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josingleinspainLa Cala, Andalusia Spain86 Threads 1 Polls 430 PostsPlease tell me if being on CS for the forums would be seen as cheating. If i was in a relationship. I never get mail or any intrest form anybody but love the forums and the people that answers. Please tell me if this is wrong.
josingleinspain: Please tell me if being on CS for the forums would be seen as cheating. If i was in a relationship. I never get mail or any intrest form anybody but love the forums and the people that answers. Please tell me if this is wrong.
My opinion doesn't matter,just your partner's and yours,this I believe is one of those issues you have to hash out between you both..
But...It might be detrimental for your relationship,if you are the kind that is tempted to cheat.(I'm not suggesting you are)
Or if your relationship is going through a bad patch,you might find yourself getting closer to a forum poster,instead of working things out with your partner.
But I think,being on here;while your relationship is strong,or in the early stages of dating and budding relationships,is helpful for support,and keeps you stronger..
josingleinspain: Please tell me if being on CS for the forums would be seen as cheating. If i was in a relationship. I never get mail or any intrest form anybody but love the forums and the people that answers. Please tell me if this is wrong.
Its a matter of trust really.... if I was in a relationship with someone on C S I wouldn't mind him being here for the forums if there was an element of trust between us.
well yes it is a matter of trust i have never ever cheated on anybody in my life I see it as self respect. I could not do that to somebody as i would not wwant somebody to do that to me............However this person has cheated on me and now he insists that i cheat by being on the forums........
That is how i feel too the thing is i have taken him back more time then i can count..............Yes he says that being on a dating site is cheating cos firstly my profile name, and cos i put myself out there as available. i never change my profile untill recently as he gave me so much hassle about it......I know i have never ever done anything wrong but he is telling me i am lying and if i was commited to us i would not be on here at all. Just like most of us on the forums i love it here.
josingleinspain: Forgot to say thanx for that
you're welcome-check your mail filterbox..x
josingleinspain: Please tell me if being on CS for the forums would be seen as cheating. If i was in a relationship. I never get mail or any intrest form anybody but love the forums and the people that answers. Please tell me if this is wrong.
I think every couple creates and maintains their relationship in the way that suits just them. If one part feels like being cheating on, then this matter is to be settled with that part, not with someone else. In this case someone else’s opinion is not relevant.
Hi
I totally agree with Tomboygirl.. ---- I understand the fact that this is a 'connecting Singles' site. But like has been said, a lot of us are here mainly for the forums and friends made. Is it wrong to just chat and while away time with people? Whether in real life or virtual???
Granted, on sites like this one and others, Facebook for example, you will come across some whom don't read profiles to see if you are taken or not, and 'come onto you'. That's then down to the individual to say... " sorry, am with someone" And if that is what you do.... Then you sure as hell ain't doing anything wrong!!!
JMO
I totally agree with Tomboygirl.. ---- I understand the fact that this is a 'connecting Singles' site. But like has been said, a lot of us are here mainly for the forums and friends made. Is it wrong to just chat and while away time with people? Whether in real life or virtual???
Granted, on sites like this one and others, Facebook for example, you will come across some whom don't read profiles to see if you are taken or not, and 'come onto you'. That's then down to the individual to say... " sorry, am with someone" And if that is what you do.... Then you sure as hell ain't doing anything wrong!!!
JMO
Are you not allowed to have friends?
Are you married? If you are please tell me which part of the ceremony did you say you were never going to have any friends outside of your home?
Are you married? If you are please tell me which part of the ceremony did you say you were never going to have any friends outside of your home?
josingleinspain: That is how i feel too the thing is i have taken him back more time then i can count..............Yes he says that being on a dating site is cheating cos firstly my profile name, and cos i put myself out there as available. i never change my profile untill recently as he gave me so much hassle about it......I know i have never ever done anything wrong but he is telling me i am lying and if i was commited to us i would not be on here at all. Just like most of us on the forums i love it here.
It is not about what 'others' do to us, it is about what 'we' let others do to us.
And I think that you said it all; "...i have taken him back more time then i can count..."
I am here for the forums only and it is not causing me problems.
Don't you think that it is about time you reconsider your true value and stopped taking the aggro?
josingleinspain: That is how i feel too the thing is i have taken him back more time then i can count............
Everyone deserves a second chance, after that he's just taking the piss. You need to kick him into touch because he's not going to change and worse than that, he's making you feel guilty when you've done nothing.
Medsummer: Are you not allowed to have friends?
Are you married? If you are please tell me which part of the ceremony did you say you were never going to have any friends outside of your home?
Well apparently not, not allowed to talk to others. If we go anywhere i am only allowed to look in his eyes when he talks to me. O no we are not married. We went out one night and I started talking to 2 gay boys and I mean boys they were about the same age as my son. He gave me a hard time cos i spoke to them and made him look bad. This is a man that cheated on me with his ex more then 6 times. It was ok though cos she was his ex..................Are you married? If you are please tell me which part of the ceremony did you say you were never going to have any friends outside of your home?
Bental: It is not about what 'others' do to us, it is about what 'we' let others do to us.
And I think that you said it all; "...i have taken him back more time then i can count..."
I am here for the forums only and it is not causing me problems.
Don't you think that it is about time you reconsider your true value and stopped taking the aggro?
Hi Bental thanx for your input.......Yes i think it is about time I give up on the aggro. In the end my live is worth more and even if i never meet somebody at least I would be able to be my own person again and not affraid of everything I do or do not do. And I think that you said it all; "...i have taken him back more time then i can count..."
I am here for the forums only and it is not causing me problems.
Don't you think that it is about time you reconsider your true value and stopped taking the aggro?
josingleinspain: Well apparently not, not allowed to talk to others. If we go anywhere i am only allowed to look in his eyes when he talks to me. O no we are not married. We went out one night and I started talking to 2 gay boys and I mean boys they were about the same age as my son. He gave me a hard time cos i spoke to them and made him look bad. This is a man that cheated on me with his ex more then 6 times. It was ok though cos she was his ex..................
okay, well that puts it all into perspective...there are some relationships you walk out on and some where you run!
I have to ask if you knew about his cheating on his ex before you started dating him or were you one of the last one he cheated on his ex with?
what makes you think he is not going to cheat on you if he isn't already?
Medsummer: okay, well that puts it all into perspective...there are some relationships you walk out on and some where you run!
I have to ask if you knew about his cheating on his ex before you started dating him or were you one of the last one he cheated on his ex with?
what makes you think he is not going to cheat on you if he isn't already?
Well yes he did the right thing and told me 3 days after the 1st event and his words at least he was honest and told me. No he claimed he and his ex was done when we started seeing each other.I have to ask if you knew about his cheating on his ex before you started dating him or were you one of the last one he cheated on his ex with?
what makes you think he is not going to cheat on you if he isn't already?
So he has told you he has already cheated on you?
Was this just being honest with you or was he using it to make you feel you were not good enough?
Was this just being honest with you or was he using it to make you feel you were not good enough?
Medsummer: So he has told you he has already cheated on you?
Was this just being honest with you or was he using it to make you feel you were not good enough?
Well his ex was very abusive and he was munipulated by her. He told be he cheated on me 3 days after he did.........It was the 1st time ever i was cheated on so i felt really very bad.Was this just being honest with you or was he using it to make you feel you were not good enough?
josingleinspain: Well his ex was very abusive and he was munipulated by her. He told be he cheated on me 3 days after he did.........It was the 1st time ever i was cheated on so i felt really very bad.
Or it was the first time you found out you were cheated on...
tomboygirl:
Is talking cheating?simple question.
Is talking cheating?simple question.
That depends on whats being talked about...
josingleinspain: Well his ex was very abusive and he was munipulated by her. He told be he cheated on me 3 days after he did.........It was the 1st time ever i was cheated on so i felt really very bad.
Let's keep this focused on him. Saying his ex was very abusive is just you giving him an excuse to cheat on you. Your justifying his cheating by him "getting back at his ex"?
Do you wake up next to his ex?
If the person is not signing your paycheck or waking up next to you they should not be part of your life. They exist yes, but you and the guy your waking up next to are basically the ones in the relationship and who gives a dam about his ex?
You are the most important person in your life and if the person you let into your life doesn't care as much about you as you do then why are you with him...
Or is it you do not care that much about yourself?
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