I was at the concert of the Amsterdam Klezmer Band in March? and sure i liked it because i like klezmer music as about Bulgakov.. i saw the last movie. Is a good one, but for me it is uncomparable with the book. so book makes you to think while this movie is just a peace of avant-garde art
Women's psychology of love differs from men's in its romantic flavor. But your words made me think... it turns out I didn’t love my husbands. Because I romanticized them.. that is, I loved rather their love for me.. Now when I thought I ve finally fell in love (a kind of unconditional love), I’m already starting to think, that perhaps Ive fell in love not with him, but with my love for him. as soon as let’s say I just need to get inspiration for my future life from somewhere... So maybe you and Lord Byron are right. but i still think “Love is like a fever which comes and goes quite independently of the will” ? Stendhal
time is not linear,..so it is difficult to say at what point we are now and where we will be tomorrow. life is full of surprises. Time is a very interesting and least studied unit of our multidimensional space.
hi Tul I was also assigned to the HSP group many years ago and till now.. We may feel higher highs and lower lows. for those who don’t know, this is a group of people who have more intense negative and positive emotions. It’s completely normal for me to be free from a relationship and wake up alone in my big bed. but I admit honestly, when next to me in the morning I see the face of the only man i love and hear his breathing, my emotions cover me with an avalanche of love for him. unfortunately this happens very rarely, so my answer to your question is beter alone than with someone except him
You can just disappear with the words-sorry, i cannot communicate with you anymore. and use the block button. It could be painful for him, but it will solve the problem once and forever. Or you can make a long and maybe not less painful process taking the blame on yourself - He’s not that bad. it s just you who are not ready for a relationship yet. Possible excuses: you are in love with someone else, you are having a hard time with the breakup of your previous relationship and are not yet ready for a new one, you have absolutely no time for an affair... etc. You can say something like, “You've been very kind to me, thank you for being there when I needed it. I appreciate it very much,but for some reason I can’t communicate with you anymore". With these words, you will, firstly, show that you appreciated his efforts in trying to win you. And secondly, you give him confidence that he is not a bad guy and deserves his happiness, just with someone else. All is up to you. Good luck with this!
So now he encourages his dogs to work with special zeal and diligence.
A Decree of the President of the Russian Federation dated February 19, 2024 No. 129
Deputy Director of the Federal Penitentiary Service Valery Gennadievich Boyarinev was awarded the rank of Colonel General of the Internal Service Deputy Director of the Federal Penitentiary Service Rozin Alexander Nikolaevich was awarded the rank of Lieutenant General of the Internal Service Head of the Administration of the Federal Penitentiary Service Sharovatov Dmitry Viktorovich awarded the rank of major general of internal service Head of the Personnel Department of the Federal Penitentiary Service Fedorov Alexander Vladimirovich awarded the rank of major general of internal service.
The situation is unprecedented. Dissidents in the Russian zone had been killed before, but not many people knew about the existence for example of Galanskov or Marchenko Never before has the name of a murdered political prisoner been memorized by a billion people on the planet and tens of millions in Russia - and never before has this murder been so directly and firmly associated with the owner of the Kremlin. Right Tul, that was the best name for russian khan I can speak a little of russian, but I know a lot of words..so that one you used is indeed the right one
I'm afraid that the admin is either dont care or is connected with wolf packs on this site. I don’t think it’s possible to talk to him about anything. My be i am wrong
This reminds me of a funny conversation I had with my school friend a couple of years ago. She-I want to lose weight so bad. This is my biggest dream. Me - so why aren’t you losing weight? go on a diet, go in for sports. She - what about the dream then?
thank you for your wise words. I just recently received a tea cup as a gift from my boss. it had a very beautiful azure color and I didn’t immediately pay attention to the words written on it... these are exactly the 2 phrases written on the cup Love the Life You Live. Live the life you love. So i guessed what a surprise
good post, this made me think about what I gained.. what I lost I knew.. these are a very dear people to me.. I probably gained some knowledge that I tried unsuccessfully to share. But I tried..)) I understood what love and friendship are, to whom I I can trust and whom I can’t.. I met a lot of good sincere people...
you are mistaking. there is no conditional love at all..it s called agreement.. not love. but you are right unconditional and the only love is unpredictable.. it comes and you dont know what to do with it..how to live with it..i wish you could meet the one
conditional love is not “love” in the truest sense of the word because it comes from the ego and not from the heart.
Unlike unconditional love, which is given freely, conditional love must be “earned.” When this false form of love is earned, only then is love, respect and kindness given.
While unconditional love is limitless and vast, conditional love is constraining and limited. While unconditional love does not need anything, conditional love is given only when something is received.
The equation looks like this: I will only love you if _____ (you do this, say this, provide this, make me feel this way).
Conditional love is inherently selfish and self-centered. Conditional love only lasts as long as certain unspoken rules are maintained or followed. unconditional love happens, but my subjective opinion is mainly love for children and parents. I don't believe in our times there happens unconditional love between a man and a woman...so only pragmatic conditional one...good luck everyone with your attempts to find your conditional love.
This helps him to correctly perceive criticism, understand other people and respond to them with an adequate reaction. This was the end of my sentense . Grand
We all react to events, words and circumstances in some way. If they are not understood, all what is happening around you will be distorted. For example, at work you were reprimanded, and you began to argue and conflict. As a result, this will lead to neuroses, apathy and other depressive states. A person with developed emotional intelligence(EQ) reacts to reasons, not actions or emotions. This helps him to correctly perceive criticism, understand other people and respond to them with an
I am sure you know about Shri Aurobindo. Reading his books could bring you to some other level of intelecctuality. Highly recomended, if you didn't read it yet.
Why you ask? But ok according to Oxford dictionary intelligence is an ability to learn, understand and think in a logical way about things; the ability to do this well
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I was at the concert of the Amsterdam Klezmer Band in March? and sure i liked it because i like klezmer musicas about Bulgakov.. i saw the last movie. Is a good one, but for me it is uncomparable with the book. so book makes you to think while this movie is just a peace of avant-garde art