They wished me to wake up alone for the rest of my life (37)

Mar 10, 2024 1:14 AM CST They wished me to wake up alone for the rest of my life
chancer_returns: what's a HSP
Highly sexted person
Mar 10, 2024 9:25 AM CST They wished me to wake up alone for the rest of my life
salamuna
salamunasalamunaDeventer, Overijssel Netherlands5 Threads 225 Posts
Tulefell: I wanted to ask: “Will there be any disadvantages?”, but been blocked and the question remains an orphan.

Nonetheless, how’s that perspective for you? To wake up alone for the rest of your life? Is it good or bad or depends on… some conditions?
hi Tul
I was also assigned to the HSP group many years ago and till now..
We may feel higher highs and lower lows. for those who don’t know, this is a group of people who have more intense negative and positive emotions. It’s completely normal for me to be free from a relationship and wake up alone in my big bed. but I admit honestly, when next to me in the morning I see the face of the only man i love and hear his breathing, my emotions cover me with an avalanche of love for him. unfortunately this happens very rarely, so my answer to your question is beter alone than with someone except him
Mar 10, 2024 2:20 PM CST They wished me to wake up alone for the rest of my life
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
michaelright: Highly sexted person
From what I gather , it seem like she’s doesn’t want anyone near her private area .
Mar 10, 2024 2:45 PM CST They wished me to wake up alone for the rest of my life
Youcannow: From what I gather , it seem like she’s doesn’t want anyone near her private area .
oh ,, is that her back garden ,?
Mar 10, 2024 3:56 PM CST They wished me to wake up alone for the rest of my life
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
michaelright: oh ,, is that her back garden ,?
I’m thinking more the spice garden but I’ll wait for confirmation..
Mar 11, 2024 4:05 AM CST They wished me to wake up alone for the rest of my life
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,465 Posts
I wake up to the sound of music with many species of gorgeous birds fluttering about singing their tune

I sleep on one side of the bed so I really only have to make one side of the bed Seems good enough to me

laugh
Mar 11, 2024 4:26 PM CST They wished me to wake up alone for the rest of my life
Sounds perfect, what's the problem?
Mar 11, 2024 4:27 PM CST They wished me to wake up alone for the rest of my life
MysteriousGirl80: Sounds perfect, what's the problem?
what sounds perfect ???
Mar 11, 2024 4:29 PM CST They wished me to wake up alone for the rest of my life
MysteriousGirl80: Sounds perfect, what's the problem?
are you referring to mercs bed ?
Mar 11, 2024 4:29 PM CST They wished me to wake up alone for the rest of my life
michaelright: are you referring to mercs bed ?
I bet that's pretty perfect...
Mar 11, 2024 4:32 PM CST They wished me to wake up alone for the rest of my life
michaelright: what sounds perfect ???
Waking up alone, what's your perspective? And whey hey, that's my answer.
Mar 11, 2024 4:35 PM CST They wished me to wake up alone for the rest of my life
MysteriousGirl80: Waking up alone, what's your perspective? And whey hey, that's my answer.
well it's nice to have a nice body beside you to say good morning to ... loners like to be alone ...
Mar 11, 2024 4:38 PM CST They wished me to wake up alone for the rest of my life
michaelright: well it's nice to have a nice body beside you to say good morning to ... loners like to be alone ...
Say that again looking balls naked in the mirror.
Mar 11, 2024 4:41 PM CST They wished me to wake up alone for the rest of my life
MysteriousGirl80: Say that again looking balls naked in the mirror.
loners like to be alone ,,,,my mirror's cracked looks like I've got two of everything,,,,,
Mar 12, 2024 1:04 PM CST They wished me to wake up alone for the rest of my life
Tulefell: At the age of 40 I've learned that I belong to HSP group (highly sensitive person). And after I've made some reading on the subject, I understood that I am not a freak. We are certainly not in majority, but not an anomaly either.

Snoring: yes. But there are issues beyond snoring. And it is totally fine with me to wake up alone for the rest of my life :)

Upon waking up, I like to be lying for a while with my arms extended to the limits of my bed, the blanket cast away, absorbing de la nurriture - air, light, moisture, sense of freedom - from the environment around me, as an orchid. When I's married, my - now ex- - husband, read it as an invitation for sex.

An HSP would understand why he is an ex. And it is not possible to explain the concept for a non-HSP.

This thread is a roll-call for us :)

Somehow I sense that there could be a lot of us here.
Although I would be welcoming of a relationship, that person would have to have their own habitat. I have never regretted nor have I disliked my solitary life.
Mar 20, 2024 4:16 PM CST They wished me to wake up alone for the rest of my life
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
salamuna: hi Tul
I was also assigned to the HSP group many years ago and till now..
We may feel higher highs and lower lows. for those who don’t know, this is a group of people who have more intense negative and positive emotions. It’s completely normal for me to be free from a relationship and wake up alone in my big bed. but I admit honestly, when next to me in the morning I see the face of the only man i love and hear his breathing, my emotions cover me with an avalanche of love for him. unfortunately this happens very rarely, so my answer to your question is beter alone than with someone except him
Well... once upon the time I's in love with a man, who was fine with all my "non-conventional behavior". It happened that when I got too much of a human presence, I could say: "I can't, I need a break..." He just went to kitchen or took my daughter out. He was all right to leave me alone for a couple of hours.

With all his other misses and shortcomings and sins, that kind of tolerance covered everything else. For me.

I do miss that kind of treatment. Now it looks like the choice is between to be alone or to endure someone's presence in your life 24 / 7. I can't. I don't want to. And I won't.
Mar 20, 2024 4:18 PM CST They wished me to wake up alone for the rest of my life
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
rohaan: Although I would be welcoming of a relationship, that person would have to have their own habitat. I have never regretted nor have I disliked my solitary life.
Well... my own habitat... yes, it is. Thank you for the definition!
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