They wished me to wake up alone for the rest of my life (37)
Plain and simple...it sucks.
mbken: Plain and simple...it sucks.
Oh! My condolences and I wish you to find some one to wake up with within soon and that it will feel good for both of you and that the feeling will last for the rest of your lives!
Tulefell: I wanted to ask: “Will there be any disadvantages?”, but been blocked and the question remains an orphan.
Nonetheless, how’s that perspective for you? To wake up alone for the rest of your life? Is it good or bad or depends on… some conditions?
Fine with me to wake up alone or go to sleep alone. The snoring was enough to drive me crazy. Nonetheless, how’s that perspective for you? To wake up alone for the rest of your life? Is it good or bad or depends on… some conditions?
IF I ever had another relationship to live together it would be a definite must to have separate bedrooms for sleeping.
secretagent09: Fine with me to wake up alone or go to sleep alone. The snoring was enough to drive me crazy.
IF I ever had another relationship to live together it would be a definite must to have separate bedrooms for sleeping.
There are 2 solutions. IF I ever had another relationship to live together it would be a definite must to have separate bedrooms for sleeping.
Date someone who doesn’t snore , or buy a pair of soundproof earmuffs .
secretagent09: Fine with me to wake up alone or go to sleep alone. The snoring was enough to drive me crazy.
IF I ever had another relationship to live together it would be a definite must to have separate bedrooms for sleeping.
At the age of 40 I've learned that I belong to HSP group (highly sensitive person). And after I've made some reading on the subject, I understood that I am not a freak. We are certainly not in majority, but not an anomaly either. IF I ever had another relationship to live together it would be a definite must to have separate bedrooms for sleeping.
Snoring: yes. But there are issues beyond snoring. And it is totally fine with me to wake up alone for the rest of my life :)
Upon waking up, I like to be lying for a while with my arms extended to the limits of my bed, the blanket cast away, absorbing de la nurriture - air, light, moisture, sense of freedom - from the environment around me, as an orchid. When I's married, my - now ex- - husband, read it as an invitation for sex.
An HSP would understand why he is an ex. And it is not possible to explain the concept for a non-HSP.
This thread is a roll-call for us :)
Somehow I sense that there could be a lot of us here.
Tulefell: At the age of 40 I've learned that I belong to HSP group (highly sensitive person). And after I've made some reading on the subject, I understood that I am not a freak. We are certainly not in majority, but not an anomaly either.
Snoring: yes. But there are issues beyond snoring. And it is totally fine with me to wake up alone for the rest of my life :)
Upon waking up, I like to be lying for a while with my arms extended to the limits of my bed, the blanket cast away, absorbing de la nurriture - air, light, moisture, sense of freedom - from the environment around me, as an orchid. When I's married, my - now ex- - husband, read it as an invitation for sex.
An HSP would understand why he is an ex. And it is not possible to explain the concept for a non-HSP.
This thread is a roll-call for us :)
Somehow I sense that there could be a lot of us here.
It does sound a little weirdSnoring: yes. But there are issues beyond snoring. And it is totally fine with me to wake up alone for the rest of my life :)
Upon waking up, I like to be lying for a while with my arms extended to the limits of my bed, the blanket cast away, absorbing de la nurriture - air, light, moisture, sense of freedom - from the environment around me, as an orchid. When I's married, my - now ex- - husband, read it as an invitation for sex.
An HSP would understand why he is an ex. And it is not possible to explain the concept for a non-HSP.
This thread is a roll-call for us :)
Somehow I sense that there could be a lot of us here.
Youcannow: It does sound a little weird
Indeed.Taken from:
High sensitivity applies across a few different categories. There are several traits or characteristics common to HSPs, according to the researchers who identified this personality trait:
"
- Avoiding violent movies or TV shows because they feel too intense and leave you feeling unsettled
- Being deeply moved by beauty, either expressed in art, nature, or the human spirit, or sometimes even a good commercial
- Being overwhelmed by sensory stimuli like noisy crowds, bright lights, or uncomfortable clothing
-Feeling a need for downtime (not just a preference), especially when you have hectic days; needing to retreat to a dark, quiet room
- Having a rich and complex inner life, complete with deep thoughts and strong feelings that go with them
"
I do understand that a non-HSP could perceive those traits as weird. Does a non-HSP understand that her or his traits are weird for a HSP?
We, HSP, are in a minority. But how can you, non-HSP, exist without "having a complex inner life, deep thoughts and strong feelings"? Are you vegetables? Is snoring all you can offer?
Would rather wake up alone than to wake up with someone I don't want to wake up with. Been there, done that, never again 
Track16: Would rather wake up alone than to wake up with someone I don't want to wake up with. Been there, done that, never again
It is so typical, you wouldn't believe. And it is also very true!It happens that I cannot afford be laying in my orchid position, but have to jump up to the alarm clock. But nonetheless, there are days when I can be lying with my arms outstretched to the ends of my bed, the blanket is cast aside, absorbing the light and air and moisture... well, you can define it as "freedom". And no, it is not an invitation to have sex with me. It is a moment I enjoy upon waking up. It is all. And at that moment I don't want to have anyone in my proximity. Regardless how much I like them.
Waking alone is a luxury. In my case it's a luxury I earned.
Youcannow: It does sound a little weird
it is a little weird
Track16: Would rather wake up alone than to wake up with someone I don't want to wake up with. Been there, done that, never again
Amen brother 
Tulefell: It is so typical, you wouldn't believe. And it is also very true!
It happens that I cannot afford be laying in my orchid position, but have to jump up to the alarm clock. But nonetheless, there are days when I can be lying with my arms outstretched to the ends of my bed, the blanket is cast aside, absorbing the light and air and moisture... well, you can define it as "freedom". And no, it is not an invitation to have sex with me. It is a moment I enjoy upon waking up. It is all. And at that moment I don't want to have anyone in my proximity. Regardless how much I like them.
Waking alone is a luxury. In my case it's a luxury I earned.
It's freedom. And it's the same if you're single and if you're with someone. At least if it's goodIt happens that I cannot afford be laying in my orchid position, but have to jump up to the alarm clock. But nonetheless, there are days when I can be lying with my arms outstretched to the ends of my bed, the blanket is cast aside, absorbing the light and air and moisture... well, you can define it as "freedom". And no, it is not an invitation to have sex with me. It is a moment I enjoy upon waking up. It is all. And at that moment I don't want to have anyone in my proximity. Regardless how much I like them.
Waking alone is a luxury. In my case it's a luxury I earned.
michaelright: it is a little weird
Can we draw a conclusion that there are more female HSP:s than males? Or perhaps, male HSP:s are not in hurry to admit their existence?
Nonetheless, the orphan question to michaelright: have you never encounter a woman, who questioned your ways?
Tulefell: Can we draw a conclusion that there are more female HSP:s than males?
Or perhaps, male HSP:s are not in hurry to admit their existence?
Nonetheless, the orphan question to michaelright: have you never encounter a woman, who questioned your ways?
there will always be people who are determined to bring you downOr perhaps, male HSP:s are not in hurry to admit their existence?
Nonetheless, the orphan question to michaelright: have you never encounter a woman, who questioned your ways?
chancer_returns: there will always be people who are determined to bring you down
Eh?Tulefell: Eh?
what's a HSP 
chancer_returns: what's a HSP
Nothing you ever would bother your handsome self about.Tulefell: Nothing you ever would bother your handsome self about.
Don't be so mean
chancer_returns: Don't be so mean
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Nonetheless, how’s that perspective for you? To wake up alone for the rest of your life? Is it good or bad or depends on… some conditions?