does true love really exist? (80)

Jun 6, 2012 8:10 PM CST does true love really exist?
JustJess77
JustJess77JustJess77Monroe, North Carolina USA5 Threads 248 Posts
rivame: why do we equate true love with lasting love

we can give ourself heart..body and soul to more than one person in a life time...just because it didnt last doesnt mean it wasnt true at the time....

Its all part of our journey in life


Very nicely put and I completely agree. Love doesn't always last forever but that doesn't mean its not "true". I have been in love twice, one I fell out of love with and the other passed away but they were both "true" at the time. According to the OP I still have one leftyay
Jun 16, 2012 6:07 AM CST does true love really exist?
SpaceOdissey
SpaceOdisseySpaceOdisseyBrussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium2 Posts
Love doesn’t exist!
No matter what you call me or how pissed off you get, It doesn't change the fact, that the moral and ethical ideals of love are not yours, you're just borrowing them because you relate to them somehow! People sometimes choose to try and live up to these standards, yet societies, and ancient civilizations, still do both good and bad things. You're living in a fantasy world; when the reality is right in front of you.....don't blame me for making you think for a change, and confronting you with the fact that you feel lost and afraid like everyone else, thus your need to believe in love. I don't feel bound by any standards, because I don't feel imposed by the expectations imply. I'm not a good person, or a bad person, I am, what I am required to be, when the circumstances of any given situation dictate what that requirement is. I do this with total indifference, and I have a freedom, very few will ever know.
miniella: I created this poll because i have never found true love
Jul 8, 2012 2:15 AM CST does true love really exist?
A_Little_Lupie
A_Little_LupieA_Little_LupieHuntsville, Alabama USA153 Posts
miniella: I created this poll because i have never found true love


I believe it absolutely does...I'm a hopeless romantic and shall continue looking for it until i find it smitten
Jul 14, 2012 7:24 PM CST does true love really exist?
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
miniella: I created this poll because i have never found true love


Yes I think it does and m,y youngest son has found it as did my parents. My mother died and left my father heartbroken right up to his death after her 15 years later. I say that folk who find this twinflame connection are the lucky ones in life and it does happen to a few. Soulmates and twinflames are to be found so i say never give up on finding them...heart wings
Jul 15, 2012 12:03 AM CST does true love really exist?
LonelyMontse08
LonelyMontse08LonelyMontse08San Pedro Sula, Honduras15 Threads 797 Posts
Yes and I am thankful I have experienced it because I consider it a blessing wave
Jul 22, 2012 12:24 PM CST does true love really exist?
RR313
RR313RR313Brooklyn, New York USA53 Posts
hi miniella, i suggest u believe instead of doubt and it will happen for u.heart beating
Jan 8, 2013 4:56 PM CST does true love really exist?
miniella
miniellaminiellaörebro, Orebro Sweden5 Threads 4 Polls 19 Posts
Nessa7: Only in romance movies ......

And 80yr old couples

I think u have a point there::wow: wow wow
Jan 8, 2013 6:05 PM CST does true love really exist?
Elle_Chante
Elle_ChanteElle_ChanteNoHo Arts District, California USA1 Threads 28 Posts
Define "TRUE LOVE". confused I have loved before...MANY times. It was true, real or whatever you wish to label it. Because it did not last does not make it less "TRUE".

I still believe in soulmates....but now now I think there's more than one. My mother was a soulmate, and so are some of my family members. I think you know right away. There's much less of the "getting to know you" phase.

I would like to find my last soulmate though.

heart wings
Jan 8, 2013 6:15 PM CST does true love really exist?
curly28
curly28curly28Perth, Western Australia Australia53 Threads 5,450 Posts
OK Define true love.... my experience thoughout life is one always loves more than the other so define true love confused dunno

Is that love heart beating or not broken heart hmmm confusing
Jan 8, 2013 6:24 PM CST does true love really exist?
curly28
curly28curly28Perth, Western Australia Australia53 Threads 5,450 Posts
Emmettlegend: Yes love exists, but its not what you think. When you meet the one or more like multiple ones your brain realises a chemical called serotonin. This is a feeling of goodness, like when ur with your partner are telling each other ur day was and when u cuddle and hav them wee moments. usually this lasts three years. The honeymoon period so to speak. What can happen is when one person falls OUT OF LOVE this is because they stop preducing this chemical for u and that is that they look for the new partner. usually there is a petentual soul mate every 15 miles u travel. i once looked into research on this and u could meet up to three soul mates in a lifetime. SO GET LOOKIN!




I agree with what you have said except the honeymoon period last aprox one year before the cracks begin to emerge. I do believe you can fall in love / lust quiet a few times in your lifespan. I also believe there is nothing wrong with that outlook on life either. Nothing is forever and that is a fact. So get out there life be in it. I don't mean to be negative just stating facts.
Jan 25, 2013 6:29 AM CST does true love really exist?
ellelyn4
ellelyn4ellelyn4Truro, Cornwall, England UK3 Threads 52 Posts
Nessa7: Only in romance movies ......

And 80yr old couples

i am 70 and I never found true love, don't think it exists. sorry.x
Jan 25, 2013 6:33 AM CST does true love really exist?
vracarski
vracarskivracarskidorcol, Central Serbia Serbia12 Posts
ellelyn4: i am 70 and I never found true love, don't think it exists. sorry.x
THATS SO SAD, NEVER GIVE UP, KEEP FINDING
Jan 25, 2013 7:47 AM CST does true love really exist?
Halv0
Halv0Halv0Marcoola, Queensland Australia19 Threads 766 Posts
miniella: I created this poll because i have never found true love


Don't worry so much. You are so young still. I didn't find my love until I was 35. Are we still together? No, a disease altered her and sadly she divorced me. I hope that one day she will heal from this awful disease.

Now I have found another love. True love exists. Don't lose heart, and don't give up on your dream, but live each day in the happiness that you find in the little things of life. There is still much joy to be found being single.

Of course, a prayer about your feelings and situation couldn't hurt either. It works for me. grin
Jan 25, 2013 7:53 AM CST does true love really exist?
Halv0
Halv0Halv0Marcoola, Queensland Australia19 Threads 766 Posts
Emmettlegend: Yes love exists, but its not what you think. When you meet the one or more like multiple ones your brain realises a chemical called serotonin. This is a feeling of goodness, like when ur with your partner are telling each other ur day was and when u cuddle and hav them wee moments. usually this lasts three years. The honeymoon period so to speak. What can happen is when one person falls OUT OF LOVE this is because they stop preducing this chemical for u and that is that they look for the new partner. usually there is a petentual soul mate every 15 miles u travel. i once looked into research on this and u could meet up to three soul mates in a lifetime. SO GET LOOKIN!


You know what, go ask some couples who have been married for 25 years or more about your theory on love. You will find that their love is real and transcendent of physical attraction and emotion induced by "chemicals". Love is a decision that each person makes. Love takes on different forms throughout a person's cycle of life. But love persists where people will it to persist. It take two for love to last. One is not enough. The glue is commitment. Not Chemical.
Jan 25, 2013 10:59 AM CST does true love really exist?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Some think it's just a game.
Jan 26, 2013 5:52 PM CST does true love really exist?
zante
zantezantechaguanas, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago42 Threads 369 Posts
love could be in front of u and u dont see it.. when God ready he will send someone just have faith....
Jan 26, 2013 5:54 PM CST does true love really exist?
L_B76
L_B76L_B76Italy,Germany ,Switzerland, Greater London, England UK8 Threads 1 Polls 1,117 Posts
miniella: I created this poll because i have never found true love

im not gonna vote...
why the answer isnt on the list..
if u lucky to find the right person... yes exist grin grin grin
Jan 26, 2013 5:56 PM CST does true love really exist?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
sometimes folks just need to get out of their own way so love can exist
jmho
Jan 26, 2013 6:59 PM CST does true love really exist?
lavina
lavinalavinaParadise, Indonesia12 Threads 4,755 Posts
If only you still beliave it too
Jan 26, 2013 7:00 PM CST does true love really exist?
Yep, but it's not easy.
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