Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile???? (49)

Nov 27, 2013 3:21 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
HotrodLarrys: That is funny, but a LadyDiz said she has hers turned off...

Maybe I should look at how to turn it off!

Not even sure where to look, But I am sure I can Find it!


It was a bit freaky deaky laugh

Eh, I just delete the requests, no biggie.
Nov 27, 2013 3:26 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
abcWOMANonline today!
abcWOMANonline today!abcWOMANLuleå, Norrbotten Sweden20 Threads 2 Polls 1,583 Posts
HotrodLarrys: That is funny, but a LadyDiz said she has hers turned off...

Maybe I should look at how to turn it off!

Not even sure where to look, But I am sure I can Find it!



I've friends request off.

Nov 27, 2013 3:28 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
jono7: i couldn't find the 'i don't care' choice...

hiya HrL

keep your public life, public
and your private life, private.


Hello jono,

I Do Agree with that!wave bouquet
Nov 27, 2013 3:33 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
abcWOMAN: I've friends request off.



Thank You abc! I see it Now!bouquet
Nov 27, 2013 3:48 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
SoonerGal: And that's what it should be, all about choice as to or not....but really even "if" I was in a relationship with someone on here, why couldn't I have friends on my profile? It doesn't mean I want to date them...anyways why am I even having this conversation I need to be cleaning and cooking




I choose not because of the way gossip is on websites.
Nov 27, 2013 3:51 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
init2010: since women started to discuss here, it became a big issue...
I know some don´t add me, even when I talk to them everyday. And people who are afraid to have virtual friends usally also don´t have real friends, as they are too scared to show any empathy in public.
the only thing that matters in friendship is to respect each other and to promote each other.




No biggie just replying to the thread question.By the way a man washing asking the thread question.laugh


I've got friends in the real world so to speak but it's my reference not to honor any friends requests.
Nov 27, 2013 4:05 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
HotrodLarrys: I truly Do Not want to Look at a Woman's Profile, and see Pictures of Several Men on there...

Was that the real issue for you slipping out?

Would you only want to be in a relationship with someone who has no friends?
Nov 27, 2013 4:10 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Ccincy: Oh goodness.Hi Gal

Hi Ccincy wave
Nov 27, 2013 4:52 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
Ana13
Ana13Ana13Winchester, Hampshire, England UK3 Threads 147 Posts
Most people who request friendship with me, and no doubt many members, are people who I have never had any communication with whatsoever. It's quite strange and disconcerting really, and I don't like this aspect of the site.

I do think though that some may like collecting friends in order to make themselves appear popular. A bit like Facebook.
Nov 27, 2013 4:54 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
Brannigan70
Brannigan70Brannigan70Yellow Brick Road , Manchester, Mayo Ireland35 Threads 2,339 Posts
HotrodLarrys: When You Look at someones Profile, Do You want to see about them only?

Do You want to see Several other Men, or Women, on their Profiles???

What if you know half of them as Friends Yourself, and a portion of them you Dislike.... Or Do Not Know???

I have never Put Friends, and Contacts on My Profile... I did not feel that was Public Business who I talk to...

How Do You Feel about this?????

A Curious Mind wants to know!
Nah , it shouldn't be an issue for somebody to have Friends on their profile until the time comes when one's at the relationship stage and at that stage well neither one of a couple ought to need to be on a dating site for dating purposes .
Nov 27, 2013 4:56 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
HotrodLarrys: When You Look at someones Profile, Do You want to see about them only?

Do You want to see Several other Men, or Women, on their Profiles???

What if you know half of them as Friends Yourself, and a portion of them you Dislike.... Or Do Not Know???

I have never Put Friends, and Contacts on My Profile... I did not feel that was Public Business who I talk to...

How Do You Feel about this?????

A Curious Mind wants to know!



lol
Nov 27, 2013 4:58 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
MADDOG69: http://www.connectingsingles.com/top100results.aspx?c=1

lol


laugh
Nov 27, 2013 5:37 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
Scott1812
Scott1812Scott1812Claresholm, Alberta Canada26 Threads 11 Polls 1,595 Posts
Yes I need all the friends I can get!conversing hug cheers conversing hug cheers handshake teddybear
Nov 27, 2013 6:38 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
Ana13: Most people who request friendship with me, and no doubt many members, are people who I have never had any communication with whatsoever. It's quite strange and disconcerting really, and I don't like this aspect of the site.

I do think though that some may like collecting friends in order to make themselves appear popular. A bit like Facebook.

Thank you Ana, I don't care to Be Everyone's Favorite, We are many here with the same Purpose....My hope is NOT to be on a dating Site at all! To Me One is Enough!




wave laugh wow rolling on the floor laughing
Nov 27, 2013 6:54 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
jac379: Was that the real issue for you slipping out?

Would you only want to be in a relationship with someone who has no friends?


Hello Jac, And good Question! This is The Question I am Asking!!!!

Should I have 20 Friends here showing, Or Showing None???? You Know Me, what do You think???? I am a little lost in this, Or I would not have Posted It! (Your) Opinion is Appreciated......


I Feel Indecisive! dunno confused crazy

Does it make you Look Popular? Does NONE make You look Weak???

No Clue, Is thats why they call me a MAN!doh mumbling rolling on the floor laughing
Nov 27, 2013 8:04 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
I have friends on some site. I do not accept requests if they are not my friend or close aquintance. Have to get to know someone better than just a few messages. Guess it isn't important for others to see. I vote unsure dunno
Nov 27, 2013 8:14 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
nomindgames: I have friends on some site. I do not accept requests if they are not my friend or close aquintance. Have to get to know someone better than just a few messages. Guess it isn't important for others to see. I vote unsure


Hello Young Lady, I have not seen You For Ages!bouquet

Thanks for the Input, and More for stopping By!hug

Long time!bouquet
Nov 27, 2013 9:00 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
JoynMyHeart
JoynMyHeartJoynMyHeartNewcastle, Delaware USA43 Posts
I see a lot of so called "Friends" on the adds I look at. I find it kinda strange that 20 or 30 girls have the same shirtless friends.

Makes me think one of two things...

They are both scammers trying to validate each other's ad... or
They are clueless to scammers using pictures from model agencies..

There are two reasons I can think of for friend requests from people you never spoke with. It is the only way they can say something to you, if they can't use message part.. (It is blocked because they are too far away, or one year above/below your age filter.)

If I feel I am close a close match, but email blocked, I will try a friend request..

I just state in my ad what my criteria is for who I am looking for.
Nov 27, 2013 9:19 PM CST Should "FRIENDS" be On Your Profile????
Thanks For Sharing, And your Opinion!thumbs up

I think their are a few people who know me here!wink
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