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Feb 2, 2009 7:59 PM CST A Constructive post, I hope
Wednesday74
Wednesday74Wednesday74Central, Florida USA3 Threads 1 Polls 813 Posts
Everybody on CS scares the hell out of me so I don't read the profiles, just look at the pictures!
grin peace yay head banger rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 2, 2009 8:01 PM CST A Constructive post, I hope
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Oh Doc!

I could be your worst patient in this thread.

But I will not.
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Feb 2, 2009 8:01 PM CST A Constructive post, I hope
immanuelle
immanuelleimmanuelleThe Hague, South Holland Netherlands63 Threads 1,962 Posts
People who are over 30 and are still in the 'student' or 'studying business' group. And businessmen who can't quite define what business they are in. Must be secret agent stuff. dunno
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Feb 2, 2009 8:13 PM CST A Constructive post, I hope
nurcnurc
nurcnurcnurcnurcLongwood, Florida USA6 Threads 1,192 Posts
My first clue:

Subject heading of email: hello pretty

Second clue: am _______________ (fill in the blank with all American name).


The rest: all of the above that everyone has said.
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Feb 2, 2009 8:19 PM CST A Constructive post, I hope
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
nurcnurc: My first clue:

Subject heading of email: hello pretty

Second clue: am _______________ (fill in the blank with all American name).The rest: all of the above that everyone has said.
You had him e-mail you also?rolling on the floor laughing handshake
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Feb 2, 2009 8:19 PM CST A Constructive post, I hope
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
Arlene101: You had him e-mail you also?
From Spain I wonder?
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Feb 2, 2009 8:49 PM CST A Constructive post, I hope
nurcnurc
nurcnurcnurcnurcLongwood, Florida USA6 Threads 1,192 Posts
Arlene101: From Spain I wonder?


Oh no Arlene! They all hail from the U.S.! Funny thing, they often can't tell me the capitol of their state though! laugh
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Feb 2, 2009 8:51 PM CST A Constructive post, I hope
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
<------------- I am from Tehran, NY.

honestangel
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Feb 2, 2009 8:59 PM CST A Constructive post, I hope
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
Full figured or Curvy is typically the first red flag uh oh
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Feb 2, 2009 8:59 PM CST A Constructive post, I hope
Tumpa
TumpaTumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 Posts
DazzleYou: Since this is a dating site, and all come from a myriad of experiences with online dating, I want to know what you consider a red flag, or what concerns you when talking with a prospective match?

I will go first.

1 - When I read a profile, if it is laden with profanities or is not written with coherent thought, that is a red flag to me.

2 - if someone is clearly outside of my preferences

3 - If they want to go to email too quickly - sometimes even in the initial mail they send on the site.

What can you add?


What? No Russian women writing to you from USA addresses, claiming they want to spend their life with you or looking for good, clean, honest relations and claiming to immediately be your boyfriend?
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Feb 2, 2009 9:19 PM CST A Constructive post, I hope
hrt4lse
hrt4lsehrt4lseRedding, California USA13 Threads 1,233 Posts
Ambrose2007: I see much you profile and thinking life is short with many dreams someone must fulfill today or sooner at your convenience. Am looking for very much responses from you regarding futures of us. Please contacting Janebs@scammer.com.


So YOUR the one who's been writing those emails to me!!! laugh
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Feb 2, 2009 9:27 PM CST A Constructive post, I hope
hrt4lse
hrt4lsehrt4lseRedding, California USA13 Threads 1,233 Posts
One of the red flags is one that Tater just jokingly mentioned...being from Tehran, NY

I had someone trying to be from California from a made up city & I called him on it.

Another red flag is when they claim to be from somewhere you might actually be familiar with and they can't answer one simple question about the place.

Another one, when their location is constantly changing. Like from Clyde, CA then all of a sudden they're from Clyde, OK (There is a Clyde in CA, two actually, and I'm very familiar with one of them.)
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Feb 2, 2009 9:28 PM CST A Constructive post, I hope
petegozo
petegozopetegozoVictoria, Gozo Malta10 Threads 605 Posts
Women who put six pictures with loooong serious faces on their profile claiming being humorous and funny or being zesty and living life.

Well excuse me but why do you look like crying on all these pics ? laugh
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Feb 2, 2009 9:34 PM CST A Constructive post, I hope
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
hrt4lse: One of the red flags is one that Tater just jokingly mentioned...being from Tehran, NY

I had someone trying to be from California from a made up city & I called him on it.

Another red flag is when they claim to be from somewhere you might actually be familiar with and they can't answer one simple question about the place.

Another one, when their location is constantly changing. Like from Clyde, CA then all of a sudden they're from Clyde, OK (There is a Clyde in CA, two actually, and I'm very familiar with one of them.)



confused professor Are you saying I'm lying about being from Tehran NY...very mad I am from Terhan NY..laugh
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Feb 2, 2009 9:46 PM CST A Constructive post, I hope
hrt4lse
hrt4lsehrt4lseRedding, California USA13 Threads 1,233 Posts
Tater: Are you saying I'm lying about being from Tehran NY... I am from Terhan NY..


Make up your mind laugh
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Feb 2, 2009 9:48 PM CST A Constructive post, I hope
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
hrt4lse: Make up your mind


I ran out of makeup, so I just put shaving cream on itlaugh
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Feb 2, 2009 9:59 PM CST A Constructive post, I hope
catwomen64
catwomen64catwomen64somewhere, New Jersey USA15 Threads 1,628 Posts
Tater: I resent that... You just be jealous cuz I be talkin out ya league..

Red flags to me are well hell there never ending....

I look over every aspect of their profile, and see if I can find things that don't match up with their picture. for example that me42u guy, his profile said he was 6'0 but you could tell by the pics. that he wasn't any taller than 5'7 his backround walls were white and the wall had a sword or something on it. that told me it wasn't his house most likely an office or state building somewhere. Though he tried to talk gangsta I could tell by his capitalization and punctuation that it was a phoney act. He was also on the computer alot and at night, which that is when real gangsters make their money, then he was also up pretty early, most gangsters sleep til about noon..that is an example on one person I checked out recently, I analyze everyone...

I pay attention to the backround of people pics.

I pay attention to their threads and posts. are they attention hungry, are they high strung, do they stay mad and pick out certian posts of people who have argued with just to restart another when it is obviously uncalled for..

I could go on for hours.. I consider myself "fair minded" but am probably more aware then most.. I judge people VERY quickly, and my judgements are usually spot on
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing doh doh
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Feb 2, 2009 10:01 PM CST A Constructive post, I hope
Chanel48
Chanel48Chanel48Tampa Bay area, Florida USA1 Threads 16 Posts
Wow Tater! And I thought I was observant!!

Are you sure YOU don't have a background in law enforcement? What you DO have, dear, is a degree in awareness.professor

Good for you! You go, guy...no flies on you!
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Feb 2, 2009 10:15 PM CST A Constructive post, I hope
sxc666: Biggest Red Flag would be adults talking in that Gangster talk

Just banged up your profile, yo sound hawt babe. Hit me up and we can shizzle

Red Flag cant stand it.
giggle giggle giggle giggle We have more in common than either of us first thought when i first joined don't we?

Hello Tina.hug hug handshake hug
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Feb 2, 2009 10:19 PM CST A Constructive post, I hope
dillydally: Moaners and complainers i despise so if i see that in a post i wont bother with the profile .Plus judgmental people again if i see it the forums first i wont reply to the mail .

The other day i was looking through the "who's online " saw a funny looking pic and took a closer look ............within an hour i had mail thanking me for doing so ......strange to me


When you take a closer look it shows up on the persons Who's viewed me option in the menu. Some people DO thank others for viewing their profiles. I have gotten a few of them.hug
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