What do you think is the major Reason behind Divorces,today? (74)
Lack of Communication between either party.
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Marriage ? 
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i think is the ego problem of individuals that affect the most.
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lack of money and effection
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you forgot to boredom
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well i blive its when ppl dont take responsibility for there choices...because they dont know what they want yet!!!they may have other adjenda's this can be a big relationship wreacker.... what is compatible for the marrage..? or they are concernde about the other partners cares for there adjenda's as a person and lack of communication between partners can lead to unsurity of what it is there parnter wants and what they want as a person in a relationship and there true feelings or as i said maybe they dont really know what they want yet an haveint taken responsibility for there choices and have other adjenda's...(other things on there mind)maybe ther just not ready to be responsible for there relationship or the "compatibility of there relationship(there feelings for there partner, for there own well being, and currant feeling of there situation, and there state of being, what they want and wether there happy with what the goals of the other person and therself are and were they are going, including communication of true fellings between partners about these tpoics in a genuine reassured context)
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also if the person dweels on problems or idea's that thers something wrong with what they are doing and feel generaly down about things and that the things they genaraly do arnt fullfilling them exaple a person can cure there bordom with a walk along the beach or a movie they things they generally do to cure there bordom like going shopping or sitting down playing ur favorite computer game for 5 hours rofl we do these things genarally question is were is the relationship standing in this circle
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that is the question ov compatibility:)
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so then u can vote in No Respect for Others section.
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I vote for the lack of commitment. A relationship is work after you get past 2 yrs.
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In many countries the roles within marriage have changed dramatically. More career opportunities for women giving increased financially freedom, choices and equality. They don't have to stay in a relationship where they are unhappy plus divorce is now easier and not such a taboo subject.
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I put other reasons.Money at 1 time not too long ago was no. 1 reason in US for divorce.Fighting over budget,who spends too much etc. .I thought it strange to be top reason but there was research done.My personal opinion would be not bieng willing,1 or both to work at marriage.
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its true that commitment is very important.but early compromises are only possible if u have natural luv for the individual so that you can see off those first few years wherein you get to understand ur partners priorities so that u can reduce differences.
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one best way to avert divorces is to lead marital life very professional just as we avert conflicts in professional life to always reach a win-win situation.this way we can stop at differences to agree that we disagree and move on.
anyone agreeing with me?
anyone agreeing with me?
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one best way to avert divorces is to lead marital life very professional just as we avert conflicts in professional life to always reach a win-win situation.this way we can stop at differences to agree that we disagree and move on.
anyone agreeing with me?
anyone agreeing with me?
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loyalty of others not remembering married people are out of bounds so many singles why play with the married ones
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Too many people getting married.
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I Request people who have successfully lead married life for more than 10 years or so to chip in and tell us as to what made their relationship tick.also,if there are are any psychiatricians among the users,they can very well chip in and analyse the root cause for relationships to tick.
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I was in a 20 year relationship....It only worked because I kept trying until I realized that there had to be more to life than what I was dealing with--it was all I give and he took-among other things....I see to many young and old alike jump into relationship's and then marriage to quickly...Most nowdays take marriage to lightly and feel if they have a disagreement-that it is ok to run around cheat-separate whatever-people do not try and work out there problems-most take marriage to lightly and figure-oh well if it isn't perfect I can just divorce them and marry another...I had a good friend tell me not to long ago--married couples should save half there money from there wedding to be used for there divorce that seems to happen within there first year of marriage...
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I was married for 31 one years.If you dont have faith and trust in each other then you have nothing.What ever you do for each other has to be done with all of your love heart and soul.We took care of each other.And I took care of him for the last 10 years of him life.I did nothing but take care of him. And you know what if I had it to do all over again I would.Because I loved him with all of my heart and soul.
suraj543: I Request people who have successfully lead married life for more than 10 years or so to chip in and tell us as to what made their relationship tick.also,if there are are any psychiatricians among the users,they can very well chip in and analyse the root cause for relationships to tick.
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yer wont find none of them here
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rofl hmmm well maybe now that i think about it u may find some here
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I am certainly no expert (I am myself a failure at the subject). I can only say that my marriage failed because of me -- because I wasn't completely honest about who I was before I got married, then tried to continue the illusion with my husband for the 9 years that we were married. It is my experience that often people get married because they think it is what they are supposed to do, not because it is what they want to do. Some people are just not cut out for marriage, and maybe that's not such a bad thing.
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LACali: In your poll I chose hygiene. That was a good reason to divorce.
Ohhh, that just stinks .............
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Lack of understanding of what Love is.
The fantasy that everything will be 'perfect' forever.
Becoming someone unlike the person you were in the beginning.
Inability or unwillingness to persevere over trials and tribulations that all realtionships are subject to.
The grass is greener and the inability to smell the different fertilizer used.
Materialism and the Jones'.
Emotional distance.
Devolvement of communication.
Never truly in Love in the first place.
Selfishness.
The fantasy that everything will be 'perfect' forever.
Becoming someone unlike the person you were in the beginning.
Inability or unwillingness to persevere over trials and tribulations that all realtionships are subject to.
The grass is greener and the inability to smell the different fertilizer used.
Materialism and the Jones'.
Emotional distance.
Devolvement of communication.
Never truly in Love in the first place.
Selfishness.
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If 2 people in a relationship are not willing to grow together, they will grow apart..
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Created: Dec 2008
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What do you think is the major Reason behind Divorces,today?(Vote Below)
this is a hot topic.kindly give ur comments on this,so that it can help some undergoing seperation trial.
Thanks,