I spoke with a good friend of mine here in Miami - he had an online relationship for a few years - and he was heartbroken when she died. He said he loved her, and they never met.
Go figure? Was it love? I believe for him it was. Was it healthy? Heck NO!
JeanKimberley: was it returned or unrequited? Love truly is felt solely by the one person, however, don't you think that love should be shared, given and returned?
Otherwise is it not just an emotion that leads to stalking, and unhappiness?
yes it was returned. We have a very strong connection and the long distance thing is temporary.
No. Absolutely not. A relationship happens when you spend time with each other in real life getting to know each other. You start to become a part of each others real lives. There is no way to do this when all you do is chat online. There is no substitute for the real thing.
chatonlyman2: Keep you wits and don't be afraid to ask for advise on here. There is great advice to pick through on C.S. btw Is it just me or is C.S. Rocking again
The answer to this question would depend on the people involved. So can find true love this way others it's not for them. Everyone is different. As long as they find happiness that's all that counts.
I think you can start building a connection with someone over the internet/by phone/by video chatting - how well that goes can determine if you will both make the effort to meet; to spend time together and build a relationship.
I guess it's possible, but unlikely. You can make some good friendships, but love without ever meeting????? come on people. I think too many people live in a fantasy land, and are more in love with the thought. You might be able to tell a lot about someone over a computer eventually, but the one thing you will NEVER be able to tell about this way is a thing called CHEMISTRY. There's something to be said about the old fashioned way of doing things, face to face. Good luck all anyway.
this helps alot guys ,,,i dont know sometimes ,,like i definitely there's something there like,,,but she likes on the side of the world,,i,m going to see her cos im in college now and i,m saving up,,,but i,m not stupid like i wonder are we just reving each other up,,but i dont care ,,i have to see her so if im out out my mind let it be ,thanks everyone
"Long distance relationships never work, the colloquial wisdom goes. Or rather, they'll work for a while: You’ll trade a few texts, Skype a few times, maybe even visit once in a while. But the heartache of being apart and living separate lives will start to wear on you, and soon enough, things will fizzle out.
Not true, according to a small but growing number of social science studies. Long-distance relationships are, in many ways, stronger than relationships between couples who live together or close by, shows a new study published today in the Journal of Communication."
Long-distance love may be stronger than you think, new study says
jono7: you know it! ... one of those times when 3 outta 4 isn't a pass... but G, sometimes i wonder...aren't 'illlusion', 'delusion' and 'reality' all subjective labels anyways...?
ps.. how does one fall over the internet?...
...take one large sheet...of paper plain...(thin)....use 4 oz..of wacky baccy....roll it......smoke it for 2o minutes.....all thos labels come together.....use phone...internet.....simple.......
Yes, anything is possible, Just change a couple of letters = Lust..
That was a Joke, But Yes, Strong Emotional Ties can be met over the Internet and phone, But until meeting them, It is all still in Question, I have met some from here, they Made me Feel loved... You will know if it is Love If it lasts.... If Not it was Fantasizing...
HotrodLarrys: Yes, anything is possible, Just change a couple of letters = Lust..
That was a Joke, But Yes, Strong Emotional Ties can be met over the Internet and phone, But until meeting them, It is all still in Question, I have met some from here, they Made me Feel loved... You will know if it is Love If it lasts.... If Not it was Fantasizing...
When the heart Desires Love, And we Feel Sincere Love, we are at this point, and for many Months Being Fulfilled!
This may sound silly to some, But I Do Believe it is Possible to fall in Love, before ever Meeting! Kinda like needing water, and when Water is Promised and delivered, Then you can Drink !
All of our Minds work Differently! A Car cannot run without Gasoline, It is empty, and goes no where, when your tank is Filled.... You feel like you are revived and in Heaven, But How long it last is the real truth! Some make it, some dont, But that does not mean you did not love! Takes Two!
HotrodLarrys: When the heart Desires Love, And we Feel Sincere Love, we are at this point, and for many Months Being Fulfilled!
This may sound silly to some, But I Do Believe it is Possible to fall in Love, before ever Meeting! Kinda like needing water, and when Water is Promised and delivered, Then you can Drink !
All of our Minds work Differently! A Car cannot run without Gasoline, It is empty, and goes no where, when your tank is Filled.... You feel like you are revived and in Heaven, But How long it last is the real truth! Some make it, some dont, But that does not mean you did not love! Takes Two!
Thank You, 2, when someone has their mindset in place they can Accomplish whatever they want, When 2 are involved, BOTH have to have the mindset, and WANT TO, ( Desire) But takes BOTH!!
you guy are great ,,can i ask did you find yourselves getting a bit emotional when writing ,,its just this kind of thing ,,we,ll iv been thinking maybe im a fool,but it dose not stop me ,,because if being a fool is what it takes to have her then i,ll be one gladly ,,cheers
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