Just as some people are born leaders it will only make sense that some people are born transparent and without the lasting power to stay in the memory of the people around them, These people are obscured by something unknown and by many are dismissed as boring or maybe too complicated. Some might believe them to be irrelevant. Those that are more noticed and that people respond to have something about them that people want to engage them in either a toast or a strong debate. I watch it here on this site just as it is in real life. I do not know that it is wrong or right, I simply know that it is. ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, . One day I made a test in a place I lived where many people walked the sidewalk from all walks of life. Fairly congested on a weekend indeed. I noticed that some people can walk without obstacle and people naturally move out of the way, they are not mean and they show no threat. But people seem to give them a clear path. I have noticed that when I walk I many times out of courtesy will nod my head and make way for as oncoming individual, sometimes they acknowledge, and more and more not. So years ago I tried this test where I took away the eye contact and gave myself something to preoccupy myself as I walked up the sidewalk. OH WOW! ,,it was like a brick wall, and anger, people really mad that you did not get out of "their" way. Maybe some day I will study it more but it is very interesting. I also noticed that a person if need be can some how transform into this unmovable charismatic individual, but that is some type of duplicity and for me seems strange if taken too long. During my little "test", a man walked to me and asked. " did it work the way you thought it would"? Now that was a strange feeling. that's all.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
Nikogas: Just as some people are born leaders it will only make sense that some people are born transparent and without the lasting power to stay in the memory of the people around them, These people are obscured by something unknown and by many are dismissed as boring or maybe too complicated. Some might believe them to be irrelevant. Those that are more noticed and that people respond to have something about them that people want to engage them in either a toast or a strong debate. I watch it here on this site just as it is in real life. I do not know that it is wrong or right, I simply know that it is. ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, . One day I made a test in a place I lived where many people walked the sidewalk from all walks of life. Fairly congested on a weekend indeed. I noticed that some people can walk without obstacle and people naturally move out of the way, they are not mean and they show no threat. But people seem to give them a clear path. I have noticed that when I walk I many times out of courtesy will nod my head and make way for as oncoming individual, sometimes they acknowledge, and more and more not. So years ago I tried this test where I took away the eye contact and gave myself something to preoccupy myself as I walked up the sidewalk. OH WOW! ,,it was like a brick wall, and anger, people really mad that you did not get out of "their" way. Maybe some day I will study it more but it is very interesting. I also noticed that a person if need be can some how transform into this unmovable charismatic individual, but that is some type of duplicity and for me seems strange if taken too long. During my little "test", a man walked to me and asked. " did it work the way you thought it would"? Now that was a strange feeling. that's all.
I have found body language an interesting subject and applies in your research into people reactions in certain circumstances.
I found this reference very useful.http://changingminds.org/techniques/body/body_language.htm
tomcatwarne: I have found body language an interesting subject and applies in your research into people reactions in certain circumstances.
I found this reference very useful.http://changingminds.org/techniques/body/body_language.htm
I will check the link. No doubt whatsoever that body language says a lot. One more reason why online correspondence or dating can be tricky with limited body language or the voice inflections.
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