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Jan 11, 2014 4:24 PM CSTcan you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
rickyb187
rickyb187rickyb187crk, Cork, Ireland3 Threads 2 Polls 5 Posts

can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?(Vote Below)

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yes
24
32%
no
25
33%
maddness
5
7%
greatness
0
0%
true love
1
1%
true desperation
7
9%
i could
0
0%
never going to happen
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3%
happened to me
2
3%
happened somebody i know
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13%
Total Votes
76
is it possible?
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Jan 11, 2014 5:12 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I've heard people say you can't and others say you can.

I suppose OP you will have to draw your own conclusion.
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Jan 11, 2014 5:17 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
I spoke with a good friend of mine here in Miami - he had an online relationship for a few years - and he was heartbroken when she died. He said he loved her, and they never met.

Go figure? dunno Was it love? I believe for him it was. Was it healthy? Heck NO!
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Jan 11, 2014 5:20 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
M1ck1e
M1ck1eM1ck1eWestfield, Massachusetts USA2 Threads 1 Polls 663 Posts
I did. True love has no boundaries. Love is an uncontrolled emotion. So if someone truelly feels that they love that person then they do.
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Jan 11, 2014 5:25 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
M1ck1e: I did. True love has no boundaries. Love is an uncontrolled emotion. So if someone truelly feels that they love that person then they do.


was it returned or unrequited? Love truly is felt solely by the one person, however, don't you think that love should be shared, given and returned?

Otherwise is it not just an emotion that leads to stalking, and unhappiness?
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Jan 11, 2014 5:29 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
M1ck1e
M1ck1eM1ck1eWestfield, Massachusetts USA2 Threads 1 Polls 663 Posts
JeanKimberley: was it returned or unrequited? Love truly is felt solely by the one person, however, don't you think that love should be shared, given and returned?

Otherwise is it not just an emotion that leads to stalking, and unhappiness?
yes it was returned. We have a very strong connection and the long distance thing is temporary.
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Jan 11, 2014 5:32 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
M1ck1e: yes it was returned. We have a very strong connection and the long distance thing is temporary.


and the love was there before you met in person?
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Jan 11, 2014 5:35 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
M1ck1e: yes it was returned. We have a very strong connection and the long distance thing is temporary.
Keep you wits and don't be afraid to ask for advise on here. There is great advice to pick through on C.S. btw Is it just me or is C.S. Rocking againcheering
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Jan 11, 2014 5:40 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
HelenaRaber
HelenaRaberHelenaRaberBathurst, New Brunswick Canada26 Posts
No. Absolutely not. A relationship happens when you spend time with each other in real life getting to know each other. You start to become a part of each others real lives. There is no way to do this when all you do is chat online. There is no substitute for the real thing.
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Jan 11, 2014 5:46 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
M1ck1e
M1ck1eM1ck1eWestfield, Massachusetts USA2 Threads 1 Polls 663 Posts
JeanKimberley: and the love was there before you met in person?
Though we have not met in person as of yet the love is definately there.
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Jan 11, 2014 5:48 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
M1ck1e
M1ck1eM1ck1eWestfield, Massachusetts USA2 Threads 1 Polls 663 Posts
chatonlyman2: Keep you wits and don't be afraid to ask for advise on here. There is great advice to pick through on C.S. btw Is it just me or is C.S. Rocking again
Thank you and it is definately rocking. dancing dog
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Jan 11, 2014 5:54 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
M1ck1e
M1ck1eM1ck1eWestfield, Massachusetts USA2 Threads 1 Polls 663 Posts
The answer to this question would depend on the people involved. So can find true love this way others it's not for them. Everyone is different. As long as they find happiness that's all that counts. dance
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Jan 11, 2014 5:58 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
LoriJames20
LoriJames20LoriJames20San Pedro, Corozal Belize1 Threads 1,172 Posts
I think you can start building a connection with someone over the internet/by phone/by video chatting - how well that goes can determine if you will both make the effort to meet; to spend time together and build a relationship.
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Jan 11, 2014 6:01 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
fullofzest
fullofzestfullofzestBallarat, Victoria Australia1 Posts
I guess it's possible, but unlikely. You can make some good friendships, but love without ever meeting????? come on people. I think too many people live in a fantasy land, and are more in love with the thought. You might be able to tell a lot about someone over a computer eventually, but the one thing you will NEVER be able to tell about this way is a thing called CHEMISTRY. There's something to be said about the old fashioned way of doing things, face to face. Good luck all anyway.
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Jan 11, 2014 6:13 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
rickyb187
rickyb187rickyb187crk, Cork Ireland3 Threads 2 Polls 5 Posts
this helps alot guys ,,,i dont know sometimes ,,like i definitely there's something there like,,,but she likes on the side of the world,,i,m going to see her cos im in college now and i,m saving up,,,but i,m not stupid like i wonder are we just reving each other up,,but i dont care ,,i have to see her so if im out out my mind let it be ,thanks everyone
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Jan 11, 2014 6:14 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
xxDandelionxx
xxDandelionxxxxDandelionxxunknown, Hampshire, England UK8 Threads 2,525 Posts
rickyb187: is it possible?


No!!
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Jan 11, 2014 6:37 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
i guess one can choose whatever they want...

reality..
illusion..
delusion..

love..

the possibilities are endless...laugh

focus on that which you desire...and the chances of attaining, much higher..

jmo
wine
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Jan 11, 2014 6:46 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
M1ck1e
M1ck1eM1ck1eWestfield, Massachusetts USA2 Threads 1 Polls 663 Posts
"Long distance relationships never work, the colloquial wisdom goes. Or rather, they'll work for a while: You’ll trade a few texts, Skype a few times, maybe even visit once in a while. But the heartache of being apart and living separate lives will start to wear on you, and soon enough, things will fizzle out.

Not true, according to a small but growing number of social science studies. Long-distance relationships are, in many ways, stronger than relationships between couples who live together or close by, shows a new study published today in the Journal of Communication."

Long-distance love may be stronger than you think, new study says

Article from Today Show
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Jan 11, 2014 6:47 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
jono7: i guess one can choose whatever they want...

reality..
illusion..
delusion..


love..

the possibilities are endless...

focus on that which you desire...and the chances of attaining, much higher..

jmo


I guess in this situation in particular, you could end up with all three, but in this order...

Illusion

Delusion

Reality...uh oh
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Jan 11, 2014 7:00 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
bodleing2: I guess in this situation in particular, you could end up with all three, but in this order...

Illusion

Delusion

Reality...



you know it! ...laugh
one of those times when 3 outta 4 isn't a pass...grin

wave

but G, sometimes i wonder...aren't 'illlusion', 'delusion' and 'reality' all subjective labels anyways...?

ps.. how does one fall over the internet?...grin
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Jan 11, 2014 7:36 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
jono7: you know it! ...
one of those times when 3 outta 4 isn't a pass...
but G, sometimes i wonder...aren't 'illlusion', 'delusion' and 'reality' all subjective labels anyways...?

ps.. how does one fall over the internet?...
...take one large sheet...of paper plain...(thin)....use 4 oz..of wacky baccy....roll it......smoke it for 2o minutes.....all thos labels come together.....use phone...internet.....simple.......rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing sheep sheep sheep sheep sheep sheep
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Jan 11, 2014 8:12 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
rickyb187: is it possible?


Yes, anything is possible, Just change a couple of letters = Lust..

That was a Joke, But Yes, Strong Emotional Ties can be met over the Internet and phone, But until meeting them, It is all still in Question, I have met some from here, they Made me Feel loved... You will know if it is Love If it lasts.... If Not it was Fantasizing...

The Mind can play tricks on us if we allow it to!

Just My opinion!
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Jan 11, 2014 8:15 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
rickyb187: can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?


Some people have yet not for me.





cool
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Jan 11, 2014 8:19 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Yes, anything is possible, Just change a couple of letters = Lust..

That was a Joke, But Yes, Strong Emotional Ties can be met over the Internet and phone, But until meeting them, It is all still in Question, I have met some from here, they Made me Feel loved... You will know if it is Love If it lasts.... If Not it was Fantasizing...

The Mind can play tricks on us if we allow it to!

Just My opinion!


Good point. thumbs up wave
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Jan 11, 2014 8:55 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
2intrigued: Good point.



When the heart Desires Love, And we Feel Sincere Love, we are at this point, and for many Months Being Fulfilled!

This may sound silly to some, But I Do Believe it is Possible to fall in Love, before ever Meeting! Kinda like needing water, and when Water is Promised and delivered, Then you can Drink !

All of our Minds work Differently! A Car cannot run without Gasoline, It is empty, and goes no where, when your tank is Filled.... You feel like you are revived and in Heaven, But How long it last is the real truth! Some make it, some dont, But that does not mean you did not love! Takes Two!
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Jan 11, 2014 9:07 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
HotrodLarrys: When the heart Desires Love, And we Feel Sincere Love, we are at this point, and for many Months Being Fulfilled!

This may sound silly to some, But I Do Believe it is Possible to fall in Love, before ever Meeting! Kinda like needing water, and when Water is Promised and delivered, Then you can Drink !

All of our Minds work Differently! A Car cannot run without Gasoline, It is empty, and goes no where, when your tank is Filled.... You feel like you are revived and in Heaven, But How long it last is the real truth! Some make it, some dont, But that does not mean you did not love! Takes Two!


Very well said and I agree. thumbs up
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Jan 11, 2014 9:13 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
Antoniacv
AntoniacvAntoniacvWien, Vienna Austria11 Threads 1,084 Posts
Happened to me. We both felt it was love even before meeting -in person-

We met and... Yes...it was and still IS love.

Three years after the first email we got married.

So ...why not

teddybear
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Jan 11, 2014 9:18 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Antoniacv: Happened to me. We both felt it was love even before meeting -in person-

We met and... Yes...it was and still IS love.

Three years after the first email we got married.

So ...why not


The desire and commitment you both shared together towards a successful outcome is truly admirable. yay peace applause
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Jan 11, 2014 9:27 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
2intrigued: Very well said and I agree.


Thank You, 2, when someone has their mindset in place they can Accomplish whatever they want, When 2 are involved, BOTH have to have the mindset, and WANT TO, ( Desire) But takes BOTH!!cheers
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Jan 11, 2014 9:31 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
Antoniacv: Happened to me. We both felt it was love even before meeting -in person-

We met and... Yes...it was and still IS love.

Three years after the first email we got married.

So ...why not


You two are a rare Example of what I am Saying, I remember when you two got Together! And now married! I send my blessing! and rest My case!

teddybear wine
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Jan 11, 2014 10:07 PM CST can you fall in love over the internet only ever having talked on the phone?
rickyb187
rickyb187rickyb187crk, Cork Ireland3 Threads 2 Polls 5 Posts
you guy are great ,,can i ask did you find yourselves getting a bit emotional when writing ,,its just this kind of thing ,,we,ll iv been thinking maybe im a fool,but it dose not stop me ,,because if being a fool is what it takes to have her then i,ll be one gladly ,,cheers
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