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Feb 14, 2009 4:09 PM CST i thought it was special
bennett1608
bennett1608bennett1608Sliema, Majjistral Malta9 Threads 31 Posts
i broke up with my girlfriend 1 week ago i met her on here the thing is i have really felt something for her .. but i did something wrong i had my mind on my baby and she took it the wrong way because i was not paying so much attention to her she says she is not sure what she want because i disrepected her i really did not mean to i cant get over her and today we went out and she said she felt uncomtable can anybody help ????
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Feb 14, 2009 4:10 PM CST i thought it was special
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
Whose baby?conversing
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Feb 14, 2009 4:11 PM CST i thought it was special
bennett1608
bennett1608bennett1608Sliema, Majjistral Malta9 Threads 31 Posts
my baby from my ex girlfriend
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Feb 14, 2009 4:11 PM CST i thought it was special
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
I can't help, but I can send you a virtual hug.

comfort hug
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Feb 14, 2009 4:12 PM CST i thought it was special
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
bennett1608: my baby from my ex girlfriend


Never bother with a woman who doesnt allow your child to come first!hug
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Feb 14, 2009 4:12 PM CST i thought it was special
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
Mercedes1: Whose baby?


Merc, you posted 24secs agao. Where's your profile gone???
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Feb 14, 2009 4:12 PM CST i thought it was special
bennett1608
bennett1608bennett1608Sliema, Majjistral Malta9 Threads 31 Posts
it hurting so much and i told her i can change the way i was i told her it was just a phase i was going through i just had things on my mind and its true
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Feb 14, 2009 4:13 PM CST i thought it was special
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
venere08: Merc, you posted 24secs agao. Where's your profile gone???


'ago'
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Feb 14, 2009 4:13 PM CST i thought it was special
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
venere08: Merc, you posted 24secs agao. Where's your profile gone???


Its not showing me what your seeingconfused
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Feb 14, 2009 4:13 PM CST i thought it was special
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Call Lagoonayawn
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Feb 14, 2009 4:13 PM CST i thought it was special
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
bennett1608: i broke up with my girlfriend 1 week ago i met her on here the thing is i have really felt something for her .. but i did something wrong i had my mind on my baby and she took it the wrong way because i was not paying so much attention to her she says she is not sure what she want because i disrepected her i really did not mean to i cant get over her and today we went out and she said she felt uncomtable can anybody help ????



Sounds like she wants out of the relationship since you have a child. And what's worse is she makes you feel guilty about your child. scold scold
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Feb 14, 2009 4:14 PM CST i thought it was special
SirenLydia
SirenLydiaSirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK45 Threads 2 Polls 4,138 Posts
Any potential partner will have to take into
account your baby,
perhaps it's as well it is early in the
relationship to find out your girlfriend
can't handle it............................comfort

bouquet devil
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Feb 14, 2009 4:14 PM CST i thought it was special
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
bennett1608: it hurting so much and i told her i can change the way i was i told her it was just a phase i was going through i just had things on my mind and its true


Never change for no womanthumbs down
Your child comes first and your new gal comes second!thumbs up
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Feb 14, 2009 4:14 PM CST i thought it was special
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
bennett1608: it hurting so much and i told her i can change the way i was i told her it was just a phase i was going through i just had things on my mind and its true



I think you need time with your child first. Give yourself time to know your child and what you really want before you jump into another relationship.

How old is your baby?


comfort
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Feb 14, 2009 4:15 PM CST i thought it was special
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
Mercedes1: Never bother with a woman who doesnt allow your child to come first!


Totally agree. thumbs up
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Feb 14, 2009 4:15 PM CST i thought it was special
allready
allreadyallreadyportland, Oregon USA32 Threads 431 Posts
Your children should always come first. If she had kids she would know that if she was any kind of a mother. blood is always thiicker then water.
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Feb 14, 2009 4:16 PM CST i thought it was special
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
bennett1608: it hurting so much and i told her i can change the way i was i told her it was just a phase i was going through i just had things on my mind and its true


You caught up again, which shows she was at least willing to listen. Maybe need more time. Does she refuse to ever see you again? If so, give her some space, otherwise you might drive her away even more. The situation is obviously much more complicated than the few lines you have written about, which is understandable.

Keep the lines of communication open. That is all you can do. In the meantime, as you have much on your mind anyway, perhaps you, too need time to work some things out. And meantime, do go and enjoy your baby. JMO.

hug wave
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Feb 14, 2009 4:17 PM CST i thought it was special
bennett1608
bennett1608bennett1608Sliema, Majjistral Malta9 Threads 31 Posts
well this damm hurts maybe i shouyld just try and move on but its hard becaus ei grew so close to her
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Feb 14, 2009 4:18 PM CST i thought it was special
bennett1608
bennett1608bennett1608Sliema, Majjistral Malta9 Threads 31 Posts
i keep trying but she just says she dont feel comftable with me
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Feb 14, 2009 4:19 PM CST i thought it was special
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
bennett1608: i keep trying but she just says she dont feel comftable with me



Then move on to greener pastures. Sure it hurts. But keep movin' on.......
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