Would you date a single dad or mum ( Archived) (61)

Jun 28, 2011 2:31 PM CSTWould you date a single dad or mum
biggles90000
biggles90000biggles90000Kilkenny, Ireland154 Threads 17 Polls 4,582 Posts

Would you date a single dad or mum(Vote Below)

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yes
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maybe
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Just want your feeling on this would you date a single dad or mum or do you get judged unfairly that your a single parent what your views on this.
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Jun 28, 2011 2:33 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
martini100
martini100martini100wexford, Wexford Ireland19 Threads 2,158 Posts
biggles90000: Just want your feeling on this would you date a single dad or mum or do you get judged unfairly that your a single parent what your views on this.



I would applause then again i'm a single mum rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 28, 2011 2:33 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
happdude
happdudehappdudelimerick, Limerick Ireland9 Threads 1 Polls 642 Posts
Yes I would. Although I reserve the right to teach their children Limerick skills.
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Jun 28, 2011 2:35 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
pedrodelgado
pedrodelgadopedrodelgadodublin, Dublin Ireland28 Threads 2 Polls 394 Posts
biggles90000: Just want your feeling on this would you date a single dad or mum or do you get judged unfairly that your a single parent what your views on this.

Yep, wouldn't even think twice about itthumbs up
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Jun 28, 2011 2:36 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
biggles90000
biggles90000biggles90000kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland154 Threads 17 Polls 4,582 Posts
happdude: Yes I would. Although I reserve the right to teach their children Limerick skills.


god help them laugh
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Jun 28, 2011 2:36 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
happdude
happdudehappdudelimerick, Limerick Ireland9 Threads 1 Polls 642 Posts
biggles90000: god help them


No worries kid, i'll learn em good, the way i was lerned. thumbs up
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Jun 28, 2011 2:41 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
Millieh24
Millieh24Millieh24Tullamore, Co. Offaly, Tipperary Ireland132 Threads 5 Polls 3,295 Posts
biggles90000: Just want your feeling on this would you date a single dad or mum or do you get judged unfairly that your a single parent what your views on this.


I would blushing wave
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Jun 28, 2011 2:42 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
howlingwolf
howlingwolfhowlingwolfWest Cork, Cork Ireland30 Threads 1,218 Posts
biggles90000: Just want your feeling on this would you date a single dad or mum or do you get judged unfairly that your a single parent what your views on this.


I'm very particular. Does it have a heartbeat?
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Jun 28, 2011 2:43 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
unouwantme2
unouwantme2unouwantme2pussyville, Tipperary Ireland144 Threads 4,470 Posts
biggles90000: Just want your feeling on this would you date a single dad or mum or do you get judged unfairly that your a single parent what your views on this.
deffo not one older then me, maybe younger thumbs up
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Jun 28, 2011 2:43 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
xxmissuniquexx
xxmissuniquexxxxmissuniquexxdublin, Dublin Ireland57 Threads 3 Polls 1,063 Posts
biggles90000: Just want your feeling on this would you date a single dad or mum or do you get judged unfairly that your a single parent what your views on this.


I dated a single dad last yr who had 3 kids under 5, and he had his exs 5 yr old son 2, we didnt get alot of time together, his ma minded them 2 nites a wk so we could meet up grin
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Jun 28, 2011 2:44 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
biggles90000
biggles90000biggles90000kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland154 Threads 17 Polls 4,582 Posts
happdude: No worries kid, i'll learn em good, the way i was lerned.


well fair play to yea thumbs up for giving a single mum a chance.
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Jun 28, 2011 2:46 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
biggles90000
biggles90000biggles90000kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland154 Threads 17 Polls 4,582 Posts
xxmissuniquexx: I dated a single dad last yr who had 3 kids under 5, and he had his exs 5 yr old son 2, we didnt get alot of time together, his ma minded them 2 nites a wk so we could meet up



lol i just after getting the brush off again becuse im a single dad the girl in question swapped numbers with me and all i got a text there now saying she wouldnt meet because of the little fella ah well her loss somebody elses gain.
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Jun 28, 2011 2:52 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
xxmissuniquexx
xxmissuniquexxxxmissuniquexxdublin, Dublin Ireland57 Threads 3 Polls 1,063 Posts
biggles90000: lol i just after getting the brush off again becuse im a single dad the girl in question swapped numbers with me and all i got a text there now saying she wouldnt meet because of the little fella ah well her loss somebody elses gain.


Maybe when your saying your a single dad she has visions of you having him full-time, does she know how much time you only have your son and that you have lots of time on your hands 4 a relationship?

But sure if she sees your son as a threat she aint worth the effort in my eyes dunno
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Jun 28, 2011 2:54 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
biggles90000
biggles90000biggles90000kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland154 Threads 17 Polls 4,582 Posts
xxmissuniquexx: Maybe when your saying your a single dad she has visions of you having him full-time, does she know how much time you only have your son and that you have lots of time on your hands 4 a relationship?

But sure if she sees your son as a threat she aint worth the effort in my eyes


oh no iwas dead honest said it straight up that the little fella was living with hes mum we had a great chat lastnite and then today i plucked the courage up and invited her out friday nite and she said no.dunnothat she didnt she want to date a single dad.
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Jun 28, 2011 2:57 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
Modern_Fairy
Modern_FairyModern_FairyMeath, Ireland23 Threads 4,891 Posts
to be honest i said no. ive nothing against single dads as a lot of my mates are single parents.. but where im at and where there at, at the moment just wont match up..
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Jun 28, 2011 2:57 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
baldydude
baldydudebaldydudefermoy, Cork Ireland164 Threads 4,643 Posts
biggles90000: Just want your feeling on this would you date a single dad or mum or do you get judged unfairly that your a single parent what your views on this.
our kids are part of who we are if a potential partner doesn't understand that, then they are not worth our time to waste on them dancing
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Jun 28, 2011 3:03 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
salanky
salankysalankydublin, Dublin Ireland90 Threads 1 Polls 9,888 Posts
biggles90000: Just want your feeling on this would you date a single dad or mum or do you get judged unfairly that your a single parent what your views on this.
back when i joined i would have said id never date someone with kids and here i am with someone with 3 kids, baldy is right they make you who you are conversing
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Jun 28, 2011 3:07 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
biggles90000
biggles90000biggles90000kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland154 Threads 17 Polls 4,582 Posts
baldydude: our kids are part of who we are if a potential partner doesn't understand that, then they are not worth our time to waste on them


def agree there baldy well saidthumbs up
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Jun 28, 2011 3:09 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
Millieh24
Millieh24Millieh24Tullamore, Co. Offaly, Tipperary Ireland132 Threads 5 Polls 3,295 Posts
baldydude: our kids are part of who we are if a potential partner doesn't understand that, then they are not worth our time to waste on them


U have to consider ur partners feelings too .. ive been there and spoke bout it .. its not easy sometimes !!!
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Jun 28, 2011 3:17 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
Crazylegs
CrazylegsCrazylegsDublin, Ireland71 Threads 6,737 Posts
biggles90000: Just want your feeling on this would you date a single dad or mum or do you get judged unfairly that your a single parent what your views on this.


No I wouldnt... I hate them single parents tongue tongue tongue



of course I would, children are just an extension of the person you are dating and someone else to love and spoil given time grin
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Jun 28, 2011 3:39 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
baldydude
baldydudebaldydudefermoy, Cork Ireland164 Threads 4,643 Posts
Millieh24: U have to consider ur partners feelings too .. ive been there and spoke bout it .. its not easy sometimes !!!
well yes off course you have to consider your partners feelings, but like it or not i've kids and am a parent nothing is going to change that and i wont give up my kids for anyone, so a potential partner is going to have to accept that the same way i would have to accept her situation what ever that may be thumbs up
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Jun 28, 2011 3:44 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
howlingwolf
howlingwolfhowlingwolfWest Cork, Cork Ireland30 Threads 1,218 Posts
biggles90000: Just want your feeling on this would you date a single dad or mum or do you get judged unfairly that your a single parent what your views on this.


From a male perspective a single mom is your love object plus at least one. I have nothing against kids but wouldn't it be a little difficult? There is a pre-existing set of relationships at work in her little family which you have to merge with. There are a lot of issues you will have to cope with. "You're not my father" jealousy. "O.M.G. are you really doing that to my mom,, yuck!" disgust, etc etc. It's a lot of 'stuff'.

Some men seek out single moms but if I were the single mom I would have some worries with those guys. Not meaning they are all peedo's or anything. I just mean there may be a neediness or some other psychological issues they are trying to evade by 'joining the team'.

I did have a relationship with a single mom but her kids were pretty much grown up and were all at least independent. Moi, Daddy? Jamais!
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Jun 28, 2011 3:57 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
Millieh24
Millieh24Millieh24Tullamore, Co. Offaly, Tipperary Ireland132 Threads 5 Polls 3,295 Posts
baldydude: well yes off course you have to consider your partners feelings, but like it or not i've kids and am a parent nothing is going to change that and i wont give up my kids for anyone, so a potential partner is going to have to accept that the same way i would have to accept her situation what ever that may be


I understand that..... i know u wudnt give up ur kids for anything ... but if u and ur potential partner wanted kids down the line would u consider it ?!?!?
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Jun 28, 2011 4:03 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
BannerMan53
BannerMan53BannerMan53Limerick, Ireland4 Threads 981 Posts
Millieh24: U want some of my lasagne i cooked 2day ????


Yummy !!!!

Thanks Mill !!

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Jun 28, 2011 4:07 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
Millieh24
Millieh24Millieh24Tullamore, Co. Offaly, Tipperary Ireland132 Threads 5 Polls 3,295 Posts
BannerMan53: Yummy !!!!

Thanks Mill !!


heheheeh how do i get to ill have to get the bus limerick super
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Jun 28, 2011 4:08 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
baldydude
baldydudebaldydudefermoy, Cork Ireland164 Threads 4,643 Posts
Millieh24: I understand that..... i know u wudnt give up ur kids for anything ... but if u and ur potential partner wanted kids down the line would u consider it ?!?!?
uummmm to be honest no dont think i would, i mean like i'm 42 now, sometime down the line prob means a cpl of years so agewise it would be a big ask for me to start another family all over again conversing

having said that if one is deeply, madly nd crazy in love nd all sense gone out the window anything could happen so who knows dunno laugh
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Jun 28, 2011 4:11 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
chancer_mcgancer
chancer_mcgancerchancer_mcgancerdublin, Dublin Ireland168 Threads 27 Polls 4,219 Posts
are people being completely honest on this threadconfused

i said maybe..
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Jun 28, 2011 4:14 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
salanky
salankysalankydublin, Dublin Ireland90 Threads 1 Polls 9,888 Posts
chancer_mcgancer: are people being completely honest on this thread

i said maybe..
i was honest dunno
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Jun 28, 2011 4:14 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
BannerMan53
BannerMan53BannerMan53Limerick, Ireland4 Threads 981 Posts
biggles90000: mind the nuns B


laugh

Sister Mary Crucifix !!!



rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 28, 2011 4:15 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
howlingwolf
howlingwolfhowlingwolfWest Cork, Cork Ireland30 Threads 1,218 Posts
BannerMan53: Sister Mary Crucifix !!!


Did she have the big blue knickers? Knickers Monica!
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Jun 28, 2011 4:15 PM CST Would you date a single dad or mum
BannerMan53
BannerMan53BannerMan53Limerick, Ireland4 Threads 981 Posts
howlingwolf: I can just imagaine that. Out, out damned image.

use it to meditate to !!



laugh

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