Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship? ( Archived) (50)

Mar 16, 2014 3:19 PM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
WarMachine118
WarMachine118WarMachine118Rockingham, nc, North Carolina USA1 Threads 7 Posts
Why is it so hard? I used to be the guy that enjoyed dating but after heartbreak after heartbreak, not anymore. Why is it so hard to find that girl who feels the same way?
------ This thread is Archived ------
Mar 16, 2014 3:48 PM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
2girlsnocup
2girlsnocup2girlsnocupunknown, Greater London, England UK28 Threads 1 Polls 2,621 Posts
WarMachine118: Why is it so hard? I used to be the guy that enjoyed dating but after heartbreak after heartbreak, not anymore. Why is it so hard to find that girl who feels the same way?


A student earning $75 - 100K? If you expect us to believe that, then you've got a strange concept of reality.

Regarding your question. If you want a slapper, then hang around the divebars.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Mar 16, 2014 7:36 PM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
good answer there ^ couldn't have said it better. younger men are suggesting this now lol??? rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
------ This thread is Archived ------
Mar 16, 2014 7:37 PM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
felixis99: good answer there ^ couldn't have said it better. younger men are suggesting this now lol???


We're doomed Felix blues laugh wave
------ This thread is Archived ------
Mar 17, 2014 1:15 AM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
mzetoile
mzetoilemzetoileUnknown, Arkansas USA1 Threads 201 Posts
Not the way most women are wired. You're looking for what you think is the next best thing but sooner or later, someone ends up with a broken heart.. the girls that are able to flick the switch and do FWB are likely very choosy.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Mar 17, 2014 6:55 AM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
WarMachine118: Why is it so hard? I used to be the guy that enjoyed dating but after heartbreak after heartbreak, not anymore. Why is it so hard to find that girl who feels the same way?


A woman will either reject the idea of being a f* buddy or agree to it and fall in love with you anyway. In this day and age it's a common and even indespensable step to go from friends with benefits to a relationship. Modern women are always talking of being friends first and they are extremely turned off by men who give their hearts away too easily(demonstrates low value)and so by remaining non-committal(demonstrating high value)you, whether you intend it or not, become the man she really wants.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Mar 17, 2014 8:51 AM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
WarMachine118: Why is it so hard? I used to be the guy that enjoyed dating but after heartbreak after heartbreak, not anymore. Why is it so hard to find that girl who feels the same way?


friends with benefits????
what benefits?
------ This thread is Archived ------
Mar 17, 2014 9:20 AM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
ha, ha, ok sorry didn't realise you had a plan.

Allah is Greatgrin
------ This thread is Archived ------
Mar 17, 2014 9:30 AM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
tomcatwarne: ha, ha, ok sorry didn't realise you had a plan.

Allah is Great


yes INSHALLAH!

peace dancing cheering applause banana
------ This thread is Archived ------
Mar 17, 2014 9:54 AM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
sirLarryIII
sirLarryIIIsirLarryIIIClump, Kildare Ireland72 Threads 9 Polls 2,016 Posts
2girlsnocup: A student earning $75 - 100K? If you expect us to believe that, then you've got a strange concept of reality.

Regarding your question. If you want a slapper, then hang around the divebars.


Divebarshmmm motorcycle
------ This thread is Archived ------
Mar 17, 2014 9:56 AM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
sirLarryIII
sirLarryIIIsirLarryIIIClump, Kildare Ireland72 Threads 9 Polls 2,016 Posts
tomcatwarne: ha, ha, ok sorry didn't realise you had a plan.

Allah is Great


Allah translated into english is just plain ol Alanprofessor
------ This thread is Archived ------
Mar 17, 2014 10:25 AM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
equiya: friends with benefits????
what benefits?
Church bemifits????laugh laugh laugh
------ This thread is Archived ------
Mar 17, 2014 10:28 AM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
equiya: I knew it was but I wanted it to come from the horse's own mouth.
and why did he think there are girls here who want just that??
well I will sign up if he will pay me 1000 dollars a minute! I won't do it for free.halelujah!
It is what they charge 1000$ per minute????laugh laugh
------ This thread is Archived ------
Mar 17, 2014 10:32 AM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
sirLarryIII: Divebars
ive got friends in low places/garth brooks,now a green tea drinker,lol.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Mar 17, 2014 10:34 AM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
sirLarryIII: Allah translated into english is just plain ol Alan


An thre's me thinking it was God.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Mar 17, 2014 10:42 AM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
sirLarryIII
sirLarryIIIsirLarryIIIClump, Kildare Ireland72 Threads 9 Polls 2,016 Posts
reb56: ive got friends in low places/garth brooks,now a green tea drinker,lol.


What happens at the green tea cafe stays at the green tea cafelaugh
------ This thread is Archived ------
Mar 17, 2014 10:43 AM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
sirLarryIII
sirLarryIIIsirLarryIIIClump, Kildare Ireland72 Threads 9 Polls 2,016 Posts
tomcatwarne: An thre's me thinking it was God.


Shame on youscold Alan is displeased with youvery mad
------ This thread is Archived ------
Mar 17, 2014 10:43 AM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
sirLarryIII: What happens at the green tea cafe stays at the green tea cafe
lol oh my lol.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Mar 17, 2014 10:54 AM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
Alexandro10
Alexandro10Alexandro10monceaux, Hauts-de-France France36 Threads 17 Polls 1,180 Posts
In response to: Why is it so hard? I used to be the guy that enjoyed dating but after heartbreak after heartbreak, not anymore. Why is it so hard to find that girl who feels the same way?


OK, if you find her let me know.I personally put her hands in yours
------ This thread is Archived ------
Mar 17, 2014 10:59 AM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
WarMachine118
WarMachine118WarMachine118Rockingham, nc, North Carolina USA1 Threads 7 Posts
Interesting responses, only 2 i could find were helpful to me. Allow to evaulate more on my question. in all honestly friends with benefits would lead to me dating the person anyway. I just want the girl who will stay committed in the long run. Every girl ive dated has ended up breaking up with me and i question why? I was the nicest guy ever, did everything a bf was supposed to do, and i was committed meaning i wwasnt going to leave ever. I even like to have fun and play around. thats what i meant by benefits plus still at the time talk at an emotional level.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Post Comment - Post a comment on this Forum Thread

This Thread is Archived

This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.

« Go back to All Threads
Message #318

Stats for this Thread

3,617 Views
49 Comments
by WarMachine118 (7 Posts)
Created: Mar 2014
Last Viewed: 4 hrs ago
Last Commented: Apr 2014

Share this Thread

We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here