rivame: why do we equate true love with lasting love
we can give ourself heart..body and soul to more than one person in a life time...just because it didnt last doesnt mean it wasnt true at the time....
Its all part of our journey in life
Very nicely put and I completely agree. Love doesn't always last forever but that doesn't mean its not "true". I have been in love twice, one I fell out of love with and the other passed away but they were both "true" at the time. According to the OP I still have one left
Love doesn’t exist! No matter what you call me or how pissed off you get, It doesn't change the fact, that the moral and ethical ideals of love are not yours, you're just borrowing them because you relate to them somehow! People sometimes choose to try and live up to these standards, yet societies, and ancient civilizations, still do both good and bad things. You're living in a fantasy world; when the reality is right in front of you.....don't blame me for making you think for a change, and confronting you with the fact that you feel lost and afraid like everyone else, thus your need to believe in love. I don't feel bound by any standards, because I don't feel imposed by the expectations imply. I'm not a good person, or a bad person, I am, what I am required to be, when the circumstances of any given situation dictate what that requirement is. I do this with total indifference, and I have a freedom, very few will ever know.
miniella: I created this poll because i have never found true love
englisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK3,025 posts
miniella: I created this poll because i have never found true love
Yes I think it does and m,y youngest son has found it as did my parents. My mother died and left my father heartbroken right up to his death after her 15 years later. I say that folk who find this twinflame connection are the lucky ones in life and it does happen to a few. Soulmates and twinflames are to be found so i say never give up on finding them...
Elle_ChanteNoHo Arts District, California USA28 posts
Define "TRUE LOVE". I have loved before...MANY times. It was true, real or whatever you wish to label it. Because it did not last does not make it less "TRUE".
I still believe in soulmates....but now now I think there's more than one. My mother was a soulmate, and so are some of my family members. I think you know right away. There's much less of the "getting to know you" phase.
curly28Perth, Western Australia Australia5,450 posts
Emmettlegend: Yes love exists, but its not what you think. When you meet the one or more like multiple ones your brain realises a chemical called serotonin. This is a feeling of goodness, like when ur with your partner are telling each other ur day was and when u cuddle and hav them wee moments. usually this lasts three years. The honeymoon period so to speak. What can happen is when one person falls OUT OF LOVE this is because they stop preducing this chemical for u and that is that they look for the new partner. usually there is a petentual soul mate every 15 miles u travel. i once looked into research on this and u could meet up to three soul mates in a lifetime. SO GET LOOKIN!
I agree with what you have said except the honeymoon period last aprox one year before the cracks begin to emerge. I do believe you can fall in love / lust quiet a few times in your lifespan. I also believe there is nothing wrong with that outlook on life either. Nothing is forever and that is a fact. So get out there life be in it. I don't mean to be negative just stating facts.
miniella: I created this poll because i have never found true love
Don't worry so much. You are so young still. I didn't find my love until I was 35. Are we still together? No, a disease altered her and sadly she divorced me. I hope that one day she will heal from this awful disease.
Now I have found another love. True love exists. Don't lose heart, and don't give up on your dream, but live each day in the happiness that you find in the little things of life. There is still much joy to be found being single.
Of course, a prayer about your feelings and situation couldn't hurt either. It works for me.
Emmettlegend: Yes love exists, but its not what you think. When you meet the one or more like multiple ones your brain realises a chemical called serotonin. This is a feeling of goodness, like when ur with your partner are telling each other ur day was and when u cuddle and hav them wee moments. usually this lasts three years. The honeymoon period so to speak. What can happen is when one person falls OUT OF LOVE this is because they stop preducing this chemical for u and that is that they look for the new partner. usually there is a petentual soul mate every 15 miles u travel. i once looked into research on this and u could meet up to three soul mates in a lifetime. SO GET LOOKIN!
You know what, go ask some couples who have been married for 25 years or more about your theory on love. You will find that their love is real and transcendent of physical attraction and emotion induced by "chemicals". Love is a decision that each person makes. Love takes on different forms throughout a person's cycle of life. But love persists where people will it to persist. It take two for love to last. One is not enough. The glue is commitment. Not Chemical.
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we can give ourself heart..body and soul to more than one person in a life time...just because it didnt last doesnt mean it wasnt true at the time....
Its all part of our journey in life
Very nicely put and I completely agree. Love doesn't always last forever but that doesn't mean its not "true". I have been in love twice, one I fell out of love with and the other passed away but they were both "true" at the time. According to the OP I still have one left