Do you believe in love, even when you?ve just been heartbroken? (47)
serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 PostsAlways keep the determination of a mirror, never lose the ability to reflect.. Even when broken into a thousand pieces. I will never let past broken relationships destroy me 
If you give yourself completely to another, it takes alot of time to mentally be able to trust & be willing to fully make ones self that vulnerable again in the name of love.
sweetstrawberry5: If you give yourself completely to another, it takes alot of time to mentally be able to trust & be willing to fully make ones self that vulnerable again in the name of love.
exactly
sweetstrawberry5: If you give yourself completely to another, it takes alot of time to mentally be able to trust & be willing to fully make ones self that vulnerable again in the name of love.
That's true,...it takes some time, but in the end, im sure it's a risk worth taking :)
Of Course choices have consequences....as do choices we don't take as well, directly or indirectly
As for attracting things that don't make you happy, thats a choice as well, but occasionally bad luck can play into that as well...but i do know what i would like to *manifest* as you say, but some things are not so easy in reality.....:)
As for attracting things that don't make you happy, thats a choice as well, but occasionally bad luck can play into that as well...but i do know what i would like to *manifest* as you say, but some things are not so easy in reality.....:)
A well me with love been there used cheated but that life and I learn from it.....
Love.............a chemical unbalance of the brain that lasts long enough to get married and have 1.5 children. Actually your friends could tell you if some one is a good match for you or not. When you are in love or lust, you see no faults and are blind to reality. 
Some of us have had a heart broken.. but we have to believe that the right person is there.. it is just a matter of time...just keep your eyes and mind open .. also your heart... to find true love, unconditional love is a true find.. Don't stop believing or looking..
Squeezie1958: Some of us have had a heart broken.. but we have to believe that the right person is there.. it is just a matter of time...just keep your eyes and mind open .. also your heart... to find true love, unconditional love is a true find.. Don't stop believing or looking..
well said !!!!! :)
geoabcd1234: If the answer is yes,how did it work for you ?
Ah yes, why not, life is short we may as well love people and the good thing is after having your heart broken a couple of times, somehow, it never hurts as much again!!!! the trick is not to allow yourself to be bitter or dwell on the pain - you realise they were just part of your journey to learn from and become stronger I'd kinda like to stop learning now though and manifest a love that is lasting - !!!
geoabcd1234: If the answer is yes,how did it work for you ?
Yes.. I do believe in love. But it takes some time to mend a broken heart.
Love will come in time.. in a right time .. in a right place with the right person....
pinay_survivor: Yes.. I do believe in love. But it takes some time to mend a broken heart.
Love will come in time.. in a right time .. in a right place with the right person....
Love will come in time.. in a right time .. in a right place with the right person....
CuddlingSoul: Ah, heart pain. Been there, done that, not fun... In the middle of a broken heart, nothing matters anymore and love is the last thing that one wants to hear about, after the pain starts to ease, believing in love, will start to return.
I agree.
Getting hurt is just normal for people who love but it should not stop us from believing in finding the real love.
After breakups and death etc I have experienced that grief which doesn't allow you to think rationally. It hurts so much that you can't really imagine ever loving again ... there is a period of bitterness and cynicism. After the grieving process, thoughts of love once again start nibbling away at your being .. and a desire not to be alone any longer.
Well those are my experiences anyway.
Patiently waiting for Ms Right at the moment ... I do wish she had a GPS tracking device to make her easier to find ... lol
Well those are my experiences anyway.
Patiently waiting for Ms Right at the moment ... I do wish she had a GPS tracking device to make her easier to find ... lol
"When you fall in love, it is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake, and then it subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots are become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is.
Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the desire to mate every second of the day. It is not lying awake at night imagining that he is kissing every part of your body. No... don't blush. I am telling you some truths. For that is just being in love; which any of us can convince ourselves we are.
Love itself is what is left over, when being in love has burned away. Doesn't sound very exciting, does it? But it is!”
Louis de Bernières, Captain Corelli's Mandolin
yup, i do believe in love.
Yes....but I need a bit of a breather in-between...
..time to heal and lick my wounds and ponder what I may have done to contribute to the demise of the previous relationship.
Maybe learn something before I dip my toes in again.
..time to heal and lick my wounds and ponder what I may have done to contribute to the demise of the previous relationship.
Maybe learn something before I dip my toes in again.
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