Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship? ( Archived) (50)

Mar 17, 2014 11:15 AM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
Perhaps it's only lying in that wilfully ignorant way. I don't think women have been consciously lying when they've said that all they want is no strings, it's just that they ultimately come to act in a way that completely contradicts everything they've already said.

It's much rarer, but I do know of times where the man has pushed for more early on and got rejected, where I dare say that if he'd allowed her the time and space to come to him then they would have got together.
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Mar 17, 2014 11:25 AM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
sirLarryIII
sirLarryIIIsirLarryIIIClump, Kildare Ireland72 Threads 9 Polls 2,016 Posts
M1ck1e: Yes, without a doubt. I can't just sleep with someone, there has to be an emotional attachment for me. That's just the way I'm wired.


Thats fine,thats your choice.But you were saying all girls dont like NSA deep down,which was a slighty misleading post,not that women would ever mislead a man laugh
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Mar 17, 2014 11:27 AM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
sirLarryIII
sirLarryIIIsirLarryIIIClump, Kildare Ireland72 Threads 9 Polls 2,016 Posts
M1ck1e: And this would be a one night stand, not a friends with benefits relationship.


Yes thats correct you only have to sleep with me one nightlaugh
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Mar 17, 2014 11:30 AM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
M1ck1e
M1ck1eM1ck1eWestfield, Massachusetts USA2 Threads 1 Polls 663 Posts
sirLarryIII: Yes thats correct you only have to sleep with me one night
Well you never called me back sigh
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Mar 17, 2014 11:35 AM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
sirLarryIII
sirLarryIIIsirLarryIIIClump, Kildare Ireland72 Threads 9 Polls 2,016 Posts
M1ck1e: Well you never called me back


That wasn't in our agreementlaugh
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Mar 17, 2014 11:36 AM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
elednuw
elednuwelednuwKamloops, British Columbia Canada9 Threads 1 Polls 122 Posts
Sometimes fwb just happens without asking.So don't write up a contract.It takes away from the spontanaiety.
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Mar 17, 2014 12:03 PM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
Glatlol
GlatlolGlatlolDublin, Ireland2 Threads 5,358 Posts
M1ck1e: my apologies





Cheers cheers
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Mar 17, 2014 12:05 PM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
M1ck1e
M1ck1eM1ck1eWestfield, Massachusetts USA2 Threads 1 Polls 663 Posts
Glatlol: Cheers
cheers cheers
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Mar 17, 2014 12:15 PM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
sirLarryIII: Shame on you Alan is displeased with you


Alan be praisedgrin grin grin grin
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Mar 17, 2014 3:20 PM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
LadyDiz2: Exactly! Why should we judge at all?


handshake
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Mar 17, 2014 4:45 PM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
LeeMoe
LeeMoeLeeMoeAmsterdam, North Holland Netherlands1 Threads 1 Polls 38 Posts
So, dear women, did you agree on accepting FWB or not?

I'm waiting! laugh
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Mar 17, 2014 5:02 PM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
LeeMoe: So, dear women, did you agree on accepting FWB or not?

I'm waiting!


You have to be a friend first, to get the benefits laugh
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Mar 17, 2014 8:41 PM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
mzetoile
mzetoilemzetoileUnknown, Arkansas USA1 Threads 201 Posts
Have to add that I think women are also partly to blame because of a reticence in expressing their desires.
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Mar 17, 2014 8:44 PM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
mzetoile
mzetoilemzetoileUnknown, Arkansas USA1 Threads 201 Posts
^^^ Oops posted that in the wrong thread
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Mar 17, 2014 8:47 PM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
beenhurtto
beenhurttobeenhurttostrathmerton, Victoria Australia9 Posts
this may be a new concept .. but try a little respect towards woman .... see how that works..
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Mar 22, 2014 9:17 AM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
nesara311
nesara311nesara311stroudsburg, Pennsylvania USA75 Threads 8 Polls 391 Posts
I have no idea,except I disagree.Enjoy the soon to be nice weatherheart wings
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Mar 22, 2014 6:05 PM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
theD0CT0R
theD0CT0RtheD0CT0RLaunceston, Tasmania Australia22 Threads 936 Posts
If two friends decided to do it, cool, but there have been many times that it has ruined the relationship. It also depends on how emotionally stable you are and whether both parties are totally okay with it.
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Mar 22, 2014 7:02 PM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
Cyn_Real
Cyn_RealCyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong3 Threads 515 Posts
WarMachine118: Why is it so hard? I used to be the guy that enjoyed dating but after heartbreak after heartbreak, not anymore. Why is it so hard to find that girl who feels the same way?



just another cat chasing its tail story...

we can't be serious all the time to just anyone...and we can't expect no string attached relationship to just anyone as well... Read and estimate your target carefully before targeting her for whatever your motivation and purpose might be... LOLrolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 22, 2014 7:07 PM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
xxDandelionxx
xxDandelionxxxxDandelionxxunknown, Hampshire, England UK8 Threads 2,525 Posts
WarMachine118: Why is it so hard? I used to be the guy that enjoyed dating but after heartbreak after heartbreak, not anymore. Why is it so hard to find that girl who feels the same way?


You're talking about trying to find a girl that is cool with a friends-with-benefits relationship and then you speak of 'heartbreak'...?!!!

Surely, with an arrangement such as that, there is no heartbreak?! confused

Making your mind up what you want would be a good start, don't you think?

dunno
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Mar 22, 2014 7:10 PM CST Why is it so hard to find a girl that wants a friend with benefits relationship?
theD0CT0R
theD0CT0RtheD0CT0RLaunceston, Tasmania Australia22 Threads 936 Posts
xxDandelionxx: You're talking about trying to find a girl that is cool with a friends-with-benefits relationship and then you speak of 'heartbreak'...?!!!

Surely, with an arrangement such as that, there is no heartbreak?!

Making your mind up what you want would be a good start, don't you think?
thumbs up Good point Dandelion.
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