Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile???? ( Archived) (49)

Nov 27, 2013 1:05 PM CSTShould "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????

Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????(Vote Below)

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No, That is Private on a Dating Site
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28%
No, I hate looking at Your Friends...
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6%
No, They are My Friends Too...
0
0%
It Only Brings Questions and Doubts
5
9%
Yes why Not
19
35%
Yes so we can talk about You behind your back
4
7%
Good Question! Unsure....
8
15%
Total Votes
54
When You Look at someones Profile, Do You want to see about them only?

Do You want to see Several other Men, or Women, on their Profiles???

What if you know half of them as Friends Yourself, and a portion of them you Dislike.... Or Do Not Know???

I have never Put Friends, and Contacts on My Profile... I did not feel that was Public Business who I talk to...

How Do You Feel about this?????

A Curious Mind wants to know!grin grin
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Nov 27, 2013 1:08 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
Please Vote!handshake
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Nov 27, 2013 2:07 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
abcWOMAN
abcWOMANabcWOMANLuleå, Norrbotten Sweden20 Threads 2 Polls 1,583 Posts
HotrodLarrys: When You Look at someones Profile, Do You want to see about them only?

Do You want to see Several other Men, or Women, on their Profiles???

What if you know half of them as Friends Yourself, and a portion of them you Dislike.... Or Do Not Know???

I have never Put Friends, and Contacts on My Profile... I did not feel that was Public Business who I talk to...

How Do You Feel about this?????

A Curious Mind wants to know!



I wonder if the "friends" (or children) know they're on a dating site?dunno

I'd never post pictures with friends on, especially not on a dating site.
Well, that's just me.
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Nov 27, 2013 2:11 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
I don´t accept friends...........cos they´re not..........until you know them.
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Nov 27, 2013 2:24 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
abcWOMAN: I wonder if the "friends" (or children) know they're on a dating site?

I'd never post pictures with friends on, especially not on a dating site.
Well, that's just me.


I am Not Referring to In My Pics.....

I am Referring to Friend Requests that has the others Pics on Your Profile, Listed as Friends Below your Profile... ( Other Members Pics)
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Nov 27, 2013 2:31 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I don't honor Friend Requests anymore and it says so in my profile.
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Nov 27, 2013 2:32 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
abcWOMAN
abcWOMANabcWOMANLuleå, Norrbotten Sweden20 Threads 2 Polls 1,583 Posts
HotrodLarrys: I am Not Referring to In My Pics.....

I am Referring to Friend Requests that has the others Pics on Your Profile, Listed as Friends Below your Profile... ( Other Members Pics)


Sorry.
I never watch Friend Requests pictures, so it wouldn't bother me.
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Nov 27, 2013 2:37 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
HotrodLarrys: When You Look at someones Profile, Do You want to see about them only?

Do You want to see Several other Men, or Women, on their Profiles???

What if you know half of them as Friends Yourself, and a portion of them you Dislike.... Or Do Not Know???

I have never Put Friends, and Contacts on My Profile... I did not feel that was Public Business who I talk to...

How Do You Feel about this?????

A Curious Mind wants to know!


I know what you mean and sometimes I wonder about it too but I try to look at it as only virtual friends. Most of mine don't even correspond with me anymore. I would hope that someone isn't put off contacting me because of the friends I have on my profile but if someone happens to take an interest in me and has an issue with who I have as friends, I would be more than happy to discuss it with them. wave
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Nov 27, 2013 2:41 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
Well obviously it's a dating site, but that doesn't mean your going to date everyone uh oh you make friends along the way...I'd say it's YOUR profile and if you don't want friends on there, don't add any, pretty elementary grin
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Nov 27, 2013 2:44 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
Ccincy: I don't honor Friend Requests anymore and it says so in my profile.


Thank You Cc... I have never Done it in the past, and rarely ever looked at them, But Noticed some On their, and Just curious as to others opinions,

I truly Do Not want to Look at a Woman's Profile, and see Pictures of Several Men on there...uh oh

But Many Do Have this featured on Profiles...wave
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Nov 27, 2013 2:46 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Thank You Cc... I have never Done it in the past, and rarely ever looked at them, But Noticed some On their, and Just curious as to others opinions,

I truly Do Not want to Look at a Woman's Profile, and see Pictures of Several Men on there...

But Many Do Have this featured on Profiles...




Why? I'm mean after all your not in relationship with them so why would you care? Just curious...
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Nov 27, 2013 2:46 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Thank You Cc... I have never Done it in the past, and rarely ever looked at them, But Noticed some On their, and Just curious as to others opinions,

I truly Do Not want to Look at a Woman's Profile, and see Pictures of Several Men on there...

But Many Do Have this featured on Profiles...


I don't see the issue. A friend is different to dating someone and until I'm seeing someone steadily, it's my business who my friends are
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Nov 27, 2013 2:47 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Thank You Cc... I have never Done it in the past, and rarely ever looked at them, But Noticed some On their, and Just curious as to others opinions,

I truly Do Not want to Look at a Woman's Profile, and see Pictures of Several Men on there...

But Many Do Have this featured on Profiles...




Welcome Larrywave That's all I kept getting were men sending me friends requests.I even blocked out ALL locations so men can't mail me anymore.
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Nov 27, 2013 2:48 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
unlaoised: I don't see the issue. A friend is different to dating someone and until I'm seeing someone steadily, it's my business who my friends are



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Nov 27, 2013 2:49 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
SoonerGal: Why? I'm mean after all your not in relationship with them so why would you care? Just curious...


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Nov 27, 2013 2:51 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
wave Larry...sounds like you need to start a new dating site to where you have control of the threads and people not having friends on their profiles grin hug just teasin' with ya
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Nov 27, 2013 2:52 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
LadyDiz
LadyDizLadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
I've blocked my "friends' function cos I was getting friend requests from people I had never communicated with.
But, if I receive a message from someone who is not on the forum, I check to see whether he has any friends that are familiar to me from the forums or blogs as a way of getting some form of confirmation that he is real and not a scammer. Not foolproof I admit, since he may have scammed the forum user, but it's better than nothing. dunno
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Nov 27, 2013 2:53 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
i couldn't find the 'i don't care' choice...laugh

hiya HrL wave

keep your public life, public
and your private life, private.



wine
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Nov 27, 2013 2:55 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
SoonerGal: Why? I'm mean after all your not in relationship with them so why would you care? Just curious...





Maybe I read his thread question wrong.dunno


I don't see anything wrong with someone having friends in their profile but I choose not to cause I'm not single.
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Nov 27, 2013 2:56 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
2intrigued: I know what you mean and sometimes I wonder about it too but I try to look at it as only virtual friends. Most of mine don't even correspond with me anymore. I would hope that someone isn't put off contacting me because of the friends I have on my profile but if someone happens to take an interest in me and has an issue with who I have as friends, I would be more than happy to discuss it with them.


Thanks For Sharing Deb, I do Understand They are mostly Virtual Friends, Just wanted others opinions!!!!
And Not Necessarily a Loosing Proposition, Especially to long time posters in the Forums.. But Some may not be Forum Posters...as well..

Some I have received I have Never even seen Before!doh uh oh uh oh

wave
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Nov 27, 2013 2:57 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
DaytonaDude
DaytonaDudeDaytonaDudeSouth Daytona, Florida USA33 Threads 3 Polls 2,403 Posts
I don't mind it but I keep my "Friends with Benefits" hidden on my profile grin
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Nov 27, 2013 2:58 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Thanks For Sharing Deb, I do Understand They are mostly Virtual Friends, Just wanted others opinions!!!!
And Not Necessarily a Loosing Proposition, Especially to long time posters in the Forums.. But Some may not be Forum Posters...as well..

Some I have received I have Never even seen Before!


I think we all get those unknowns. Those I just delete without even looking. Quite funny...last night I looked at someone's profile and immediately got a friend request from them confused laugh
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Nov 27, 2013 3:01 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
SoonerGal
SoonerGalSoonerGalPonca City, Oklahoma USA21 Threads 10 Polls 2,363 Posts
Ccincy: Maybe I read his thread question wrong. I don't see anything wrong with someone having friends in their profile but I choose not to cause I'm not single.



And that's what it should be, all about choice as to or not....but really even "if" I was in a relationship with someone on here, why couldn't I have friends on my profile? It doesn't mean I want to date them...anyways why am I even having this conversation laugh I need to be cleaning and cooking conversing
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Nov 27, 2013 3:04 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Thanks For Sharing Deb, I do Understand They are mostly Virtual Friends, Just wanted others opinions!!!!
And Not Necessarily a Loosing Proposition, Especially to long time posters in the Forums.. But Some may not be Forum Posters...as well..

Some I have received I have Never even seen Before!


I delete friend requests from people I don't know from the forums or they haven't taken the time to know me through email correspondence. There are some profiles with dozens of friends listed where I start to wonder if CS is an extension of facebook for them. laugh
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Nov 27, 2013 3:06 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
be nice to have a nookie thred........grin rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 27, 2013 3:07 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
unlaoised: I don't see the issue. A friend is different to dating someone and until I'm seeing someone steadily, it's my business who my friends are


Not that it is right or wrong, I know everyone has their own Thoughts about this,

I Rarely every even look at this, But today I see it and Has People on their that I have Talked to, I Guess As highlighted, It is My Buisness who My Friends are too...

Not Intending to make a Religious out of it... Thanks for the responses!

laugh wave
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Nov 27, 2013 3:07 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
LadyDiz
LadyDizLadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
DaytonaDude: I don't mind it but I keep my "Friends with Benefits" hidden on my profile

jaw drop laugh
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Nov 27, 2013 3:13 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
truheart1941: be nice to have a nookie thred........


I got enough answers to fill My Questions......

Have at it!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Oh Hi PetePaw!cheers
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Nov 27, 2013 3:14 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
init2010
init2010init2010Betzenstein, Bavaria Germany1 Threads 51 Posts
since women started to discuss here, it became a big issue... banana
I know some don´t add me, even when I talk to them everyday. And people who are afraid to have virtual friends usally also don´t have real friends, as they are too scared to show any empathy in public.
the only thing that matters in friendship is to respect each other and to promote each other. hug
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Nov 27, 2013 3:16 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
init2010: since women started to discuss here, it became a big issue...
I know some don´t add me, even when I talk to them everyday. And people who are afraid to have virtual friends usally also don´t have real friends, as they are too scared to show any empathy in public.
the only thing that matters in friendship is to respect each other and to promote each other.


Where is it a big issue? The women on here are discussing it because a man asked the question...doh
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Nov 27, 2013 3:18 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
unlaoised: I think we all get those unknowns. Those I just delete without even looking. Quite funny...last night I looked at someone's profile and immediately got a friend request from them


That is funny, but a LadyDiz said she has hers turned off...

Maybe I should look at how to turn it off!uh oh

Not even sure where to look, But I am sure I can Find it!wink
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