What do you think is the major Reason behind Divorces,today? (74)
docdogcolonial heights, Virginia USA2 Threads 11 PostsLack of communication
my marrige broke down bcause of a couple of reasons first was she wanted kids and i couldnt and second was the fact that the marrige became a habbit and lost its enjoyment.
Lack of commitment.
Relationships are fun and easy at first. It takes work from both sides in order for a relationship to last. Too many want to avoid issues. Instead of facing problems they'd rather just leave. It's easier to give up then to work at fixing what is wrong. People need to realize every relationship is going to have its ups & downs.
Relationships are fun and easy at first. It takes work from both sides in order for a relationship to last. Too many want to avoid issues. Instead of facing problems they'd rather just leave. It's easier to give up then to work at fixing what is wrong. People need to realize every relationship is going to have its ups & downs.
Joleigh: Lack of commitment.
Relationships are fun and easy at first. It takes work from both sides in order for a relationship to last. Too many want to avoid issues. Instead of facing problems they'd rather just leave. It's easier to give up then to work at fixing what is wrong. People need to realize every relationship is going to have its ups & downs.
Relationships are fun and easy at first. It takes work from both sides in order for a relationship to last. Too many want to avoid issues. Instead of facing problems they'd rather just leave. It's easier to give up then to work at fixing what is wrong. People need to realize every relationship is going to have its ups & downs.
Now there's a concept!
Joleigh: Lack of commitment.
Relationships are fun and easy at first. It takes work from both sides in order for a relationship to last. Too many want to avoid issues. Instead of facing problems they'd rather just leave. It's easier to give up then to work at fixing what is wrong. People need to realize every relationship is going to have its ups & downs.
Relationships are fun and easy at first. It takes work from both sides in order for a relationship to last. Too many want to avoid issues. Instead of facing problems they'd rather just leave. It's easier to give up then to work at fixing what is wrong. People need to realize every relationship is going to have its ups & downs.
Absolutely. Commitment is part of the shared values.
nother thing we found was just to avoid those "hot buttons." You know, those pesky little things that cropped up every once in awhile but never got resolved - so they kind of start to grow a little bigger each time because you start to realize neither one of you is ever going to change you position? For example, I like to camp and be active and try to avoid tourist vacations. His idea of roughing it was when someone forgot to put a mint on his pillow. It was just one of those things that was never going to change. But so what??? You just accept and respect each other's position and let it go! Just work around it. We would do the tourist thing from time to time, and then I would buzz off with my girlfriends on a riding expidition.
So simple, really, when you realize marriage is not a matter of ownership, but partnership.
No honest communication between two people. If one talks to the other then anything should be able to be resolved.
Mine ended with a third party. Not a single fight in 3 years, but she decided to have more than 1 man. She will do anything now to have the good life back, but can go to hell, no ways.. I don't like sharing.
"What do you think is the major Reason behind Divorces,today?"
MARRIAGE !!
Just don't do it!!
MARRIAGE !!
Just don't do it!!
Ghoenkop: Mine ended with a third party. Not a single fight in 3 years, but she decided to have more than 1 man. She will do anything now to have the good life back, but can go to hell, no ways.. I don't like sharing.
I'm really sorry.
Don't blame you a bit either.
I would do exactly the same.
2 people who were married????
"You just accept and respect each other's position and let it go! Just work around it."
smart Woman
smart Woman
To be honest, these days I think people are rushing way to fast into things. They are getting married at 18 and 19 after only being together a short times, having kids so young and not really getting to know their partner very well. Also I don't think some people realise what happens once you're married and that you have to work at the marriage, it's not a fairytale, you don't just get married and it all works out, but that can be put down to a lack of communication.
But hey that's just what I've seen and my thoughts :)
But hey that's just what I've seen and my thoughts :)
suraj543: hi,
this is a hot topic.kindly give ur comments on this,so that it can help some undergoing seperation trial.Thanks,
this is a hot topic.kindly give ur comments on this,so that it can help some undergoing seperation trial.Thanks,
Some people get married very young. When they finally grow up they realize the person they are with is not the right one for them. Through personal experience I suggest 24yro for women and 26 yro for men. This gives people time to grow up and learn who they are. Then picking a lond term mate becomes easier.
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