When Delia died she disappeared
From mouth and mind
Passing away into the past,
The collective family memory
Described Delia as 'distant'.
Meanwhile,
Mr Delia remained alone a year or so
Then joined Delia in death.
As my in-laws became my out-laws
I climbed to the attic
To perform a purge of unwanted memories
Surprisingly, I discovered Delia.
In an old travel chest
Covered in dead dust motes,
I found her in travel diaries and little notes
In old photos
I found her wearing furs,
Posing in exotic places
Surrounded by smiling friends.
So I pulled Delia from the past
Sitting for some hours in the attic
Soaking up her stories,
She was neither 'odd' nor 'distant'
She was wonderful.
In another time and place
We were surely friends.
Silently, I mourned her for some moments
Then lifted a small cheap charm bracelet
From the old chest
That once atypically adorned Delia's wrist,
To bring her around the world
For one more whirl.
Comments (21)
You did like Linda said, bring her back to life and she lived a part of your life with you
I could listen to you for hours
What a fantastic story...
I would give anything to have memories of my late Mothers- Mother
I have no pictures,or notes and never had the honor of meeting her.
I often wonder what she was like
My Mother always shed a tear... the few times she was mentioned
She adored her Mother, Hannah my GrandMother died when my Mother was 13 years old
I really don't know much more about her
Thank you for sharing this amazing poem
Very special indeed
Martina xxx
Regards
Bill
ps Kathy sends her love
Your poignant write leaves me both wondering how she got to be perceived as 'distant' and happy that you finally found her in travel diaries and little notes In old photos. Thanks for sharing Delia's one more whirl with us.
Shadow - In some way that's what I was hoping to do, her husband was an author and professor in Canada and USA, so Delia was always somehow in the background. I think though she was 'The Woman' behind the successful man and as he didn't live long after her death it just shows how much he relied on her presence in his life to live it.
Simply beautiful.. Thank you for sharing..
Rapture - my lovely cailin, Pity by the time you got to this corner I was on my way overseas, I would have liked to meet you for real but life is what it is and it will be at least a year before I get back to the emerald rock again. Thanks so much for your lovely words on my poem.
What a great story. I enjoyed so much the way you worded everything. I am happy you have the braclet. Another wonderful write from you, thanks. Take care.
And I am sure she would too!
and she lives as long as her memories
are with you
thank you for sharing
it is a blessing
Joy - I think I know why she became thought of as distant. The people here in the US tend to live distances apart so you would never be just passing a friends house and drop in hoping all are at home and have time for a visit, so they tend to phone ahead and schedule visits more. So, when Delia behaved that way in Ireland family members especially didn't understand why they just couldn't call in any time they liked, a culture clash though minor can cause difficulties. Having said that, if someone called in unannounced to my home here, I would drop everything and spend time with them as that's how I was brought up.. So don't ya'll be shy now!
Arteee - Yes, I think she'd like the idea of bringing her around again. I just wish I'd got to know her a little better before she passed, ah well - can only do what I can now.
Love this poem
I don't know how I missed this but did.
Anyway, glad to in some small way contribute
to bringing Delia around again!
Kathy
I still write poetry though I did take a break for some months and have just got back into it, I find it good for the soul.
Godsprincess - Thanks so much for your lovely words about my poem, I really appreciate you taking the time to read and comment. Yes, the in-laws can become out-laws through death or divorce and it changes the story. Nice to meet you here.
Rob