Is it better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all? ( Archived) (29)

Feb 9, 2009 9:19 AM CST Is it better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all?
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
vonney: Well you know how I stand on this one, just dont understand that ppl feel that it is better to have had pain than not to have had pain


I don't think I

A) had a choice

B) wish for the pain part, just the love part

C) plan to go for B) but as I said... A) rules.

wine
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Feb 9, 2009 9:21 AM CST Is it better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all?
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
mike69spain: I don't think I

A) had a choice

B) wish for the pain part, just the love part

C) plan to go for B) but as I said... A) rules.


Thats really back to the thread about is love a choice?

I think it is and we can chose not to go there. I know I do.
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Feb 9, 2009 10:29 AM CST Is it better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all?
snugglebunnie
snugglebunniesnugglebunnieDover, New Jersey USA49 Threads 284 Posts
Would you still do it if you knew you would wind up in bankruptcy when he dumped you??? My emotions and my bank account still feel the pain of what "love" did to me. Sorry for being negative.
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Feb 9, 2009 10:35 AM CST Is it better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all?
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
snugglebunnie: Would you still do it if you knew you would wind up in bankruptcy when he dumped you??? My emotions and my bank account still feel the pain of what "love" did to me. Sorry for being negative.


"Hi Snuggle.....Never be sorry about being negative..at least
when the subject is about love,for love makes us do strange things.And,although we pay for it..isn't it worth the fight for love..?"


hug
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Feb 9, 2009 10:38 AM CST Is it better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all?
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
vonney: Well you know how I stand on this one, just dont understand that ppl feel that it is better to have had pain than not to have had pain



yes, we are in total agreement on this!!thumbs up
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Feb 9, 2009 10:45 AM CST Is it better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all?
snugglebunnie
snugglebunniesnugglebunnieDover, New Jersey USA49 Threads 284 Posts
Thank you. I appreciate your reply.

Polarbutterfly: "Hi Snuggle.....Never be sorry about being negative..at least
when the subject is about love,for love makes us do strange things.And,although we pay for it..isn't it worth the fight for love..?"
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Feb 9, 2009 11:22 AM CST Is it better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all?
Lillym
LillymLillymSliema, Majjistral Malta33 Threads 3,391 Posts
Yeh.....despite the hurt, I guess its better to have loved then not at all
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Feb 9, 2009 11:36 AM CST Is it better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all?
slim1977
slim1977slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA16 Threads 943 Posts
I have to agree with the OP on this one, having had faced death two times, one having never been in love and the other, having loved but lost, I was a much more content person for having experienced this. wether you stay in love forever or it comes to an end it is one of the fealings I would never give up!!!!
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Feb 9, 2009 12:01 PM CST Is it better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all?
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
"She walks in Beauty, like the night
Of cloudness climes and starry skies,
And all that's best of dark and bright
Meet in her aspect and her eyes..."
Lord Byron


To be loved like this would be an honour. It would scold my heart but also humble me that some other being felt as intense towards me.

It would make me feel like I was the most beloved woman in the world.

It would send me flying over the world, in a state of complete entrancement..

To be loved like this would be worth the hurt…..

Love and hate are mirroring emotions. One can inspire the other, when passionate emotions are involved. BOTH are soul shaking emotions, and BOTH can be empowering, if harnessed correctly.

Bitterness, coldness and indifference are empty emotions. I have no place for them in my life..

JMO
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