If he/she is so perfect why still single? (42)

Dec 3, 2007 10:05 AM CST If he/she is so perfect why still single?
Dawn50
Dawn50Dawn50Ottawa Valley, Ontario Canada182 Threads 1,338 Posts
I think no one is perfect wink

But I do beleive you can be perfect for each other, compliment in each other smitten

I also beleive being single for so long a person becomes content with life and as the luxury to wait for that connection wink and if it does not happen "C'est la vie" and still enjoy life.




wine
Dec 3, 2007 3:26 PM CST If he/she is so perfect why still single?
CaptainMurray
CaptainMurrayCaptainMurraySelkirk, Manitoba Canada59 Threads 2,130 Posts
I mostly agree with you here Dawn, but I believe life is much more enjoyable with a compatible mate with whom to share.conversing
Dec 3, 2007 3:35 PM CST If he/she is so perfect why still single?
Dawn50
Dawn50Dawn50Ottawa Valley, Ontario Canada182 Threads 1,338 Posts
Soooooooo true Mur hug

Having another to share life, laughter, tears is such a joyhug

So many do not have that luxury of excepting living alone, which brings emotions, lonelyness which many times settle for less what they want in a relationship sigh

wine
Dec 3, 2007 6:28 PM CST If he/she is so perfect why still single?
singleinregina
singleinreginasingleinreginaRegina, Saskatchewan Canada56 Threads 928 Posts
that is so true, and I see people around me "settling" for someone who comes along, just to avoid those feelings of loneliness. I am content to wait for "miss right" to come along, and although it may take a while, I think I will be happier in the long run.
head banger
Dec 3, 2007 6:57 PM CST If he/she is so perfect why still single?
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
It is nice to have someone to share all your up and downs with. A perfect mate is one who lifts you up when you are down.applause
Dec 4, 2007 6:24 AM CST If he/she is so perfect why still single?
curlywolf
curlywolfcurlywolfmontreal, Quebec Canada402 Threads 7,052 Posts
Have to agree with all that's been said.
We do get used to being on our own but it is nice to have a special someone to 'share' our lives with,not just 'have ' in our lives if you understand what I mean.
I don't want someone in my life just to be with someone,I want to share my life,build together for the future and enjoy our time together.
Hope that's where I'm headedwink
Dec 23, 2007 11:02 PM CST If he/she is so perfect why still single?
Tigger59
Tigger59Tigger59Wetaskiwin, Alberta Canada262 Posts
I will never settle but I can picture myself when I'm 75 and sitting in my rocking chair on the back porch all alone.

And then I see myself kicking off and no one will even notice I'm missing until my neighbors complain "what the hell's that stench?"

It would be great to have a significant other in my life but I'm becoming more and more convinced that it's just not in the cards for me. help
Dec 28, 2007 12:13 AM CST If he/she is so perfect why still single?
rhime
rhimerhimevegreville, Alberta Canada35 Posts
Your right no one is perfect everyone has their flaws and beware of anyone who claims they r perfect because that is a flaw. some people have more flaws than others. hell i am so flawed that i on;y had one relationship in mine life so far. there is pluses and minuses to being single for a long time.
Dec 28, 2007 9:29 PM CST If he/she is so perfect why still single?
bbloup
bbloupbbloupMont-Tremblant, Quebec Canada9 Threads 61 Posts
Because he/she is to perfect
Jan 1, 2008 1:09 PM CST If he/she is so perfect why still single?
mostviper
mostvipermostviperguelph, Canada6 Threads 220 Posts
YOU.....will get there without a doubt my dear......i know you will!!!!!comfort
Jan 14, 2008 9:52 AM CST If he/she is so perfect why still single?
MysticalUnicorn
MysticalUnicornMysticalUnicornHamilton, Ontario Canada15 Threads 1 Polls 180 Posts
I think it's all about meeting someone you're compatiable with. Or my problem is, I don't know HOW to meet people if that makes sense. I do not have many friends, so I can't go out anywhere to meet somebody. It's like hard for me to meet anyone. I can say, I am so much happier being alone now though then when I was with my husband. We were just not made for eachother. But now that "fun" of freedom is wearing off and after 6 months, being single is getting old.
Jan 16, 2008 1:35 AM CST If he/she is so perfect why still single?
RaptorFlight
RaptorFlightRaptorFlightLondon, Ontario Canada56 Posts
Dawn50, you are right on the money!

Otherwise how could you explain cases where two people break up and each finds someone with whom they stay for years. And, too, do you know couples who have been together a long time and you just cannot figure out why? You, everyone and not just Dawn50, are judging the opposite-gender person from your perspective and you probably wouldn't be a good match, either.
Jan 16, 2008 11:07 AM CST If he/she is so perfect why still single?
chris0303
chris0303chris0303sault ste marie, Ontario Canada1 Threads 9 Posts
I just dont really know where to look for someone,,,I dont go to bars,,,think its a waste of time and dont think thats where someone meets a true partner,,,,,but have been told a grocery store is the place to meet someone,,always in there but no luck,,,maybe should stop buying cars and working so much,,,AS my oldest daughter has told me
Jan 16, 2008 11:15 AM CST If he/she is so perfect why still single?
pentium
pentiumpentiumToronto, Canada11 Threads 2 Polls 252 Posts
Dude your daughter is part of the problem.
All women desire the same things from men.
It's almost as if they are all hard wired with the same expectations, which is why most of them are single.
Sit your daughter down and ask her to tell you to your face what is exactly wrong with you. If she's decent she'll feel bad about telling you the truth but she will tell you.

They are all the same dude, your daughter no different than the hot momma you crave at the grocery store. They all desire the same things in men and are all attracted to the same physical things.
Try reading their profiles on here if you doubt me. It's like they are all clones or somethingrolling on the floor laughing tongue
Jan 16, 2008 11:23 AM CST If he/she is so perfect why still single?
MotorMouth
MotorMouthMotorMouthLondon, Ontario Canada2 Threads 38 Posts
Im perfectsmitten
Jan 16, 2008 11:24 AM CST If he/she is so perfect why still single?
chris0303
chris0303chris0303sault ste marie, Ontario Canada1 Threads 9 Posts
My daughter has told me whats wrong,,,she says I work too much,,have too much time on my hand,,,says I write too many things and keep them to myself,,,and i need go go out more
Jan 16, 2008 11:29 AM CST If he/she is so perfect why still single?
pentium
pentiumpentiumToronto, Canada11 Threads 2 Polls 252 Posts
Did you miss the part where I said PHYSICAL?
Those are not physical problems dude.
Women will put up with anything if they find you attractive.
Ask her trust me on this.
She won't be offended.
Jan 16, 2008 11:31 AM CST If he/she is so perfect why still single?
pentium
pentiumpentiumToronto, Canada11 Threads 2 Polls 252 Posts
Motormouth,

That's why you're on a dating site, sounds perfect to merolling on the floor laughing tongue
I think you take the phrase "I love myself" too fartongue
Jan 19, 2008 3:32 PM CST If he/she is so perfect why still single?
singleinregina
singleinreginasingleinreginaRegina, Saskatchewan Canada56 Threads 928 Posts
Dawn I think you are a wonderful woman and whoever gets to be your man will be a lucky man!

head banger
Jan 19, 2008 7:39 PM CST If he/she is so perfect why still single?
PowerPuff
PowerPuffPowerPuffSaint-Jean-sur-Richelieu, Quebec Canada34 Posts
Pentium....a little frustrated are we?comfort
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