tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
Glitch101: In this day and age we are lied to by many people,not just in relationships.
Work colleagues, friends,family, the list is endless.
So I find that I'm more upset with the person who chooses to lie to me.
I hope that I am honest enough to face someone with the truth and expect the same from them.j.m.o.
I was upset when consistently lied too, I found out this person was a pathological liar and simply had no conception what the truth was, in fact the truth to them was what they believed at the time, which was the current thought.
I ceased to blame this person for their actions when it was explained to me this person was a psycho pathological liar and would probably never be cured.
I am not one to get upset. Being upset only harms one person,yourself.If someone has an problem with me,i will,without hesitation confront it.If they still have a problem,let them carry the issue around,i have better things to do with my life.
Glitch101London, Greater London, England UK1,079 posts
tomcatwarne: I was upset when consistently lied too, I found out this person was a pathological liar and simply had no conception what the truth was, in fact the truth to them was what they believed at the time, which was the current thought.I ceased to blame this person for their actions when it was explained to me this person was a psycho pathological liar and would probably never be cured.
There is always an exception to the rule. I assume that the poster is talking in general terms don't you.
without a specific example - in general - having someone tell you a lie is a betrayal of trust.... there is no fault in me because I believed it - some people are very good liars and sometimes we want to believe something that we know to be untrue....
although there are times when they believe their own lies.....
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