JoynMyHeart Forum Posts (43)

RE: Relationships with disabled persons-What do you think?

I'm disabled since birth. I'm finding it difficult to find someone who is serious enough to take it out of the "friend zone".

I have a lot to offer, and feel that any relationship must include give and take. I may not be able to drive or climb ladders, but there are lots of things I can do.

Due to my physical limitations I have pursued interests in technology and creativity. I'm hoping to find someone who wants to work with me and share my passions in life as an inventor in the field of electronics and robotics. I also love math, science, gardening, nature, astronomy, and architectural design.

I love kids and hope to start a family.

I don't think any girl with a good heart would be disappointed.

RE: DESCRIBE YOUR EX IN ONE WORD

MIA

RE: Would Donald Trump make a good President

Just remember this. He built one of his casinos right over an old lady's beach house when she wouldn't sell out. If he would do that to little old lady, what else do you think he do?

RE: Would Donald Trump make a good President

SpongeBob for president!

RE: Does skin colour realy matter when it comes to dating?

I agree with you 100%. I don't care what race or color someone is as long as they have a particular look that I consider attractive. She could be blue or green for that matter..

Being attractive has some consideration, if you care what your children will look like. How much you are willing to compromise on one thing depends on how much better something else is...

And I am NOT saying color is a compromise... Other things could be.. such as hands, feet, lips, whatever.. There are always pluses and minuses to weigh when deciding... It's the total package..

What really counts is what is on the inside. Character, personality, morals...

RE: do you remember your first kiss

I am not sure about first kiss. There were a few that stand out to me...

I was getting a ride to school in the back end of a stationwagon with two girls. I was the only guy. It was a 2 to 1 match and they had me pinned to the mat.. Both were pecking away. --- Why doesn't this happen today?

The next time was 9 years later. It was June 8th, 1977... This time it was the nicest looking girl in school. Too bad it happened on the last day... I never saw her again, but I will never forget our only kiss...

== Not kisses, but honorable mention. ==
On Jan 6th, 2013 I met a girls at Walgreens in Fairfax. I said hi to her a few times in passing, then I ended up in line behind her. We started talking, exchanged names, and shook hands.. I felt electricity when our hands held each other.. I am still looking for her..

Last Sunday, I was at the supermarket buying food. I was ready to pay and was looking for an empty line. As I was going down the row, I saw the nicest looking girl I ever have seen. Next was my biggest blunder of my whole life. I could have been in line behind her, getting to know her, but I kept on going down the row to the last checker. My cart only had 10 items, so I finished before her and was waiting at the exit for my ride. She got done and came out the same exit. We said hi again, but I again let her get away... ---- Please pray I see her again.

RE: Why are men looking for women much younger than themselves?

I would like to give you my take on this subject as a never married, 56 y/o male.

I want to start a family of my own, with adoption being my last option.

I have looked at probably well over 3000 ads and counting..

I have seen a few 50+ y/o women who look very nice and they had all the right answers to everything on my checklist of do's and don'ts... But there is one thing they don't have that I'm looking for.. The ability to make a first time family with me.

I was born disabled and got a really late start in life. My whole life has been watching others achieve things I could only wish for. And while on the subject, one of my neighbors had a child about 4 y/o, who had autism. If I had to adopt, I wish I could adopt him.

Like I said earlier. I really, really want to have a family of my own. I am not opposed to marrying a widow with kids, but there is nothing like starting new..

So, I really must say... Not all older guys are pervs, they just never had the breaks you guys had..

I hope someone out there could help me find the right person...

RE: Do you like Asian food ?

you are making me hungry. I could go for some coconut shrimp and Singapore noodles.. How soon can you come over?

RE: Do you like Asian food ?

Yeah that's a problem...

What is this world coming to when frying pans don't fry and Peter pans don't peter....

I guess when the sudan stops running you can put it in the living room and use it to grow couch potatos...

RE: "WHAT IS A MAJOR TURN OFF FOR YOU ON A DATE?"

I thought I was good at reading between the lines(lies).. That gives more to ponder(pounder) about when all I see is a cute face..

RE: "WHAT IS A MAJOR TURN OFF FOR YOU ON A DATE?"

Sorry, was sec comment, not first... Good night....

RE: "WHAT IS A MAJOR TURN OFF FOR YOU ON A DATE?"

This one....

RE: "WHAT IS A MAJOR TURN OFF FOR YOU ON A DATE?"

Go back and read my very first comment on this thread..

RE: "WHAT IS A MAJOR TURN OFF FOR YOU ON A DATE?"

Thank you. I have read over 2000 or 3000 ads, maybe more. One of these days I bound to find one who has all the right answers and who isn't a guy...

RE: "WHAT IS A MAJOR TURN OFF FOR YOU ON A DATE?"

I agree. But for me, I never had the opportunities others did. So my hopes, desire, expectations are based on the life I was dealt. And I got too much invested to change paths now.

RE: "WHAT IS A MAJOR TURN OFF FOR YOU ON A DATE?"

Even if such a woman was worth the wait?

RE: "WHAT IS A MAJOR TURN OFF FOR YOU ON A DATE?"

You mean like a guy who is saving himself for the right woman, to honor her with premarital fidelity?

RE: "WHAT IS A MAJOR TURN OFF FOR YOU ON A DATE?"

I would have to say, if your date shows up and she forgot to shave her mustache....

RE: "WHAT IS A MAJOR TURN OFF FOR YOU ON A DATE?"

What is a date?
Which date?
Did I miss it?
Is it Surblonox day already?

Need to go out and turn over the rubliz before the hosglorf hatches..

Brb

RE: Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?

I think the perfume they are referring to is Kennel #9...

RE: Will real love ever come for those differently abled?

I just want to say thank you to this.. I was born disabled and have never been married. I currently don't have a job, but I help others in many ways. People tell me I'm a blessing to them, but I have NOT found anyone willing to make the step of including me in their life. I still feel I can offer a lot...maybe in non-traditional ways, but still more than anyone might expect.

Some people might say my standards are too high, but I only ask that I find someone who lived up to the same standards I lived..

I am flexible on some things I am searching for, but there are a few non-negotiable items as well..

Please pray God will help me find her soon. Thanks.

PS sorry for the typo.

RE: Will real love ever come for those differently abled?

I just want to say thank you to this.. I was born disabled and have never been married. I currently don't have a job, but I help others in many ways. People tell me I'm a blessing to them, but I have found anyone willing to make the step of including me in their life. I still feel I can offer a lot...maybe in non-traditional ways, but still more than anyone might expect.

Some people might say my standards are too high, but I only ask that I find someone who lived up to the same standards I lived..

I am flexible on some things I am searching for, but there are a few non-negotiable items as well..

Please pray God will help me find her soon. Thanks.

RE: Make a Positive Word, with the last letter, of the last word

rebirth

RE: Make a Positive Word, with the last letter, of the last word

rapture

RE: Skype

I've been asked by all of the (so called) girls, to use email. I respond, you don't get my email address unless I can see your face on Skype live video..

For some reason, I never get a second email...and then their profile vanishes..

Very mysterious...Maybe she doesn't have a face and is embarrassed..

Maybe I should give to the foundation to help faceless girls..

RE: this is a waste of time on this..no one is looking to date or do any thing

Wow, I'm gettin lucky tonight. I just got an email from a hot momma.
I think my search is over.. haha

Here's what she says...

crownfeet9292 34 yr-old woman, Colorado, Colorado USA

I'm Rebecca by name,just doing some via search on here while i was caught by your wonderful profile it seems a line to what am looking for,what can i say now is "WOW" what a adorable man with a Handsome profile it kicked me off the chair...i will like to get to know you better,you can reach me at

RE: this is a waste of time on this..no one is looking to date or do any thing

You're a 1914 kind of girl and I'm a 1914 kind of guy.
Maybe we can get together and see how they add up..

I will bring the white board and dry erase markers. You dust off the abacus..

RE: this is a waste of time on this..no one is looking to date or do any thing

Yes, I even remember canceling a dentist appointment so I could stay home to watch a launch...

RE: this is a waste of time on this..no one is looking to date or do any thing

Wow, what a coincidence.. That was the very same year I was 7..

And just 5 years before that famous quote, "One small step for man. One giant leap for mankind."

RE: this is a waste of time on this..no one is looking to date or do any thing

Here is an easy peasy way to get a girl's cell and email address before you get done sending her an email...

Just look for the really pretty ones with the out-of-focus backgrounds,
who are 27 and looking for a guy from 18 to 99..

And if the specs on the guy they are looking for says: any,any,any,any...


Then it's a sure thing.....