Is Being Too Nice To Women Wrong? i.e. never arguing with them, lots of compliments, etc (47)
Just always be yourself dude....... 
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acdcrock: I created this because i'm always nice to girls when i go out with them or try to date them, and they say i'm way too nice and hate me for being too nice and never kinda tough or mean to them.
2 great examples of this was on anouther site i met a girl and she was from victoria and she knew i didn't have much money so she said come vist and wait for me on the streets for a few hours when you get there and you can come here and stay, she never showed up i waited 4 days in the rain on the streets of vic, i called her on it she said i was too nice and i should have told her no i didn't want to do it and treat her a bit mean.
The other example is a girl wanted me to call her and txt her all the time and then one day out of the blue told me to get lost cause i was too clingy i didn't understand but i wished her well
2 great examples of this was on anouther site i met a girl and she was from victoria and she knew i didn't have much money so she said come vist and wait for me on the streets for a few hours when you get there and you can come here and stay, she never showed up i waited 4 days in the rain on the streets of vic, i called her on it she said i was too nice and i should have told her no i didn't want to do it and treat her a bit mean.
The other example is a girl wanted me to call her and txt her all the time and then one day out of the blue told me to get lost cause i was too clingy i didn't understand but i wished her well
I think that being nice to women is a good thing, but I thik you have been treated poorly by these women. But I think that there is nothing wrong with standing your ground. Sometimes, an arguement is ok.
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acdcrock: I created this because i'm always nice to girls when i go out with them or try to date them, and they say i'm way too nice and hate me for being too nice and never kinda tough or mean to them.
2 great examples of this was on anouther site i met a girl and she was from victoria and she knew i didn't have much money so she said come vist and wait for me on the streets for a few hours when you get there and you can come here and stay, she never showed up i waited 4 days in the rain on the streets of vic, i called her on it she said i was too nice and i should have told her no i didn't want to do it and treat her a bit mean.
The other example is a girl wanted me to call her and txt her all the time and then one day out of the blue told me to get lost cause i was too clingy i didn't understand but i wished her well
2 great examples of this was on anouther site i met a girl and she was from victoria and she knew i didn't have much money so she said come vist and wait for me on the streets for a few hours when you get there and you can come here and stay, she never showed up i waited 4 days in the rain on the streets of vic, i called her on it she said i was too nice and i should have told her no i didn't want to do it and treat her a bit mean.
The other example is a girl wanted me to call her and txt her all the time and then one day out of the blue told me to get lost cause i was too clingy i didn't understand but i wished her well
You need to spend some time down here in Serbia .. ,
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I think there is being nice and then there is being a doormat.
Being nice and caring is a good thing; but letting women (and men) walk all over you is being a doormat.
Being nice and caring is a good thing; but letting women (and men) walk all over you is being a doormat.
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Be honest and never be a doormat.
That is not good for anyone.
Apart from that: some women like clingy guys others do not.
Same goes with men.
That is not good for anyone.
Apart from that: some women like clingy guys others do not.
Same goes with men.
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lifeisadream: Be honest and never be a doormat.
That is not good for anyone.
Apart from that: some women like clingy guys others do not.
Same goes with men.
i love your new artic picture...i can feel the cold...That is not good for anyone.
Apart from that: some women like clingy guys others do not.
Same goes with men.
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acdcrock: I created this because i'm always nice to girls when i go out with them or try to date them, and they say i'm way too nice and hate me for being too nice and never kinda tough or mean to them.
2 great examples of this was on anouther site i met a girl and she was from victoria and she knew i didn't have much money so she said come vist and wait for me on the streets for a few hours when you get there and you can come here and stay, she never showed up i waited 4 days in the rain on the streets of vic, i called her on it she said i was too nice and i should have told her no i didn't want to do it and treat her a bit mean.
The other example is a girl wanted me to call her and txt her all the time and then one day out of the blue told me to get lost cause i was too clingy i didn't understand but i wished her well
I think you are despirate to get a woman, come on four days. you must be good for a servant.2 great examples of this was on anouther site i met a girl and she was from victoria and she knew i didn't have much money so she said come vist and wait for me on the streets for a few hours when you get there and you can come here and stay, she never showed up i waited 4 days in the rain on the streets of vic, i called her on it she said i was too nice and i should have told her no i didn't want to do it and treat her a bit mean.
The other example is a girl wanted me to call her and txt her all the time and then one day out of the blue told me to get lost cause i was too clingy i didn't understand but i wished her well
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After re-reading your post, you waited for someone you never met 4 days outside in the rain? C'mon now...difficult to believe, but if it is true, then I say Yes, toughen up. Develop more sense of self and boundaries. A woman cannot know you, if you don't know your own self.
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acdcrock: I created this because i'm always nice to girls when i go out with them or try to date them, and they say i'm way too nice and hate me for being too nice and never kinda tough or mean to them.
2 great examples of this was on anouther site i met a girl and she was from victoria and she knew i didn't have much money so she said come vist and wait for me on the streets for a few hours when you get there and you can come here and stay, she never showed up i waited 4 days in the rain on the streets of vic, i called her on it she said i was too nice and i should have told her no i didn't want to do it and treat her a bit mean.
The other example is a girl wanted me to call her and txt her all the time and then one day out of the blue told me to get lost cause i was too clingy i didn't understand but i wished her well
2 great examples of this was on anouther site i met a girl and she was from victoria and she knew i didn't have much money so she said come vist and wait for me on the streets for a few hours when you get there and you can come here and stay, she never showed up i waited 4 days in the rain on the streets of vic, i called her on it she said i was too nice and i should have told her no i didn't want to do it and treat her a bit mean.
The other example is a girl wanted me to call her and txt her all the time and then one day out of the blue told me to get lost cause i was too clingy i didn't understand but i wished her well
I think the girl that told you to wait on the street for a few hours was a bully. Her goal was to make fun of you. She was right that you should have said.....no, I'm not waiting for you for four hours. You waited for her IMO because you are desperate for a girlfriend.
The other girl who told you.....didn't ask you but "told" you to text her all the time was another bully who wanted to play with your emotions.
It's not that you are too nice but that you are too eager and willing to do what a girl tells you to do.
You are very nice looking young man and I would suggest that you take a class about social skills and/or self-esteem. Now that it's out that these two girls made fun of you, others will try it too. Be prepared that you aren't in the market to be told what to do. If a girl sincerely wants to go out with you she will compromise on the time and place to make it easy for both of you. Don't be a carpet for women to walk on. Keep your head up ACD, you will find the right way to meet worthwhile women. Be true to yourself and continue being nice but be cautious...
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acdcrock: Is Being Too Nice To Women Wrong? i.e. never arguing with them, lots of compliments, etc
As gulrads said, always be yourself.Although I disagree about the "never arguing" bit (the choice for words), there's nothing wrong with giving genuine complements. But there are better ways to resolve issues rather than to argue over them. A healthy debate should never reach a raised voice because that will normally turn into a heated argument and usually, both of you will suffer the consequences.
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marss: well put beautiful...
Thank you. 
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speaking for my self.....I joke/banter....as some of you know......the part you dont know is.......that there is a serious part to me......regarding how i feel about people i talk to....i treat them.....men/woman with respect...regardless of thier views....ask me a serious question...I would reply with a serious answer.....in my life time have seen many wrongs/rights......because this court jester is no fool....I myself...cannot change things...I just go alomg with the flow like most......but with respect and manners...trying to make this mad world a little lighter.......thanks for reading. 
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acdcrock: I created this because i'm always nice to girls when i go out with them or try to date them, and they say i'm way too nice and hate me for being too nice and never kinda tough or mean to them.
2 great examples of this was on anouther site i met a girl and she was from victoria and she knew i didn't have much money so she said come vist and wait for me on the streets for a few hours when you get there and you can come here and stay, she never showed up i waited 4 days in the rain on the streets of vic, i called her on it she said i was too nice and i should have told her no i didn't want to do it and treat her a bit mean.
The other example is a girl wanted me to call her and txt her all the time and then one day out of the blue told me to get lost cause i was too clingy i didn't understand but i wished her well
i think women prefere to talk to thier guys it is first option for them,women like to talk to thier female friends too2 great examples of this was on anouther site i met a girl and she was from victoria and she knew i didn't have much money so she said come vist and wait for me on the streets for a few hours when you get there and you can come here and stay, she never showed up i waited 4 days in the rain on the streets of vic, i called her on it she said i was too nice and i should have told her no i didn't want to do it and treat her a bit mean.
The other example is a girl wanted me to call her and txt her all the time and then one day out of the blue told me to get lost cause i was too clingy i didn't understand but i wished her well
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trueheart1941: speaking for my self.....I joke/banter....as some of you know......the part you dont know is.......that there is a serious part to me......regarding how i feel about people i talk to....i treat them.....men/woman with respect...regardless of thier views....ask me a serious question...I would reply with a serious answer.....in my life time have seen many wrongs/rights......because this court jester is no fool....I myself...cannot change things...I just go alomg with the flow like most......but with respect and manners...trying to make this mad world a little lighter.......thanks for reading.
Hey, Pete! Good post! I know what you're saying and I know you have a serious side as well. You let it show when necessary! And so ya know, your joking/bantering has always given me plenty of laughs and I hope there'll never be any reason for you to stop!Cheers to you, good man!
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YouMeUs: Hey, Pete! Good post! I know what you're saying and I know you have a serious side as well. You let it show when necessary! And so ya know, your joking/bantering has always given me plenty of laughs and I hope there'll never be any reason for you to stop!
Cheers to you, good man!
hi.....Y....how your doing fella.....Cheers to you, good man!
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If some strange guy waited 4 days in the rain...I would consider that kinda stalkery. And nothing is a bigger turn-off than a "clingy" man. You need to set some boundaries, get some self respect and remember, nothing is more attractive than confidence.
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trueheart1941: hi.....Y....how your doing fella..... its quite tonite....!!!!!!
Doing good on a Saturday. I think it may be quiet because the rowdy's are out living it up for the weekend! 
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venusenvy: If some strange guy waited 4 days in the rain...I would consider that kinda stalkery. And nothing is a bigger turn-off than a "clingy" man. You need to set some boundaries, get some self respect and remember, nothing is more attractive than confidence.
I am confident.....one day i will have my wicked way with you.........wow.....hows that for confidence...... 
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trueheart1941: I am confident.....one day i will have my wicked way with you.........wow.....hows that for confidence......
Pretty good actually
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venusenvy: Pretty good actually
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acdcrock: I created this because i'm always nice to girls when i go out with them or try to date them, and they say i'm way too nice and hate me for being too nice and never kinda tough or mean to them.
2 great examples of this was on anouther site i met a girl and she was from victoria and she knew i didn't have much money so she said come vist and wait for me on the streets for a few hours when you get there and you can come here and stay, she never showed up i waited 4 days in the rain on the streets of vic, i called her on it she said i was too nice and i should have told her no i didn't want to do it and treat her a bit mean.
The other example is a girl wanted me to call her and txt her all the time and then one day out of the blue told me to get lost cause i was too clingy i didn't understand but i wished her well
2 great examples of this was on anouther site i met a girl and she was from victoria and she knew i didn't have much money so she said come vist and wait for me on the streets for a few hours when you get there and you can come here and stay, she never showed up i waited 4 days in the rain on the streets of vic, i called her on it she said i was too nice and i should have told her no i didn't want to do it and treat her a bit mean.
The other example is a girl wanted me to call her and txt her all the time and then one day out of the blue told me to get lost cause i was too clingy i didn't understand but i wished her well
You are who you are and nothing can change that. There are nice girls out there. You just are picking the wrong ones. Get to know them a lot better before trying to meet them in person and make sure this is what THEY want also!! Good Luck!!
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Why do you think you always have to be "nice" as you say, to women? I´m always a little bit suspicious of men here who claim how "nice" they are.
None of us are always "nice" that´s human nature.
Be yourself. warts and all, if that equates with being too "clingy" then think about how you can change or deal with your apparent insecurities.
None of us are always "nice" that´s human nature.
Be yourself. warts and all, if that equates with being too "clingy" then think about how you can change or deal with your apparent insecurities.
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acdcrock: I created this because i'm always nice to girls when i go out with them or try to date them, and they say i'm way too nice and hate me for being too nice and never kinda tough or mean to them.
2 great examples of this was on anouther site i met a girl and she was from victoria and she knew i didn't have much money so she said come vist and wait for me on the streets for a few hours when you get there and you can come here and stay, she never showed up i waited 4 days in the rain on the streets of vic, i called her on it she said i was too nice and i should have told her no i didn't want to do it and treat her a bit mean.
The other example is a girl wanted me to call her and txt her all the time and then one day out of the blue told me to get lost cause i was too clingy i didn't understand but i wished her well
2 great examples of this was on anouther site i met a girl and she was from victoria and she knew i didn't have much money so she said come vist and wait for me on the streets for a few hours when you get there and you can come here and stay, she never showed up i waited 4 days in the rain on the streets of vic, i called her on it she said i was too nice and i should have told her no i didn't want to do it and treat her a bit mean.
The other example is a girl wanted me to call her and txt her all the time and then one day out of the blue told me to get lost cause i was too clingy i didn't understand but i wished her well
I doubt that they actually hate you for being nice. What they're trying to tell you is that they want someone who can assert themselves and you are not it.
You can assert your needs without being mean. Nice & Mean are two way different things. Never arguing? Disagreeing with someone isn't arguing, its having your own opinion and having the guts to stick up for that opinion. Arguing is disagreeing and then belittling their opinion. You can think the other person is wrong and disagree without arguing.
"I respect that you feel that way, but I don't see it that way myself." And end it there...That's asserting yourself.
Dude? Four days? In the rain...that's not being nice. That's desperation. Move on!
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JAN_is: I think we´ve all got that!
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marss: love you jan...catch this ball of love....
Thank you
I experience more chivalry here in Spain and other countries I´ve lived in than in my birthplace, England. I´m not sure why that is. Perhaps it has something to do with traditional values which still exist here.
I´m a feminist in the true sense of the word, which means I am not offended in the slightest if a man opens the door for me/takes my coat/offers me a seat...... or otherwise.
I am offended if an elderly woman or man is not offered the same courtesy, and sadly the youth of today have less respect for their elders.
I blame the parents.
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On the other hand, there are guys like me whose whole total personality is a "too nice" personality. That's really who I am as a person. You can't teach an old dog new tricks. So I guess I'll just keep being the nice person I am, and hopefully the woman I met on the other site works out for me, which is a very high probability.
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acdcrock: I created this because i'm always nice to girls when i go out with them or try to date them, and they say i'm way too nice and hate me for being too nice and never kinda tough or mean to them.
2 great examples of this was on anouther site i met a girl and she was from victoria and she knew i didn't have much money so she said come vist and wait for me on the streets for a few hours when you get there and you can come here and stay, she never showed up i waited 4 days in the rain on the streets of vic, i called her on it she said i was too nice and i should have told her no i didn't want to do it and treat her a bit mean.
The other example is a girl wanted me to call her and txt her all the time and then one day out of the blue told me to get lost cause i was too clingy i didn't understand but i wished her well
A man was stranded on a desert isle. Up on the beach washed a lamp. He rubbed it, and out came a Genie. The genie said, "You are only allowed one wish from me, not the usual three". The man thought long and hard, and then made his decision. "I want you to give me a bridge from here to the mainland". The genie was very distraught. "Master", he said, "accomplishing that would come short of destroying the entire world as we know it. All the materials that would be used up! All the resources! It would just be impossible! Do you have another wish?"2 great examples of this was on anouther site i met a girl and she was from victoria and she knew i didn't have much money so she said come vist and wait for me on the streets for a few hours when you get there and you can come here and stay, she never showed up i waited 4 days in the rain on the streets of vic, i called her on it she said i was too nice and i should have told her no i didn't want to do it and treat her a bit mean.
The other example is a girl wanted me to call her and txt her all the time and then one day out of the blue told me to get lost cause i was too clingy i didn't understand but i wished her well
"Why yes", the man said. "All my life I've wanted and needed to understand women. I wish for that".
The genie replied, "Your bridge will be ready in an hour".
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rohaan: A man was stranded on a desert isle. Up on the beach washed a lamp. He rubbed it, and out came a Genie. The genie said, "You are only allowed one wish from me, not the usual three". The man thought long and hard, and then made his decision. "I want you to give me a bridge from here to the mainland". The genie was very distraught. "Master", he said, "accomplishing that would come short of destroying the entire world as we know it. All the materials that would be used up! All the resources! It would just be impossible! Do you have another wish?"
"Why yes", the man said. "All my life I've wanted and needed to understand women. I wish for that".
The genie replied, "Your bridge will be ready in an hour".
"Why yes", the man said. "All my life I've wanted and needed to understand women. I wish for that".
The genie replied, "Your bridge will be ready in an hour".
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Just keep on being who you are.
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Is Being Too Nice To Women Wrong? i.e. never arguing with them, lots of compliments, etc(Vote Below)
2 great examples of this was on anouther site i met a girl and she was from victoria and she knew i didn't have much money so she said come vist and wait for me on the streets for a few hours when you get there and you can come here and stay, she never showed up i waited 4 days in the rain on the streets of vic, i called her on it she said i was too nice and i should have told her no i didn't want to do it and treat her a bit mean.
The other example is a girl wanted me to call her and txt her all the time and then one day out of the blue told me to get lost cause i was too clingy i didn't understand but i wished her well