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Apr 8, 2009 1:35 AM CSTCan you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
Lorri_1987
Lorri_1987Lorri_1987Charleston, West Virginia, USA4 Threads 4 Polls

Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her(Vote Below)

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yes
12
16%
no
10
14%
most generally
9
12%
depends on what it is
33
45%
I can it just takes time
10
14%
Total Votes
74
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Apr 8, 2009 1:39 AM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
Dreamer82
Dreamer82Dreamer82Wahiawa, Hawaii USA25 Threads 299 Posts
I'll forgive anything except cheating. A woman wouldn't forgive cheating....why should a man?thumbs down thumbs down
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Apr 8, 2009 1:47 AM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia278 Threads 7,904 Posts
--- yes
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Apr 8, 2009 2:20 AM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
Witchaywoman
WitchaywomanWitchaywomanCarpentersville, Illinois USA97 Threads 13 Polls 4,344 Posts
What did your spouse do to you?
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Apr 8, 2009 3:48 AM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
Dreamer82: I'll forgive anything except cheating. A woman wouldn't forgive cheating....why should a man?

I can forgive cheating, but never forget and never return.
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Apr 8, 2009 3:51 AM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Dreamer82: I'll forgive anything except cheating. A woman wouldn't forgive cheating....why should a man?
have to disagree with you there, i forgave cheating.
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Apr 8, 2009 3:52 AM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
ocean_1
ocean_1ocean_1london, Greater London, England UK51 Threads 1 Polls 470 Posts
Dreamer82: I'll forgive anything except cheating. A woman wouldn't forgive cheating....why should a man?


Totaly agree with uthumbs up
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Apr 8, 2009 3:55 AM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
ocean_1: Totaly agree with u
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Apr 8, 2009 7:54 AM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
I was lucky enough to have been with a lovely lady for a long, long time. The only way you can stay with someone for so long is to be willing to compromise and forgive. Anything worth having is worth fighting for. Two people are unique and different. Each will do dumb things. You need to be able to forgive, forget and move on. No couple goes through life without issues. Deal with it. Understand it. Honestly decide the relationship is more important.
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Apr 12, 2009 3:29 PM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
starattax
starattaxstarattaxcarlow, Carlow Ireland6 Threads 181 Posts
it really depends on what it is. my husband cheated on me and i forgave him so he thought he,d do it again and again and again so u lose the trust and when thats gone its the end.its all about love and respect. if they truely are sorry and do mend there ways then u can get over it eventually and build the trust up again over time but if it ever happens a second time its time to get out
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Apr 12, 2009 3:36 PM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
pubwrite08
pubwrite08pubwrite08Columbus, Georgia USA14 Threads 2,451 Posts
morgan5: have to disagree with you there, i forgave cheating.
I have forgiven cheating too. But not the repeat offender.
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Apr 12, 2009 3:37 PM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
rodolpho
rodolphorodolphoamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands30 Threads 3,401 Posts
Trust is regained by actions not words.
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Apr 12, 2009 3:39 PM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
rodolpho: Trust is regained by actions not words.


Yes very true...words don't mean anything without the actions t back them up....wave wink and it can be regained provided there is action...hug kiss hug heart beating
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Apr 12, 2009 3:39 PM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
butterfly1250
butterfly1250butterfly1250forbes, New South Wales Australia52 Posts
CHEATING NO WAY CAN'T FOR GIVE, ABUSIVE BEHAVIOUR AS WELL.wave
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Apr 12, 2009 3:42 PM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
What`s love got to do with it???
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Apr 12, 2009 3:43 PM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
mylifewithu: Same answer for me too. Hello Shelly Happy Easter


Hey doll...Happy Easter...Hope you're having a great day....hug kiss hug heart beating bunny bunny easter basket
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Apr 12, 2009 3:45 PM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Hey doll...Happy Easter...Hope you're having a great day....
Hi Sweetie I sure am, and then I must go to the store, Need candy, need chocolate bunnieslaugh wink wave teddybear

I hope your Easter is going well too.hug
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Apr 12, 2009 3:48 PM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
"I love my partner but,if he ever cheated on me,
I'd have to say so long;when in a relationship
your partner tells you he/she loves you,
than cheating wouldn't be an option.
However,if it was something minor than maybe
I can forgive him..it depends on the circumstances."


JMO



professor
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Apr 12, 2009 4:00 PM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Polarbutterfly: "I love my partner but,if he ever cheated on me,
I'd have to say so long;when in a relationship
your partner tells you he/she loves you,
than cheating wouldn't be an option.
However,if it was something minor than maybe
I can forgive him..it depends on the circumstances." JMO



It does...I have recently learned the art of forgiveness and starting over...and forgiveness doesn't mean it was ok...it just means getting rid of all the junk...anger etc around it...learning...and moving on from it....hug kiss hug heart beating
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Apr 12, 2009 4:03 PM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: It does...I have recently learned the art of forgiveness and starting over...and forgiveness doesn't mean it was ok...it just means getting rid of all the junk...anger etc around it...learning...and moving on from it....
ohhh boohooo cry me a river, please be good and loving with me ,I am soo sorry ohhhhh Boooo Hoooooo.....crying rolling on the floor laughing tongue
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Apr 12, 2009 4:05 PM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
jessejess47: ohhh boohooo cry me a river, please be good and loving with me ,I am soo sorry ohhhhh Boooo Hoooooo.....



Hey it's about forgiving past things...It doesn't mean I still don't ave my fire...passions and goofiness or I can't get angry...it just means now...I can let it go quicker....wave tongue rolling on the floor laughing professor
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Apr 12, 2009 4:06 PM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
zee1ander
zee1anderzee1anderSomewhere, Kentucky USA52 Threads 4 Polls 1,758 Posts
I have no need to forgive my exwife....she knew what I needed and she gave it to me.... freedom.

zee
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Apr 12, 2009 4:07 PM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Hey it's about forgiving past things...It doesn't mean I still don't ave my fire...passions and goofiness or I can't get angry...it just means now...I can let it go quicker....


"Wise words girl....".

wine
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Apr 12, 2009 4:07 PM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Hey it's about forgiving past things...It doesn't mean I still don't ave my fire...passions and goofiness or I can't get angry...it just means now...I can let it go quicker....


I'm still me...all of me...wave wink grin devil
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Apr 12, 2009 4:08 PM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Hey it's about forgiving past things...It doesn't mean I still don't ave my fire...passions and goofiness or I can't get angry...it just means now...I can let it go quicker....
yea well you still want to throw me in the rivr so there I don't feel sorry one bit for you so there nanny nanny boo bootongue
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Apr 12, 2009 4:09 PM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
jessejess47: yea well you still want to throw me in the rivr so there I don't feel sorry one bit for you so there nanny nanny boo boo


I don't feel sorry for me either...OR you...and yes you're still goin in the river.....Just don't forget those water wings...roll eyes tongue rolling on the floor laughing uh oh
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Apr 12, 2009 4:10 PM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
butterfly1250
butterfly1250butterfly1250forbes, New South Wales Australia52 Posts
TRUST IS SOME THING THAT HAS TO BE EARNT.kiss
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Apr 12, 2009 4:12 PM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
zee1ander
zee1anderzee1anderSomewhere, Kentucky USA52 Threads 4 Polls 1,758 Posts
butterfly1250: TRUST IS SOME THING THAT HAS TO BE EARNT.


believe everyone until they give you a reason not to trust them.

zee
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Apr 12, 2009 4:13 PM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
zee1ander: believe everyone until they give you a reason not to trust them.

zee
thats me in a nut shell Zee.....thumbs up
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Apr 12, 2009 4:14 PM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
Paradox67
Paradox67Paradox67Collegeville, Pennsylvania USA9 Threads 5 Polls 1,170 Posts
DUMP HIM! THE JERK!

Let me know when your free. (Call me...we'll do lunch)
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Apr 12, 2009 4:21 PM CST Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
butterfly1250
butterfly1250butterfly1250forbes, New South Wales Australia52 Posts
AM I RIGHT OR WRONG HERE , BUT ARE MOST OF YOU ABOUT TO ENJOY YOUR EASTER SUNDAY, WE ARE NOW INTO OUR EASTER MONDAY, IF SO THEN I WISH ALL THE BEST DAY EVER. MARGO .teddybear
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by Lorri_1987 (4 Polls)
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Created: Apr 2009
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