermannAuxvasse, Missouri USA1 Threads 6 Posts
Hi everyone!wave
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Feb 3, 2009 8:52 AM CST A Constructive post, I hope
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
kissmedeeply: Well tired of her being in my business

It shouldnt matter to her about my life
anyway...

My Husband has read everything and laughs about it..

but agrees why should it matter to her..about our marriage

the person needs to get a life thumbs up
its sad ,when you think about it , to feel the need to disrespect others because you have no life uh oh
let her on K,
comfort
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Feb 3, 2009 8:53 AM CST A Constructive post, I hope
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Hammermann: Hi everyone!
wave
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Feb 3, 2009 8:55 AM CST A Constructive post, I hope
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
livinglarge: the person needs to get a life
its sad ,when you think about it , to feel the need to disrespect others because you have no life
let her on K,
I know and its unbelievable..

but as my Husband says to me..

It doesnt matter what others say or think..

It only matters to You and Me..

We were there when we were saying our vows..not them

He is a great Man..

I have hit the jackpotgrin
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Feb 3, 2009 8:58 AM CST A Constructive post, I hope
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
kissmedeeply: I know and its unbelievable..

but as my Husband says to me..

It doesnt matter what others say or think..

It only matters to You and Me..


We were there when we were saying our vows..not them

He is a great Man..

I have hit the jackpot


I know you have K,
don't pay any heed to those who put you down.

You are married and that is all there is to it thumbs up

Hey don't forget you are a great lady too,

he is lucky to have you.
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Feb 3, 2009 9:00 AM CST A Constructive post, I hope
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
livinglarge: I know you have K,
don't pay any heed to those who put you down.

You are married and that is all there is to it

Hey don't forget you are a great lady too,

he is lucky to have you.


aww ur sweet..i am lucky to get to know you

Your a great ladybouquet
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