...to be honest I really don't..know weather they do or don't......or where they come from.....?????....but if there over here more likely on benefits.....
when I was married....said to my wife...(ultimatum)....if I have to keep washing up the dinner things....no nookie tonight..... ......she smiled....got up and went to bed......after 18 years of washing up ........my hands are lovely and soft.............
deadline the latest time or date by which something should be completed.
ultimatum a final demand or statement of terms, the rejection of which will result in retaliation or a breakdown in relations.
different things me thinks...
i think a deadline is good and provides focus for completion. an ultimatum....not so sure about this...i don't like them. it can put a negative focus on an issue. in a personal relationship, an ultimatum moves my thinking from love to fear. not where i want to be...i prefer trying to keep a positive view on things.
truheart1941: when I was married....said to my wife...(ultimatum)....if I have to keep washing up the dinner things....no nookie tonight..... ......she smiled....got up and went to bed......after 18 years of washing up ........my hands are lovely and soft.............
jono7: deadline the latest time or date by which something should be completed.
ultimatum a final demand or statement of terms, the rejection of which will result in retaliation or a breakdown in relations.
different things me thinks...
i think a deadline is good and provides focus for completion. an ultimatum....not so sure about this...i don't like them. it can put a negative focus on an issue. in a personal relationship, an ultimatum moves my thinking from love to fear. not where i want to be...i prefer trying to keep a positive view on things.
LadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
LadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 posts
Ultimatums in the professional world are to be made only as a last resort or where the consequences of having it rejected have been carefully considered and accepted as a possible / probable outcome.
Ultimatums have no place in my personal life. I either accept the situation or I move on. And any ultimatum issued to me will see me walking away never to return.
LadyDiz: Ultimatums in the professional world are to be made only as a last resort or where the consequences of having it rejected have been carefully considered and accepted as a possible / probable outcome.
Ultimatums have no place in my personal life. I either accept the situation or I move on. And any ultimatum issued to me will see me walking away never to return.
LadyDiz: Ultimatums in the professional world are to be made only as a last resort or where the consequences of having it rejected have been carefully considered and accepted as a possible / probable outcome.
Ultimatums have no place in my personal life. I either accept the situation or I move on. And any ultimatum issued to me will see me walking away never to return.
.....as in the film....the god.father.....I,ll make you an offer you cant refuse*....marlon Brandon....without the cotton wool in my cheeks........
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