Is Being Too Nice To Women Wrong? i.e. never arguing with them, lots of compliments, etc (47)
acdcrock
It is not wrong to be nice to women, or to anyone else. It maybe wrong if you don't see which girls like to be treated nicely and which don't. Analyse yourself and understand whether you are attracted by those who don't like it and you still give it to them. This could be the point of misunderstanding between you and them.
Best wishes.
It is not wrong to be nice to women, or to anyone else. It maybe wrong if you don't see which girls like to be treated nicely and which don't. Analyse yourself and understand whether you are attracted by those who don't like it and you still give it to them. This could be the point of misunderstanding between you and them.
Best wishes.
Boban1: You need to spend some time down here in Serbia .. ,
haha, that's funny.....i'm always nice to everybody....but it seems that men don't like ...nice...i would love to meet nice...who appreciates the same.....sometimes i wonder, whats wrong with people.....
acdcrock: I created this because i'm always nice to girls when i go out with them or try to date them, and they say i'm way too nice and hate me for being too nice and never kinda tough or mean to them.
2 great examples of this was on anouther site i met a girl and she was from victoria and she knew i didn't have much money so she said come vist and wait for me on the streets for a few hours when you get there and you can come here and stay, she never showed up i waited 4 days in the rain on the streets of vic, i called her on it she said i was too nice and i should have told her no i didn't want to do it and treat her a bit mean.
The other example is a girl wanted me to call her and txt her all the time and then one day out of the blue told me to get lost cause i was too clingy i didn't understand but i wished her well
2 great examples of this was on anouther site i met a girl and she was from victoria and she knew i didn't have much money so she said come vist and wait for me on the streets for a few hours when you get there and you can come here and stay, she never showed up i waited 4 days in the rain on the streets of vic, i called her on it she said i was too nice and i should have told her no i didn't want to do it and treat her a bit mean.
The other example is a girl wanted me to call her and txt her all the time and then one day out of the blue told me to get lost cause i was too clingy i didn't understand but i wished her well
It sounds like you need to keep looking until you find a girl who is nice to you. The story about the girl who said you could stay with her and then left you on the streets for 4 days sounds bizarre.
I think some guys never argue but they want to. Instead, they keep the things they want to argue about all bottled up inside themselves. Then they get all sulky because their girlfriend doesn't know why they are sulking because she doesn't have ESP. So if you hate your girlfriend's clothes, you need to tell her. Then she will change clothes or dump you and get someone who likes her clothes. But you can't just sulk and hope she figures out that you're sulking because you hate her clothes but don't have the nerve to tell her. The gist of this story is not about clothes. That's the kind of guy I think of whenever guys say they are "too nice" and nice guys all finish last. I would feel better off with someone who was better adjusted and capable of speaking up about things. If you never say no then people will walk all over you.
I find good compliments about me odd.I'm so used to negative ones that the good ones are just like um..ok to me.lol
I only say yes, because I was recently told by an expert that it's not good at first, to attract them, he says you have to be funny/cocky, if you want to look him up, his name is David DeAngelo
I'm always too nice and end up not finishing last, because I never get to start. Maybe I need to be an A#*hole like some others. It seems that the guys that treat women bad, are the ones that women are attracted to.
acdcrock: I created this because i'm always nice to girls when i go out with them or try to date them, and they say i'm way too nice and hate me for being too nice and never kinda tough or mean to them.
2 great examples of this was on anouther site i met a girl and she was from victoria and she knew i didn't have much money so she said come vist and wait for me on the streets for a few hours when you get there and you can come here and stay, she never showed up i waited 4 days in the rain on the streets of vic, i called her on it she said i was too nice and i should have told her no i didn't want to do it and treat her a bit mean.
The other example is a girl wanted me to call her and txt her all the time and then one day out of the blue told me to get lost cause i was too clingy i didn't understand but i wished her well
2 great examples of this was on anouther site i met a girl and she was from victoria and she knew i didn't have much money so she said come vist and wait for me on the streets for a few hours when you get there and you can come here and stay, she never showed up i waited 4 days in the rain on the streets of vic, i called her on it she said i was too nice and i should have told her no i didn't want to do it and treat her a bit mean.
The other example is a girl wanted me to call her and txt her all the time and then one day out of the blue told me to get lost cause i was too clingy i didn't understand but i wished her well
Not nice enough (arrogant etc) = no luck with the ladies.
Way to nice (passive etc) = no luck with the ladies.
Assertive (not arrogant or passive) = better chance with the ladies.
Women don't want or need men to over impress or act like jerks!!!
Women respond to fun, responsible, mature men... the rest is debatable lol
all the best buddy
emesoog: I'm always too nice and end up not finishing last, because I never get to start. Maybe I need to be an A#*hole like some others. It seems that the guys that treat women bad, are the ones that women are attracted to.
IMO, this kind of attitude is very typical of the human race, male and female ... I call it going from one extreme to the other... when the pendulum swings so to speak... perhaps somewhere in between would help... my previous post might better explain what I mean by this so you might want to check it out.
cheers!!!
mariespoodles: IMO, this kind of attitude is very typical of the human race, male and female ... I call it going from one extreme to the other... when the pendulum swings so to speak... perhaps somewhere in between would help... my previous post might better explain what I mean by this so you might want to check it out.
cheers!!!
just because you can teach canines does not mean you can teach men too...cheers!!!
marss: just because you can teach canines does not mean you can teach men too...
You're right marss
and I really don't profess to have that kind of skill anyway Canines are definitely much easier to teach than the defensive male. It was just an opinion only and not meant to be taken personally btw
cytrynka: haha, that's funny.....i'm always nice to everybody....but it seems that men don't like ...nice...i would love to meet nice...who appreciates the same.....sometimes i wonder, whats wrong with people.....
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i put yes in the poll cos you dont want to be walked over but personally i dont think you can be too kind lol. the only people that say nice guys finish last are muppets who treat others like dirt so ye maybe i have been too nice in the past but il be the same every time :)
rohaan: A man was stranded on a desert isle. Up on the beach washed a lamp. He rubbed it, and out came a Genie. The genie said, "You are only allowed one wish from me, not the usual three". The man thought long and hard, and then made his decision. "I want you to give me a bridge from here to the mainland". The genie was very distraught. "Master", he said, "accomplishing that would come short of destroying the entire world as we know it. All the materials that would be used up! All the resources! It would just be impossible! Do you have another wish?"
"Why yes", the man said. "All my life I've wanted and needed to understand women. I wish for that".
The genie replied, "Your bridge will be ready in an hour".
"Why yes", the man said. "All my life I've wanted and needed to understand women. I wish for that".
The genie replied, "Your bridge will be ready in an hour".
That's GREAT!!!! IT's really easy, thou, to understand women... be honest, and argue back when you know they're wrong, and most of all, call them on their games and bullying and usual games playing tricks. When they do these things, my opinion of them is the lowers of the low. I lose all respect for them when they do these kind of things.
Smart ones knows this is not good way, so they grow up and appreciates a real man who is honest and real, faithful and trustworthy, and needs never to be "clingy" nor "stalkery" kind of thing.
But then, there's not enough smart ones, as there are too many DUMB ones, playing games and bullying and being very, very, very stupid. Their loss.
Love is Patient, Love is Kind, Love does not envy, love does not boast.....
Yes we should be Nice to Women, tho we should never be taken as a doormat either!!! 4 Days in the rain was being a doormat, sorry!
Hello Englishelegance, Long time you have been Hiding, Great to see You!
Yes we should be Nice to Women, tho we should never be taken as a doormat either!!! 4 Days in the rain was being a doormat, sorry!
Hello Englishelegance, Long time you have been Hiding, Great to see You!
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2 great examples of this was on anouther site i met a girl and she was from victoria and she knew i didn't have much money so she said come vist and wait for me on the streets for a few hours when you get there and you can come here and stay, she never showed up i waited 4 days in the rain on the streets of vic, i called her on it she said i was too nice and i should have told her no i didn't want to do it and treat her a bit mean.
The other example is a girl wanted me to call her and txt her all the time and then one day out of the blue told me to get lost cause i was too clingy i didn't understand but i wished her well
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