Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage? (153)

Dec 27, 2011 2:57 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
YouMeUs: We're living in a disposable society and it's only getting bigger. It's getting to where we can jump into a relationship while knowing it can be dissolved/discarded if it wasn't to our liking.
I'm like you with wanting/needing a complete connection with one's heart and soul. I believe there are others feeling the same out there.


Why shouldn't it be that way? Why is it people believe you should be stuck with someone you don't love, or sometimes don't even get along with because of some piece of paper? confused

That doesn't mean people are disposable, it just means not everyone is compatable, and it can take time to figure that out.

I think a lot of people get married because they're insecure in their relationship in the first place. It's not going to fix it or magically make it work by saying I do.
Dec 27, 2011 2:58 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
Be careful young lady....i am a blackbelt in needlework!grin rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing wave lips
Dec 27, 2011 2:59 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
time4fun4u: Be careful young lady....i am a blackbelt in needlework!
That was to 2intriguesd....doh
Dec 27, 2011 3:02 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
Mysticalli: I have seen couples who just live together but for the world they´re already married. They even wear commitment rings to show the world that they´re "married".
Kinda like pretending to be married? I have met a few women who are in a "living together" relationship but never seen them wearing commitment rings. Is this something new? It's not a bad idea, actually, in that it may detour single people from making passes/flirting with them...well, some of them anyway. laugh
Dec 27, 2011 3:08 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
nevica
nevicanevicabeautiful, Gavleborg Sweden11 Threads 640 Posts
time4fun4u: I think a good distance is ideal That way,none of my girlfriends are likely to bump into each other.
thumbs up
also a good distance between me and my lovers, so we not get bored of each other and every day routine, every time we meet is a honey moon.
marriage for people in my age, why???doh
Dec 27, 2011 3:08 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
time4fun4u: Be careful young lady....i am a blackbelt in needlework!


Dare I ask where your needle is grin rolling on the floor laughing hug
Dec 27, 2011 3:09 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
2intrigued: Dare I ask where your needle is
Whoops! I thought you had logged off,and i was feeling all brave.hole help
Dec 27, 2011 3:10 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
2intrigued: Dare I ask where your needle is



Better question, does it work?laugh

wave
Dec 27, 2011 3:10 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
kidatheart: Better question, does it work?
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing mumbling
Dec 27, 2011 3:12 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
time4fun4u: Whoops! I thought you had logged off,and i was feeling all brave.


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing grin
Dec 27, 2011 3:14 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
Mysticalli
MysticalliMysticalliTeresina, Piaui Brazil6 Threads 5 Polls 1,303 Posts
YouMeUs: Kinda like pretending to be married? I have met a few women who are in a "living together" relationship but never seen them wearing commitment rings. Is this something new? It's not a bad idea, actually, in that it may detour single people from making passes/flirting with them...well, some of them anyway.


you´re right. They pretend to the others and this way they can avoid the flirters. laugh
Dec 27, 2011 3:16 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
kidatheart: Better question, does it work?


Good one rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing grin hug
Dec 27, 2011 3:17 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
2intrigued: Good one
No it wasnt! snooty
Dec 27, 2011 3:18 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
Mysticalli
MysticalliMysticalliTeresina, Piaui Brazil6 Threads 5 Polls 1,303 Posts
galrads: huh, this is news to me. Are they worn on a certain finger. Do they have a specific shape, metal, rock et. al. ?


Hi, galrads. wave Well, I don´t know if there´s an specific kind of ring cause I´ve never been in such relationship. But they wear on the usual finger(is there a right name for that finger?) as the married people do, on the left hand.
Dec 27, 2011 3:19 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
time4fun4u: No it wasnt!


Aww comfort laugh
Dec 27, 2011 3:20 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
2intrigued: Aww
rolling on the floor laughing tongue
Dec 27, 2011 3:25 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
time4fun4u: No it wasnt!


oh....gosh....i'm thinkin' it was......LOLOL
Dec 27, 2011 3:26 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
jono7: oh....gosh....i'm thinkin' it was......LOLOL
Dont you start or else! snooty
Dec 27, 2011 3:28 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
jono7: oh....gosh....i'm thinkin' it was......LOLOL


One of the benefits of long distance relationships is being able to tease peeps like T4 knowing darn well we are out of harms way laugh wave
Dec 27, 2011 3:28 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
LOLOL....what?
Dec 27, 2011 3:29 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
hi 2I: in total agreement with ya here!! lolol
Dec 27, 2011 3:30 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
2intrigued: One of the benefits of long distance relationships is being able to tease peeps like T4 knowing darn well we are out of harms way
Dont be so sure...just look under your bed tonight! grin
Dec 27, 2011 3:32 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
kidatheart: Why shouldn't it be that way? Why is it people believe you should be stuck with someone you don't love, or sometimes don't even get along with because of some piece of paper?

That doesn't mean people are disposable, it just means not everyone is compatable, and it can take time to figure that out.

I think a lot of people get married because they're insecure in their relationship in the first place. It's not going to fix it or magically make it work by saying I do.
See, that's the thing. Knowing that IF it doesn't work, it's EASY to toss it out and get another one. That is being a disposable society.

And I don't believe anyone should be stuck in a marriage that isn't working (if they have tried to make it work), or being binded by a piece of paper keeping them in it just for the sake of the paper.

But what I do believe in is KNOWING there is love between the couple and regardless of how hard things may get, as long as that love holds up and BOTH work to maintain the relationship, divorce will never happen.
Same applies to living together--it will only last if both feel the love and continue to work on the relationship. And in either case, is it not the compatability that helps form a relationship? I'd like to think that anyone would first want to have that compatability long before any marriage (or living together) is discussed.
Dec 27, 2011 3:34 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
time4fun4u: I peddling as fast as i can!


doh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Dec 27, 2011 3:36 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
time4fun4u: I peddling as fast as i can!


CRAP!!! that was funny!! LOLOL
you two have certainly brought a smile to this one's face today.
time for me to get back to the canvas.
cheers you guys!
Dec 27, 2011 3:39 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
arapaho
arapahoarapahobrisbane, Queensland Australia3 Threads 678 Posts
well nothing happening here in sunny brisbane for me,,,
so i'm open to forming friendships with women overseas,
or a relationship, if !!! its a big if !!!!
Dec 27, 2011 3:49 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
Dan_The_Man
Dan_The_ManDan_The_ManWestlake, Ohio USA2 Threads 2 Polls 23 Posts
YouMeUs: We're living in a disposable society and it's only getting bigger. It's getting to where we can jump into a relationship while knowing it can be dissolved/discarded if it wasn't to our liking.

I'm like you with wanting/needing a complete connection with one's heart and soul. I believe there are others feeling the same out there.


That is a good point, people need not take care of their belongings anymore because they can afford to buy another. Too bad that has transcended to relationships as well. I take pride in the things that I own, I take care of them and repair them when they're not working. I think of a relationship in the same way.
Dec 27, 2011 3:51 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
LOLOL... i could take you up on that! lol
and by the time you've finished pedaling to 2I's, and visit for a while, then peddle across canada..just think about what great shape you'll be in .
the perfect time for a painting....grin
lol

ps. it's winter in canada...better bring chains for your bike...grin
Dec 27, 2011 3:51 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
2intrigued: Perhaps Jono has a spare needle to complete the model
Dec 27, 2011 3:52 PM CST Do you believe a long-distance relationship could lead to marriage?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
lol...
2I, just saw this..
you can fly here, i hear it's a bit faster than peddling, and bring some needles...grin
we can both paint...grin
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