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Mar 22, 2009 9:09 AM CSTWhat is the most important in finding a partner? It is a person's.....
LoveIsADecision
LoveIsADecisionLoveIsADecisionSt. Catharines/Toronto, Ontario, Canada11 Threads 8 Polls 117 Posts

What is the most important in finding a partner? It is a person's.....(Vote Below)

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Financial Intelligence!
3
5%
Emotional Intelligence!
8
13%
Intelligence Quota!
2
3%
Personal Development!
5
8%
Personal Accomplishments!
2
3%
Flexibility in dealing with life!
10
16%
Handyman ability!
1
2%
Ability to care for you!
14
23%
Sexual drive!
7
11%
Personal friendliness!
9
15%
Total Votes
61
What character most are people looking for in finding a partner?
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Mar 22, 2009 9:24 AM CST What is the most important in finding a partner? It is a person's.....
lifesajoy
lifesajoylifesajoySand Fork, West Virginia USA4 Threads 404 Posts
You never know what life is going to throw at you and the last thing I want is someone who would run and hide when things weren't just perfect!
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Mar 22, 2009 9:28 AM CST What is the most important in finding a partner? It is a person's.....
buzzy
buzzybuzzybiddeford, Maine USA24 Threads 1,492 Posts
lifesajoy: You never know what life is going to throw at you and the last thing I want is someone who would run and hide when things weren't just perfect!


If it is one or two things, fine. But if it all things, I'm running, fast! I don't need to be handling all of someone's baggage. Unpack first, then come find me.
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Mar 22, 2009 9:31 AM CST What is the most important in finding a partner? It is a person's.....
pubwrite08
pubwrite08pubwrite08Columbus, Georgia USA14 Threads 2,451 Posts
I would like to find someone that is open to love. Not just giving, but he has to want to recieve it also. Being in love is not fun if you are in love alone.
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Mar 22, 2009 9:32 AM CST What is the most important in finding a partner? It is a person's.....
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
The first thing to me that is important is her looks. It is what I see first and causes the initial spark or chemistry. Then and very quickly she needs to be intelligent with personality and inner traits that are hard to define, but you know if they are there or not.
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Mar 22, 2009 9:35 AM CST What is the most important in finding a partner? It is a person's.....
lifesajoy
lifesajoylifesajoySand Fork, West Virginia USA4 Threads 404 Posts
buzzy: If it is one or two things, fine. But if it all things, I'm running, fast! I don't need to be handling all of someone's baggage. Unpack first, then come find me.


Hey Buzzy! How ya doin'?

Wasn't talkin' about baggage. I was talking about the things that happen after you're together. Stuff like health issues, job loss, etc. Stuff you have no control over that just happens. My ex-husband took his leave soon after our son was born and we found out he was autistic and I had cervical cancer after I had stood by him through 2 layoffs and health issues of his own.
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Mar 22, 2009 10:45 AM CST What is the most important in finding a partner? It is a person's.....
lady93
lady93lady93Houston, Texas USA5 Threads 5 Polls 75 Posts
LoveIsADecision: What character most are people looking for in finding a partner?


All of the above thumbs up
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Mar 22, 2009 10:51 AM CST What is the most important in finding a partner? It is a person's.....
Don't really know.....

confused

.....guess when it goes 'PING!'

wink
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Mar 22, 2009 11:24 AM CST What is the most important in finding a partner? It is a person's.....
Charli15695
Charli15695Charli15695Dallas, Texas USA22 Threads 1,223 Posts
buzzy: If it is one or two things, fine. But if it all things, I'm running, fast! I don't need to be handling all of someone's baggage. Unpack first, then come find me.


Totally agree! thumbs up I don't live in the past, and don't want my future partner there either. Don't bring your old junk to the new trunk! rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 22, 2009 12:12 PM CST What is the most important in finding a partner? It is a person's.....
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
gozoman2: Don't really know.....

.....guess when it goes 'PING!'


Yeah, like "we have a winner here" sort of moment.

cheering
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Mar 22, 2009 12:38 PM CST What is the most important in finding a partner? It is a person's.....
arabella: Yeah, like "we have a winner here" sort of moment.


Exactly.......keeping in mind that your first impression may or may not turn out to be correct.......but leaving yourself open to possibilities......


.....has to start somewhere......why go out with preconceived ideas that may only disappoint?


cool
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Mar 22, 2009 12:42 PM CST What is the most important in finding a partner? It is a person's.....
LoveIsADecision: What character most are people looking for in finding a partner?



All of the above.
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Mar 22, 2009 12:49 PM CST What is the most important in finding a partner? It is a person's.....
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
gozoman2: Exactly.......keeping in mind that your first impression may or may not turn out to be correct.......but leaving yourself open to possibilities...........has to start somewhere......why go out with preconceived ideas that may only disappoint?


I think lots of times we hesitate and miss out on opportunities.

That first impression is at least worth a try, a flower, a friendly word to see what develops.
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Mar 22, 2009 12:54 PM CST What is the most important in finding a partner? It is a person's.....
nita1
nita1nita1Dublin, Ireland1 Threads 87 Posts
buzzy: If it is one or two things, fine. But if it all things, I'm running, fast! I don't need to be handling all of someone's baggage. Unpack first, then come find me.


Why sud people have so much baggage? surely if they're on this site lookin 4 sum1 new, why have got baggage? 2day people don't want other people problems, they have enough of their own. confused
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Mar 22, 2009 1:01 PM CST What is the most important in finding a partner? It is a person's.....
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
LoveIsADecision:
What is the most important in finding a partner? It is a person's.....

What character most are people looking for in finding a partner?


Can't vote,

to me it's a combo of numbers 1,2 & 6.

Of equal importance.
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Mar 22, 2009 1:07 PM CST What is the most important in finding a partner? It is a person's.....
airliner
airlinerairlinerCentral, New Jersey USA23 Threads 2 Polls 5,143 Posts
Laura25: Can't vote,

to me it's a combo of numbers 1,2 & 6.

Of equal importance.


and #9 has no weight??

confused
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Mar 22, 2009 1:11 PM CST What is the most important in finding a partner? It is a person's.....
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
airliner: and #9 has no weight??


It absolutely does, Hank, and many other personality traits do matter too,

but OP asked "What is the most important".

Not everything is of equal importance.
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Mar 22, 2009 1:26 PM CST What is the most important in finding a partner? It is a person's.....
adamisk
adamiskadamiskraleigh, Mississippi USA34 Threads 4 Polls 1,325 Posts
personal friendliness and flexibility when dealing with life . well if i ever go on a date that is ..rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 22, 2009 1:55 PM CST What is the most important in finding a partner? It is a person's.....
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Out of all the choices I like the "Flexibility in dealing with life!" option. If she is flexible, we can work out almost anything else.
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Mar 22, 2009 5:19 PM CST What is the most important in finding a partner? It is a person's.....
DoznEggs
DoznEggsDoznEggsAny town, New Jersey USA17 Threads 933 Posts
Big_John: Out of all the choices I like the "Flexibility in dealing with life!" option. If she is flexible, we can work out almost anything else.


I agree with Big John. Compromise = Flexibility and is extremely important in a relationship.
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