How long do you want your next relationship/marriage to last? (81)
KremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 PostsFew weeks (not in Vegas) on an exotic island whose marriage certificates are not recognised by the rest of the world... Thank you!
mollybaby: I bet you she isn't though
No, but at 24, who is a visionary? Besides, if I was her Dad,
as Vincent D'Onofrio is, I would find it creepy. imo.
Lonely1: We all hope for the dream, because, lets face it, we are all afraid of stds, and being a single parent. Also, choosing a life partner is not a piece of cake but quite a hair raising experience. We have to find the right person, wine and dine them, bear huge wedding costs. The alimony and support costs will come later, but we won't dwell on those for now.
So we all hope for the dream..but reality is real and quite different.
So many **men, so little time.....
So we all hope for the dream..but reality is real and quite different.
So many **men, so little time.....
The father of my children had an affair with his secretary half his age (after our 24 years of marriage).
Myself, be concerned about STD, no at all yet I had a full screening once I knew he was having his affair besides the anual check ups with the gynecologist.
Now, was I afraid of being a single parent? not all.
Dishonesty was the concern so I decided not to trust him.
Was I heart broken, yes I was for about 2 months.
Would I ever get married again -I do not think so- I have paid my share
lifeisadream: The father of my children had an affair with his secretary half his age (after our 24 years of marriage).
Myself, be concerned about STD, no at all yet I had a full screening once I knew he was having his affair besides the anual check ups with the gynecologist.
Now, was I afraid of being a single parent? not all.
Dishonesty was the concern so I decided not to trust him.
Was I heart broken, yes I was for about 2 months.
Would I ever get married again -I do not think so- I have paid my share
Myself, be concerned about STD, no at all yet I had a full screening once I knew he was having his affair besides the anual check ups with the gynecologist.
Now, was I afraid of being a single parent? not all.
Dishonesty was the concern so I decided not to trust him.
Was I heart broken, yes I was for about 2 months.
Would I ever get married again -I do not think so- I have paid my share
Not many of us would get married again, but still could thrive
in a committed relationship, if two people are on the same
wavelength.
Wizardglick: Not many of us would get married again, but still could thrive
in a committed relationship, if two people are on the same
wavelength.
in a committed relationship, if two people are on the same
wavelength.
Then let us take an internet marriage and commit until CS makes us apart
Some others could be included to be political incorrect or is it correct?
But I as a First wife decides who else gets in.
Psst,...... I think there is one brewing three blogs down.
I think there is one brewing three blogs down from this one.
lifeisadream: Then let us take an internet marriage and commit until CS makes us apart
Some others could be included to be political incorrect or is it correct?
But I as a First wife decides who else gets in.
Some others could be included to be political incorrect or is it correct?
But I as a First wife decides who else gets in.
I think there is one brewing three blogs down from this one.
Wizardglick: Psst,...... I think there is one brewing three blogs down.
I think there is one brewing three blogs down from this one.
I think there is one brewing three blogs down from this one.
Is it?
pssst!
I do not know about it but my intuition tells me to stay away!
forever..and forever...amen
lifeisadream: The father of my children had an affair with his secretary half his age (after our 24 years of marriage).
Myself, be concerned about STD, no at all yet I had a full screening once I knew he was having his affair besides the anual check ups with the gynecologist.
Now, was I afraid of being a single parent? not all.
Dishonesty was the concern so I decided not to trust him.
Was I heart broken, yes I was for about 2 months.
Would I ever get married again -I do not think so- I have paid my share
Myself, be concerned about STD, no at all yet I had a full screening once I knew he was having his affair besides the anual check ups with the gynecologist.
Now, was I afraid of being a single parent? not all.
Dishonesty was the concern so I decided not to trust him.
Was I heart broken, yes I was for about 2 months.
Would I ever get married again -I do not think so- I have paid my share
Sorry to hear about that.
It is a weird thing: after being with someone for a while, you get to either love, hate, or be indifferent about them, although no one knows what goes on behind closed doors most of the times. But others outside the marriage thinks this man or that woman must be great to be married so long, so they give a wink here or a pat there (or is it the other way round?). So temptation sets in. The hubby/spouse can give in or not. But if they do give in, the jilted spouse usually cannot forgive that indiscretion because a vow has been broken.
But I say, is it so bad to forgive? Hilary Clinton did. Was that such a bad thing?
Lonely1: Sorry to hear about that.
It is a weird thing: after being with someone for a while, you get to either love, hate, or be indifferent about them, although no one knows what goes on behind closed doors most of the times. But others outside the marriage thinks this man or that woman must be great to be married so long, so they give a wink here or a pat there (or is it the other way round?). So temptation sets in. The hubby/spouse can give in or not. But if they do give in, the jilted spouse usually cannot forgive that indiscretion because a vow has been broken.
But I say, is it so bad to forgive? Hilary Clinton did. Was that such a bad thing?
It is a weird thing: after being with someone for a while, you get to either love, hate, or be indifferent about them, although no one knows what goes on behind closed doors most of the times. But others outside the marriage thinks this man or that woman must be great to be married so long, so they give a wink here or a pat there (or is it the other way round?). So temptation sets in. The hubby/spouse can give in or not. But if they do give in, the jilted spouse usually cannot forgive that indiscretion because a vow has been broken.
But I say, is it so bad to forgive? Hilary Clinton did. Was that such a bad thing?
There were other factors that were adding to the whole problem and his having an affair with his secretary was the last drop.
He is a good person, a great scientist, an ok Father but he was a boring partner and the worse: he took for granted his family and he took a bad decision that he has to live with.
..and I am not Hillary (although: would I like to be the President of USA?...tempting.....)
CrystalMethod: Is not up to just one of you how long will it last. Its a relationship so the
answer is with both partners. There is nothing more sad than people who don't know or do not want to see that it is over.
answer is with both partners. There is nothing more sad than people who don't know or do not want to see that it is over.
Just stay clear of the serial jumpers. I know a relationship counsellor who has been divorced three times.
Forever sounds good..or used to.
Forever sounds good..or used to.
Lonely1: Just stay clear of the serial jumpers. I know a relationship counsellor who has been divorced three times.
at least the counsellor would know what they are talking about .Well , it looks like my life will be in 2 halves bc l wound up getting divorced .
But l felt my ex w when she was coming and now l feel someone else coming and l hope that's right tbh bc yeah , l'd like the forever thing for the second half.
But l felt my ex w when she was coming and now l feel someone else coming and l hope that's right tbh bc yeah , l'd like the forever thing for the second half.
Until the rest of our life
I really enjoy waking up happy; and I tend to remain happy, unless acted on by an outside force.
I never want to look at the other side of the bed to see if it's alright to be happy, again.
I never want to look at the other side of the bed to see if it's alright to be happy, again.
Lonely1: Are relationships doomed to be short lived? Nobody seem to want to be with one partner too long in an age of fast food and new gadgets.
So many **men, so little time...
So many **men, so little time...
1532 seconds.
Until death do us part.
Until death do us part.
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