Has your online dating experience been fruitful? (90)

Thanks Guy´s for your support and thanks for your sweet messages on my mail.
But you are all far above my age, but I think now that the mature ( I wont say older )men have the brains and the know how, but must I really date a man that can be my Dad.?

You are all so sweet

What????? i din`t send you no mail

No not you.. But somebody else did
Never the less.....will hang around...who know´s?

well, I met one guy from here, also from Germany, about 500 km northern from where I live
I had no trouble with as he came down to me
but I can tell you!!!
a totally different person than I expected
but no wonder after the pic he had in his profile and the reality
there must been 100 of kg between!!!
so his average body type of average he put in his profile was at least the treble of it in real, if not more!
no glasses on the pic and not mentioned but some like the bottom of a coke bottle
but not only the looking, even he smelled musty, ugh! and was still wondering why I didn't cuddle up to him
we did a walk with my dog, a little hill up and he stopped not once on the half way up and asked for to turn
I swear, with my 70 years old parents, I'm doing longer walks and steeper hills
at least I bought enough beer, what I really needed for this weekend
and I did cook as well so I was quite busy
so somehow I got over this weekend, phu

after he left, I really sent him a lovely email where I did apologize that I've been so cool and distanced
even was asking for a second chance
but greatfully, I never heard of him anymore

by the way, he wasn't divorced yet also ;)

but that only can be happens to me

No, it hasn't been fruitful. It has been dangerous with certain men that I've met. Even though I would like to meet someone to love and be loyal to, I know I won't find him here. The men on here know that I have problems and issues that men don't want to deal with. They know I'm not easy and that I'm not afraid to speak an opinion or even challenge them with respect. Men don't want women like me.

So I'm settling for friends to hangout with and talk up a storm.

Wow, Snuggs

I know exactly what you mean.

After four years here, now I'm only looking for friends an conversation.

And as Len said on hs thread today, friendly conversation is sometimes hard to find.

I refuse to change into some sweet talking little chit who flatters and flirts.

To thine own self be true!

For me, not really. I have been here and on other sites for a very long time, gave up and just larked about on the Forums. Until now....!!


Early days, so we'll see.....

Yeah real fruitful

Naaaaaaaa it hasn't been but then I'm looking for quality not quantity....sooooooo the good friends I have made so farrrrr are by far the best part I have found on CS.....

Hello cristina - clever girl!


I launched myself onto connecting singles like a rocket, crashed spectacularly (I was the only one that noticed) - dusted myself off - crashed again, painfully - made a fantastic friend, and then took stock - i have learned a lot about myself on this site. I have received a lot of mental stimuli - regarding my spiritual nature especially - people like antjo39 who appears to be highly educated have voiced what i know and feel intuitively - so yes - i've done well here.

Big_John: Can I have a beer instead? Cheers!!!




(My goodness this almost constitutes a date) Albeit one that’s in the “pending” folder!

The women that are typically interested in me are usually out of my age range or lives to far away. I'm going to have to extend my dating distance.

I know, about that from the my side. You can get a date easy, you can not find "that" person.

That is good idea if you can travel as often as you like. And you do not have to worry about other stuff like funds, or distance. I am lucky, I go where I want when I want to meet someone they just are not the right ones.

To me it just depends on how well I hit it off with the woman. I can always relocate for the right one. Not that I would want to travel 500 miles every wekend.

Have not met anyone through CS - but had quite a few dates from other sites & have now met the love of my life through another site!

Let's just say I'm satisfied so far with the results of my membership here, and leave it at that.

So true-I seem to get the lemons who only tell you their not looking for anything serious until months later...