defmandefman Forum Posts (64)

RE: Blokes 3- dreams are still free

Interesting.

Couch is some kind of grass that the aniamls wouldn't eat, must be unappetising.

What kind of grass is couch?

RE: I am rich in....

Same here. John 14:6 KJB!

RE: .Rejection makes u angry?

Nope. Nothing at all. Being deaf, I get so many scammers thinking they can hoodwink me or fool me. Sad, really. I hardly get any emails, even from a friend I made here a few months ago. No idea if she's okay or not. Oh well.

Rejection is good, it only tells you that her or she is not right for you, that's all.

The rejected just have to accepts that sometimes, this or that person is not right for you, okay.

I like lots of ladies, all kinds, but... I knows they're not for me, most of them are married, most of them have boyfriends or with someone, and most of them all different, different interests, and all that.

I don't know how two people would know that they are right for each other. It's a mystery to me.

Since my split from my exgf 8 years ago I never found a good woman yet. Met many but... most were scammers, most were liars, most were... not right for me, or that I'm not right for them, and so on and so on. Oh well.

I still have hopes that, somehow, I would meet my future wife. If that's allowed, I'd be happy. if not, I'm still happy in my singlehood.

I never do affairs, I never do one-night-stands, I never do quickies. I don't believes in those things.

I want to find the right woman, court her, marry her, be a real family. I never had that.

Oh well. Maybe one day. So I wait upon Jesus. That's how it is. No worries.

I don't worry about women who gets angry and harrasses me. I don't know, I never met one who was unhappy after I says no, because I always talks to her and explains everything carefully, my hopes, my dreams, and see if she can fit in... most do not. Mostly because I'm deaf and most women, hearing women, thinks I'm inferior or something. Sorry, I AM superior, I read, I think, I am independent. I feel sorry for them.

I also stay away from feminists, and such types.

I prefers Biblical woman, but she is hard to find. Very rare. Oh well. No worries. Maybe one day... who knows.

Rejection is good, it only means that person is not right for you, and so on. No worries. No big deal. No drama. Move on. Try again, and again and again, until you find him/her, or death comes. Whichever. No worries.

RE: Do men like bossy women?

Bossy women equals ugly feminist hags!

No thanks. NEVER again!

Biblical women are way BETTER than these feminists morons!

Yeahhhh!

RE: Why wont she see Sense .

You, sir, is an unethical, treacherous, predatory, narccistic, and psychopaths like you preys on women and expects them to take care of you like a freeloading little child like you are. You're the biggest SCUMBAG on the planet, men and women like you, predatory, preying on folks who WORKS hard to maintains their LIVES.

Why don't you cut your own throats and be done with it! We'll be free of your waste finally!

So there! pffts!cool

RE: how would you deal with being lied to by the Ombudsman Office

Makes sense. Me too, I don't want notihng to do with these snakes in suits psychopaths! They're useless in real life.

RE: how would you deal with being lied to by the Ombudsman Office

Wow. It's why i want nothing to do with these ... snakes in suits!

RE: Little Miss Rain Cloud

thumbs up Yup, let's have FUN! banana peace dancing cheers

RE: Should Lara Bingle have fronted up to court about her car bingle

rolling on the floor laughing That's what my DVD Player is for, I gets to watch DVD movies (with ESHIs) and not worry about Laura Bingle TYPES on TV... rolling on the floor laughing

RE: Should Lara Bingle have fronted up to court about her car bingle

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RE: Should Lara Bingle have fronted up to court about her car bingle

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RE: Should Lara Bingle have fronted up to court about her car bingle

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RE: So Ummm, anyone into tin?.-.

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RE: Some advice for everyone

True.

Obstacles merely makes us determined to find ways around it!

Some gives up and try again some other times. Some just keeps going until they breaks through or found a way around the obstacles.

I've known a few "dis-abled" a long time ago. At ParaQuad, for a year. Oh well.

RE: Some advice for everyone

That works better! Helps self-responsibility, and self-reliance, equals independence... which is what I want, too.

RE: Some advice for everyone

That's very GOOD!thumbs up

RE: Some advice for everyone

I'm deaf. I'm careful of people. Especially blacks. I was bashed for nothing at this nightclub when I was 17. Never again. I never trusts anyone. Makes for a lonely life, but at least I don't get hurt.

RE: People in Texas now have to pay local & state taxes for online purchases

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RE: finding love

True!doh

RE: WHY WOMAN SO BAD WITH CREDIT CARDS?

Totally TRUE!

When I mex my ex-girlfriend, I helped her pay off her debts, every one of them, and then I found out she racked up debts at the local DELI! Sheesh! So I helped her with my tough love, even then, she still racks up debts.

Problem: How the hell she gonna learn to control her compulsions to spend, spend, spend? How to teach her to learn self-restraint, resists the impulse buying?

Answer: talk, talk, talk... show her the idea that by saving a cent, she can build it onto a pile of Uncle Scrooge's wet dream!

Problem: It almost worked, but it didn't. Her damned addictions to drugs, booze, doctors' prescriptions, mades it worse.

Answer: So I saved and HIDES my money, about 1% for a year, and then I asks her, does she wants to get better? Well, I thought it would be good if she do it herself, as I have tried for SEVEN years, and I'd support her no matter what.

Just like that I'm out, and she got someone within a few days. All my efforts, WASTED.

She was the wrong woman for me, obviously, but, like a bonehead, I thought I could love her and help her improve her life, as well as her kids, whom I loves very much. (sighs).

So, never again, I'll never fall for the wrong women who thinks money grows on trees.

Now I enjoy my life, saves up and see my savings exactly where they are, not being spent behind my back. My money will be for my future, get my own place, pay off my car, make a real life that I never had before!

I rather be single than settle for such a woman like my ex ever again!

I'll wait and be SURE of woman before I'll let them back into my life. I know what I want, a gem that God wrote about in the bible. Simple.

No worries!

RE: Women are afraid of true love...

Ditto!

RE: HOW SICK IS THIS

IT's exactly why I don't want pets. I never lived more than a few weeks without pets. Mum loves cats, and her boyfriend loves dogs, but to see them I'd think they don't care. Maybe it's the possession, the ownership of something. I don't know. I gave up trying to figure it out. And I will not accept any more bloody animals! I did once, I saved mum's cat, he stayed with me, and about 15 years later, he passed away. God, I never want to see that ever again. I loved that cat, he was like a loyal friend, a funny bloke who likes to play hide-and-seek, and more than anything loves to sleep above my head on the pillow. I miss him sometimes. But I won't do it again. I never had a life without animals, so I'm waiting to get my own place and see what it's like without any animals needing me every five minutes or so. Ah well.

I know my limits, though. Most of my life, I didn't want cats, it was mum who needed them, one cat dies, she replace it quickly, she's unable to grieve properly, it hurts too much. No tme, I went through the grieving process and I came out better. Her boyfriend's not much of a dog person, he'd get these days, and never bothers to train them, just pats them, and that's about it.

Cats or dogs, people should show that they can look after them, knows how to keep them healthy with stimulating activities, etc then they can have a cat or a dog.

As it is, we're overwhelmed by the stupidities of people who overreached themselves with too many cats and dogs, or other pets, and not understand themselves so they lashes out wacking the animals in their frustrations.

Know your limits, think about whether having a dog or cat really will make your life better or something. Or will it cramp your life? Had questions, but logical.

No worries.

RE: If I gave you $1000.00

I'd give the $1,000 to Gospel for Asia, Voice of the Martyrs, Joanthan Gray's Ministries, some othere. No worries.

RE: Guys: Would you consider going out with an avg. looking woman if she took a chance & asked you out

Thanks, much appreciated! Would be nice to date ya, but like you say, distance is a problem, (sighs). Oh well, online friendship is okay, where we can vent our spleen, muse about stuff that puzzles us and so on. No worries! It's all good!

RE: Can a mindmate be someone much younger/older than yourself?

Thanks, sure appreciates it. It's all good!thumbs up

RE: Expressions of Interest for a Perth Meet 2012

rolling on the floor laughing Yeah it's okay... please, dont' turn to drink and smokes, they're... ugh... okay, nice foods, nice music, nice sunset or stars, very romantic! Eh. grin

RE: Expressions of Interest for a Perth Meet 2012

Willagee, that's where I live... board & lodging, rent's out there are insane... so I'm stuck, oh well. It's okay. thumbs up

RE: Expressions of Interest for a Perth Meet 2012

rolling on the floor laughing same goes for visions of hot women migrating across to WA!!!

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RE: TYPES OF WOMEN

I'd go for biblical woman, she is feminine, way better than the women I knew before...

I dont' like feminists (www.ladiesagainstfeminism.com have data on this; because most women follows weird religions and their lives are very unhappy, even when they claims they're not. I've noticed that empowered women are not happy, either, for their hearts are empty.

It all makes sense, to choose Biblical woman, though. They're more happier, and likes simple life.

That's why I choosed biblical woman.

It's all good, there's hope for lost women to wake up and choose Jesus and become Biblical women, they'll find out it's much more than what the world has led them to believe, for True believers have happier lives, better lives, contentment and such. No worries.

It's all good!

RE: Don't you just hate it!

Yeah...! And... uh? What? What ... was we talking about? Oh yeah! Uh? No, not that one... Um... Got to get some more Bingko Biloba! Dumb herbs! Uh.... oh well.




























rolling on the floor laughing Nuts! Yeah, we gets that sometimes, but I read it, some newspaper article, scientist figures out DOORWAYS acts like closure fo rhte brain to shuts off one part of the room, thus, memory, from the other part of the room, thus memory, and so we forget we left teh keys in that room, nto this room, because the brain shuts it out as it's not in that room, but in this room, that its in... hopes it makes sense...

Well, I learned that years before, I'd traces my steps and recalls what I was doing, back, back, back, and... there it is! Left it there, the keys or whatever... oh well.

Such is life! It's all GOOD!

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