Jillll: If men would wear the trousers, that would be great. When I was married, I cooked, cleaned, did the yard work, home schooled the children, took the cars to the shop AND worked outside the home. What did he do? Worked a few days a month, watched tv, and smoked pot. I'm much better off now that I am divorced.
Pot smelly man,ts,ts,ts.and how long lasted,before was given the boot???
RocksmithLoch Sport / Gippsland, Victoria Australia1,170 posts
EagleWoman: No I wouldn´t "expect", I might "hope" though .... same as he might "hope" if he was busy ... There´salways possibility of cooking together irrespective of who´s busy or not ...As I said in other post ... there´s always tapas ...
I didn´t mean my post to reflect expectations but rather the myriad of possibilites and combinations so the expectation wasn´t always on the same person to be the cook
That's just how i took it E/W, lay back, go with the flow, and sensible.
Jillll: If men would wear the trousers, that would be great. When I was married, I cooked, cleaned, did the yard work, home schooled the children, took the cars to the shop AND worked outside the home. What did he do? Worked a few days a month, watched tv, and smoked pot. I'm much better off now that I am divorced.
Next time if you want to marry do it with a chef,you will always complain that he wake up late and comes back home late night after work and spend too many hours on work because most of the professinal chefs works in the dinner hours
purr4mance: Isn’t whats highlighted a contradiction?
After I read this post of yours, I came to the conclusion that (hope) is an (expectation) of in itself, simply semantics. But, I decided to do some research and found it not to be the case. I now understand that one’s (expectations) have nothing to do with someone else and that a multitude of negative emotions can manifest from the resentment triggered by such. As where going with the flow and living each day with (hope) that the uncertainty of life itself and the people within it actually surprise us. Interesting concept !!!
Not sure if you´ve answered your own question or still would like me to explain what I meant... I think the answer is within your own post ...
Rocksmith: That's just how i took it E/W, lay back, go with the flow, and sensible.
How it should be!
Thanks Rock!!
and
How it should be!!!
Trouble seems to be "could haves" and "should haves" and "shouldn´t haves" and "buts" and "didn´ts" and "wants" and "don´t wants" and "told yous" yada yada yada too often seep in while no one´s watching
Jillll: Very slow but I believed everyone who said it was better for the kids.
And it was?? surely not,our only child, without been influenced,then 2,5 years old,now a married man,claims it was the right decision.If there isn't harmony at home,its never better for the kids.JMO
Jack68: Next time if you want to marry do it with a chef,you will always complain that he wake up late and comes back home late night after work and spend too many hours on work because most of the professinal chefs works in the dinner hours
That I can understand. I worked night shift for many years and got home at 7 AM. I wouldn't complain...I'd be at his restaurant eating my dinner.
chris27292729: And it was?? surely not,our only child, without been influenced,then 2,5 years old,now a married man,claims it was the right decision.If there isn't harmony at home,its never better for the kids.JMO
I think it would have been better if I had left when they were young but they werent aware of what was going on as we kept it behind closed doors.
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I hope I have learned that one!