lifesajoy: You never know what life is going to throw at you and the last thing I want is someone who would run and hide when things weren't just perfect!
If it is one or two things, fine. But if it all things, I'm running, fast! I don't need to be handling all of someone's baggage. Unpack first, then come find me.
I would like to find someone that is open to love. Not just giving, but he has to want to recieve it also. Being in love is not fun if you are in love alone.
The first thing to me that is important is her looks. It is what I see first and causes the initial spark or chemistry. Then and very quickly she needs to be intelligent with personality and inner traits that are hard to define, but you know if they are there or not.
buzzy: If it is one or two things, fine. But if it all things, I'm running, fast! I don't need to be handling all of someone's baggage. Unpack first, then come find me.
Hey Buzzy! How ya doin'?
Wasn't talkin' about baggage. I was talking about the things that happen after you're together. Stuff like health issues, job loss, etc. Stuff you have no control over that just happens. My ex-husband took his leave soon after our son was born and we found out he was autistic and I had cervical cancer after I had stood by him through 2 layoffs and health issues of his own.
buzzy: If it is one or two things, fine. But if it all things, I'm running, fast! I don't need to be handling all of someone's baggage. Unpack first, then come find me.
Totally agree! I don't live in the past, and don't want my future partner there either. Don't bring your old junk to the new trunk!
gozoman2: Exactly.......keeping in mind that your first impression may or may not turn out to be correct.......but leaving yourself open to possibilities...........has to start somewhere......why go out with preconceived ideas that may only disappoint?
I think lots of times we hesitate and miss out on opportunities.
That first impression is at least worth a try, a flower, a friendly word to see what develops.
buzzy: If it is one or two things, fine. But if it all things, I'm running, fast! I don't need to be handling all of someone's baggage. Unpack first, then come find me.
Why sud people have so much baggage? surely if they're on this site lookin 4 sum1 new, why have got baggage? 2day people don't want other people problems, they have enough of their own.
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