What really pees me off is how some hold grudges.It seems like women are competing against each other why I don't know.I guess some are still residing in their school days.
Ccincy: What really pees me off is how some hold grudges.It seems like women are competing against each other why I don't know.I guess some are still residing in their school days.
Yes, agree, CC.
Life is indeed too short, and I do sadly feel that wimmin are worse than men at this..
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
Ccincy: What really pees me off is how some hold grudges.It seems like women are competing against each other why I don't know.I guess some are still residing in their school days.
No we don't!!!
That's the last bloody time I speak to you, Ccincy.
PS. What's the difference between holding a grudge and walking away from someone destructive, or toxic and not bothering with them anymore?
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
Ccincy: You don't know?
Options for when someone pisses you off:
1. Say so, there and then;
2. Go away, lick wounds, think about why it pissed you off, think of an appropriate way to communicate that, sort is out (this can take a longer time with some things than others);
3. Walk away and forget about them (for severe, irreconcilable cases);
4. If its irreconcilable, but you can't walk away because your paths cross all the time for practical reasons, be civil, but emotionally withdraw.
Ccincy: I should've said petty grudges.Me bad.I guess the 100 degree heat is getting to me.
Oh, I forgot about that one...the heat excuse..
Weatherman is on tv now saying the heat index will be 115 this afternoon and that I should conserve energy and stay cool. So I'll turn the tv off, the computer off, the AC off and then rush myself to the hospital with a bottle of water in my hand...
montecito: Oh, I forgot about that one...the heat excuse..
Weatherman is on tv now saying the heat index will be 115 this afternoon and that I should conserve energy and stay cool. So I'll turn the tv off, the computer off, the AC off and then rush myself to the hospital with a bottle of water in my hand...
Ok ok I'm experienceing my senior momentts because it's hot.
Aren't the weather people so helpful and so forthcoming with info?I wish I got paid for making predictions.
2. Go away, lick wounds, think about why it pissed you off, think of an appropriate way to communicate that, sort is out (this can take a longer time with some things than others);
3. Walk away and forget about them (for severe, irreconcilable cases);
4. If its irreconcilable, but you can't walk away because your paths cross all the time for practical reasons, be civil, but emotionally withdraw.
Which one is it? What have I missed?
You haven't missed a thing I was replying to the threads original topic.
jac379: Yeah, I know. I'm just curious as to what a petty grudge is and how it manifests itself.
I think maybe I'm being a bit autistic here.
Can you give me an example? If you've got the time and inclination.
A petty grudge is when you have to explain to someone what a petty grudge is...
It starts out just being annoyed at her because she asked the question and then it manifests itself into when she says, but how do I know when someone has a petty grudge against me..
So then you have to explain again, that you look at her body language, is she holding the top of her head up while looking in the mirror? That could be enough to cause a petty grudge cause she must me narcistic (sp)..
But you like her no matter how many petty grudges you have against her. You just wish she would put her arm down.
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
montecito: A petty grudge is when you have to explain to someone what a petty grudge is...
It starts out just being annoyed at her because she asked the question and then it manifests itself into when she says, but how do I know when someone has a petty grudge against me..
So then you have to explain again, that you look at her body language, is she holding the top of her head up while looking in the mirror? That could be enough to cause a petty grudge cause she must me narcistic (sp)..
But you like her no matter how many petty grudges you have against her. You just wish she would put her arm down.
Thank you, Monte, but I'm still none the wiser and I have a sneeeeaky feeling you're mocking me.
i had a girl friend with a blue and gold macaw who scared him bad in the night accidentally. he would never let her near him again and the vet told her why.
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »