i broke up with my girlfriend 1 week ago i met her on here the thing is i have really felt something for her .. but i did something wrong i had my mind on my baby and she took it the wrong way because i was not paying so much attention to her she says she is not sure what she want because i disrepected her i really did not mean to i cant get over her and today we went out and she said she felt uncomtable can anybody help ????
it hurting so much and i told her i can change the way i was i told her it was just a phase i was going through i just had things on my mind and its true
bennett1608: i broke up with my girlfriend 1 week ago i met her on here the thing is i have really felt something for her .. but i did something wrong i had my mind on my baby and she took it the wrong way because i was not paying so much attention to her she says she is not sure what she want because i disrepected her i really did not mean to i cant get over her and today we went out and she said she felt uncomtable can anybody help ????
Sounds like she wants out of the relationship since you have a child. And what's worse is she makes you feel guilty about your child.
SirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK4,138 posts
Any potential partner will have to take into account your baby, perhaps it's as well it is early in the relationship to find out your girlfriend can't handle it............................
Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia3,764 posts
bennett1608: it hurting so much and i told her i can change the way i was i told her it was just a phase i was going through i just had things on my mind and its true
Never change for no woman Your child comes first and your new gal comes second!
bennett1608: it hurting so much and i told her i can change the way i was i told her it was just a phase i was going through i just had things on my mind and its true
I think you need time with your child first. Give yourself time to know your child and what you really want before you jump into another relationship.
bennett1608: it hurting so much and i told her i can change the way i was i told her it was just a phase i was going through i just had things on my mind and its true
You caught up again, which shows she was at least willing to listen. Maybe need more time. Does she refuse to ever see you again? If so, give her some space, otherwise you might drive her away even more. The situation is obviously much more complicated than the few lines you have written about, which is understandable.
Keep the lines of communication open. That is all you can do. In the meantime, as you have much on your mind anyway, perhaps you, too need time to work some things out. And meantime, do go and enjoy your baby. JMO.
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