Do ultimatums work? ( Archived) (61)

Oct 21, 2013 9:52 AM CSTDo ultimatums work?
Girljuice
GirljuiceGirljuiceScottsdale, Arizona, USA31 Threads 7 Polls 478 Posts

Do ultimatums work?(Vote Below)

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Yes
14
21%
No
29
44%
Sometimes
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35%
Total Votes
66
Why do they work or why don't they work and in what situations do they sometimes work?

Got all that? LOL
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Oct 21, 2013 9:55 AM CST Do ultimatums work?
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
Girljuice: Why do they work or why don't they work and in what situations do they sometimes work?



Got all that? LOL


laugh They seemed to work for Don Vito Corleone.
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Oct 21, 2013 9:56 AM CST Do ultimatums work?
Girljuice
GirljuiceGirljuiceScottsdale, Arizona USA31 Threads 7 Polls 478 Posts
pedalguy59: They seemed to work for Don Vito Corleone.


Good one!rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 21, 2013 9:57 AM CST Do ultimatums work?
Deadlines, helps to keep focus on the goal. Motivational instrument. wine
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Oct 21, 2013 10:01 AM CST Do ultimatums work?
Girljuice
GirljuiceGirljuiceScottsdale, Arizona USA31 Threads 7 Polls 478 Posts
CuddlingSoul: Deadlines, helps to keep focus on the goal. Motivational instrument.


Good point!thumbs up
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Oct 21, 2013 10:02 AM CST Do ultimatums work?
CuddlingSoul: Deadlines, helps to keep focus on the goal. Motivational instrument.
What situation? Try dragging feet on a court order and a Judge will show how important ultimatums are.
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Oct 21, 2013 10:03 AM CST Do ultimatums work?
Girljuice
GirljuiceGirljuiceScottsdale, Arizona USA31 Threads 7 Polls 478 Posts
I think they work on young children, 'clean your room or else no ice cream after dinner'.
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Oct 21, 2013 10:12 AM CST Do ultimatums work?
Girljuice: I think they work on young children, 'clean your room or else no ice cream after dinner'.
True, that's another way of looking at it, but on a nonprofessional level, that would be more of a consequence of not cleaning the room.
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Oct 21, 2013 10:19 AM CST Do ultimatums work?
CuddlingSoul: True, that's another way of looking at it, but on a nonprofessional level, that would be more of a consequence of not cleaning the room.
Deadlines: Ultimatums. Consequence: No ice cream.
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Oct 21, 2013 10:22 AM CST Do ultimatums work?
Going to bed, good day all. wave Later.
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Oct 21, 2013 10:23 AM CST Do ultimatums work?
...to be honest I really don't..know weather they do or don't......or where they come from.....?????....but if there over here more likely on benefits.....dunno confused grin grin nerd
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Oct 21, 2013 11:13 AM CST Do ultimatums work?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I would sometimes say they've worked and sometimes not.
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Oct 21, 2013 11:16 AM CST Do ultimatums work?
LoriJames20
LoriJames20LoriJames20San Pedro, Corozal Belize1 Threads 1,172 Posts
Only if they are work-related!! grin
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Oct 21, 2013 11:18 AM CST Do ultimatums work?
Ccincy: I would sometimes say they've worked and sometimes not.
..send bank details or I,ll send the boys in........smoking giggle giggle giggle
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Oct 21, 2013 11:38 AM CST Do ultimatums work?
Glitch101
Glitch101Glitch101London, Greater London, England UK21 Threads 1,079 Posts
I personally don't like the word "ultimatum".

Everything is up for negotiation in my life.

wink
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Oct 21, 2013 11:40 AM CST Do ultimatums work?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
truheart1941: ..send bank details or I,ll send the boys in........




Yah Surerolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 21, 2013 11:55 AM CST Do ultimatums work?
when I was married....said to my wife...(ultimatum)....if I have to keep washing up the dinner things....no nookie tonight.....professor ......she smiled....got up and went to bed......after 18 years of washing up ........my hands are lovely and soft.............rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing grin
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Oct 21, 2013 12:20 PM CST Do ultimatums work?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
deadline
the latest time or date by which something should be completed.

ultimatum
a final demand or statement of terms, the rejection of which will result in retaliation or a breakdown in relations.

different things me thinks...

i think a deadline is good and provides focus for completion.
an ultimatum....not so sure about this...i don't like them.
it can put a negative focus on an issue. in a personal relationship, an ultimatum moves my thinking from love to fear. not where i want to be...i prefer trying to keep a positive view on things.
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Oct 21, 2013 12:49 PM CST Do ultimatums work?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
They certainly wouldnt with me.
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Oct 21, 2013 12:51 PM CST Do ultimatums work?
Girljuice
GirljuiceGirljuiceScottsdale, Arizona USA31 Threads 7 Polls 478 Posts
CuddlingSoul: True, that's another way of looking at it, but on a nonprofessional level, that would be more of a consequence of not cleaning the room.


True.thumbs up
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Oct 21, 2013 12:52 PM CST Do ultimatums work?
Girljuice
GirljuiceGirljuiceScottsdale, Arizona USA31 Threads 7 Polls 478 Posts
Glitch101: I personally don't like the word "ultimatum".

Everything is up for negotiation in my life.


That's a good attitude.thumbs up
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Oct 21, 2013 12:53 PM CST Do ultimatums work?
Girljuice
GirljuiceGirljuiceScottsdale, Arizona USA31 Threads 7 Polls 478 Posts
truheart1941: when I was married....said to my wife...(ultimatum)....if I have to keep washing up the dinner things....no nookie tonight..... ......she smiled....got up and went to bed......after 18 years of washing up ........my hands are lovely and soft.............


rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 21, 2013 12:54 PM CST Do ultimatums work?
Girljuice
GirljuiceGirljuiceScottsdale, Arizona USA31 Threads 7 Polls 478 Posts
jono7: deadline
the latest time or date by which something should be completed.

ultimatum
a final demand or statement of terms, the rejection of which will result in retaliation or a breakdown in relations.

different things me thinks...

i think a deadline is good and provides focus for completion.
an ultimatum....not so sure about this...i don't like them.
it can put a negative focus on an issue. in a personal relationship, an ultimatum moves my thinking from love to fear. not where i want to be...i prefer trying to keep a positive view on things.


Well said, jonothumbs up
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Oct 21, 2013 12:56 PM CST Do ultimatums work?
Girljuice
GirljuiceGirljuiceScottsdale, Arizona USA31 Threads 7 Polls 478 Posts
rebel2: They certainly wouldnt with me.


You are such a sweet man I can't imagine anyone giving you an ultimatum in the first place.teddybear
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Oct 21, 2013 12:57 PM CST Do ultimatums work?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
Girljuice: You are such a sweet man I can't imagine anyone giving you an ultimatum in the first place.
blushing
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Oct 21, 2013 1:46 PM CST Do ultimatums work?
Girljuice: You are such a sweet man I can't imagine anyone giving you an ultimatum in the first place.
...er the Spanish police did....keep the kilt indoors.......grin
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Oct 21, 2013 2:27 PM CST Do ultimatums work?
Girljuice
GirljuiceGirljuiceScottsdale, Arizona USA31 Threads 7 Polls 478 Posts
truheart1941: ...er the Spanish police did....keep the kilt indoors.......

bouquet doh
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Oct 21, 2013 2:30 PM CST Do ultimatums work?
only as long as the Threat of sanctions remains valid!
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Oct 21, 2013 2:41 PM CST Do ultimatums work?
LadyDiz
LadyDizLadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
Ultimatums in the professional world are to be made only as a last resort or where the consequences of having it rejected have been carefully considered and accepted as a possible / probable outcome.

Ultimatums have no place in my personal life. I either accept the situation or I move on. And any ultimatum issued to me will see me walking away never to return.
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Oct 21, 2013 2:48 PM CST Do ultimatums work?
Girljuice
GirljuiceGirljuiceScottsdale, Arizona USA31 Threads 7 Polls 478 Posts
LadyDiz: Ultimatums in the professional world are to be made only as a last resort or where the consequences of having it rejected have been carefully considered and accepted as a possible / probable outcome.

Ultimatums have no place in my personal life. I either accept the situation or I move on. And any ultimatum issued to me will see me walking away never to return.


I agreethumbs up
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Oct 21, 2013 2:51 PM CST Do ultimatums work?
LadyDiz: Ultimatums in the professional world are to be made only as a last resort or where the consequences of having it rejected have been carefully considered and accepted as a possible / probable outcome.

Ultimatums have no place in my personal life. I either accept the situation or I move on. And any ultimatum issued to me will see me walking away never to return.
.....as in the film....the god.father.....I,ll make you an offer you cant refuse*....marlon Brandon....without the cotton wool in my cheeks........rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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