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CHIP398Huntley, Illinois USA21 Threads 27 PostsWith all the problems I have associated with my disability How doI approachthe ladies and try to get them inteested in writng to me .The ladies do sometimes answer mme but it seems like they lose interest in me very quickly.Is there anything I can do that might help me further?.Thanks chip398
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Just be yourself Chip. This is the second thread you have started and written about pertaining to your disability. If you don't make it so much of a handicap I really think no one else will either. Concentrate on the positive aspects which you have to offer and add to a relationship. We all have our drawbacks so think positively and then so will the women that you email and who email you.
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Chip, you seem like a nice guy and I know there is a woman for you out there.
About a month ago I saw a show on TV about a guy who weighed something like 750 lbs. He was so huge he hadn't been out of that bed for like 2 years. If he went to the beach, the people there would probably have attempted to push him back into the ocean thinking .....oh never mind you get the idea. Anyway, this guy had a beautiful woman who was deeply in love with him. she took care of him, massaged him bathed him, you name it. AND, she met him AFTER she saw him on TV.
The moral of this story is no matter what you look like or what your shortcomings might be there is someone who will love you for the person you are.
BTW, you have too many similar pictures up in fact two are duplicates.
About a month ago I saw a show on TV about a guy who weighed something like 750 lbs. He was so huge he hadn't been out of that bed for like 2 years. If he went to the beach, the people there would probably have attempted to push him back into the ocean thinking .....oh never mind you get the idea. Anyway, this guy had a beautiful woman who was deeply in love with him. she took care of him, massaged him bathed him, you name it. AND, she met him AFTER she saw him on TV.
The moral of this story is no matter what you look like or what your shortcomings might be there is someone who will love you for the person you are.
BTW, you have too many similar pictures up in fact two are duplicates.
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A friend of mine in Scotland suffers from muscular dystrophy, and he clicked on to a local site with women suffering from the same disease, and BINGO! He met a really nice girl and they've been together for the last few years. (AND she was an American)Good luck!
CHIP398: With all the problems I have associated with my disability How doI approachthe ladies and try to get them inteested in writng to me .The ladies do sometimes answer mme but it seems like they lose interest in me very quickly.Is there anything I can do that might help me further?.Thanks chip398
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I don't understand what your disability has to do with it. Mine doesn't seem to affect the way people respond to me... at least not that I'm aware of.
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Also, now that I look at your profile, so much of it is about your disability. In fact, that's the first thing in it! Don't put that in your profile! That is something for you to share as you get to know someone. Not to hide it, but don't make your whole life about what you CAN'T do. JMO
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Possibly Chip, you are using your handicap as an excuse not to get to know a woman better or using it as a crutch, no pun intended, to make excuses of why women will not stay in touch.
Maybe, unintentionally, you keep repeating your handicap to the women and they get turned off?
Maybe, unintentionally, you keep repeating your handicap to the women and they get turned off?
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Yeah man, I dont give a crap about the disability but you need to swap out some of those photos. 
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not that I am by any means an authority, but having read your profile, can I give this advice. as people have said, some different pics, and while I know that you want to let people know about your condition, though I maybe wouldnt name it, that can come out in time. I realize that it is part of who you are, and it shapes you as a person, but keep it positive. the way we presant ourself in our profiles is the first impression, the true key to making this or any site work for you is to be active in the forums, in my opinion. let people see you for who you are, get yourself out there. and may you find what it is you seek.
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