Wanting over the top is great, getting over the top is not always so good as romances that start with a fiery passionate lust tend to fizzle out pretty quickly leaving you thinking...... What the hell happened!
My girlfriend told me that I am a slow burn type of guy, lots of physical affection but nothing obviously romantic that evokes any heart stopping, knee trembling emotions.
No matter what kind of person you are lasting relationships are about being who you are not pretending to be who you think you should be.
VivianLee: I'm totally unrealistic, I like things over the top, schmaltzy love songs and poems and being crushed to a manly chest while he tells me how much he adores me. Still, there's a definite charm to the quieter affectionate types who are more likely to tease than sweep you off your feet.
If you had to choose - the tumultuous lover or the nice boy next door? The tempestuous siren or the girl your mum would have liked?
...i must been 22 years old.....walking behind this woman...nice figure./well dressed.....thought to myself....yerrrrrrrr.so i walked faster......got level with her....turned my head, and smiled.....jeeeeesus christ.....my heart didnt skip a beat it stopped.......she must have been 80 years old ,if she was a day........face like a horse.......i think my mouth went like this....... thats true. ........never could make that out......
truheart1941: ...i must been 22 years old.....walking behind this woman...nice figure./well dressed.....thought to myself....yerrrrrrrr.so i walked faster......got level with her....turned my head, and smiled.....jeeeeesus christ.....my heart didnt skip a beat it stopped.......she must have been 80 years old ,if she was a day........face like a horse.......i think my mouth went like this....... thats true. ........never could make that out......
When I was 22 and 8 months pregnant with my first, I was taking a walk down the road. A man in a truck coming up from behind me was staring back at me as he passed, with a sort of shocked expression...he must have been surprised to see after he passed by that I was about to explode
2girlsnocupunknown, Greater London, England UK2,621 posts
My heart skips when I know she's nearly home and I head out to the drive to meet her. When I hear the 'beep' from my phone and see it's a message from her. When we're sitting down watching the fire and laying into one another.
Romance should always be there, it keeps love alive. I am a romantic person, hearing a love song, receiving an unexpected card, hear someones voice in a pleasant manner. Love affection in all its languages since; everyone is different.
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My girlfriend told me that I am a slow burn type of guy, lots of physical affection but nothing obviously romantic that evokes any heart stopping, knee trembling emotions.
No matter what kind of person you are lasting relationships are about being who you are not pretending to be who you think you should be.