If in a marriage, if all you do is fight, you should..... ( Archived) (32)

no

how u knw that

jashcd, seriously mate your very funny, but its obvious that
you are Nuts!

Each stop thinking about themselves and about the other. In all things there is a FAIR solution that is BEST. But people want it all for themselves and to hell with the one I love for ME! Its very simple Both need some "SMARTS" and need to apply them together as a team, partners, as one flesh, Ya'll against the world, two musketeers, amigos, lovers.....etc.

Both work all day....he comes home and sits on his butt....she cooks and cleans.......NOT FAIR!

She stays home all day and does nothing while he works...then he has to get her off her lazy butt to fix dinner.....NOT FAIR!

He buys a new rifle to go with the others and she needs a new set of tires on her car for safty......NOT FAIR!


IF BOTH WILL GIVE IN A RELATION, NEITHER WILL LACK AND THE UNION LIVES. BOTH TAKE AND IT IS DOOMED AS SOON AS SOMETHING LOOKING BETTER COMES ALONG.


THIS IS HOW LOVE WORKS AT THE SMALLEST LEVEL BUT FILLS THE HEART.
A cherry pie is bought....the pieces are given.......one loves cherry pie greatly......one piece left.......the one who loves cherry pie will divide the pie.....but the other will "LIE" and say,"I don't think I want any...I don't care for cherry pie that much...you eat it. (and the other knows they are lying, so they can have the whole piece and gives the other a kiss, knowing love.) I have done such all my life and I can't understand people fighting over a stupid piece of pie! Is you crazy!!!

Honestly, I don't like cherry pie...eat it all, dammit!

Now, in CS, we once had a cherry-cream_pie (a person with that id)....... she/he/it was a total scream but got banned - it was so sad!

no,marriage is not about fighting of husband and wife,we married because of love not for that fighting,its happen sometimes but should be not a fight ,just conversation or things that both missunderstood..there is many reason why divorced is always waiting at the end but if the couple can managed by their self that is great..

hummm,thaats why happened that in one guy here,

Hi Lorri, good post.

Not enough votes in really to confirm the trend but so far the following statistics jump out at me, with regard to our attitudes as we age .... from the "vote breakdown" section.

1. More under 40's women vote for divorce than men do.

2. But after the age of 40, more men go for the divorce option
than women.

3. The older a woman gets the madder she gets when she has
gone to bed ! ( ALL of them according to the survey )

Conclusions.
1. Are younger men more tolerant or just up for more fighting ?
2. Do men give up easier than women when they age, or would they
rather just spend the rest of their time arguing with a
golf ball or fishing rod instead.
3. Cheer up, get a hobby. Your exhusband has

Excuse the ageist and cynical angles, just some light fun, honest.
good luck young lass, and one little bit of advise, attack is
not always the best line of defence, especially in a marriage.

Get a grip...start listening to each other...compromise and noooooo don't go to bed mad...I think couples fight because of unresolved issues that they allow to fester and somebody not getting what they want....compromise allows each person to feel like a winner even if it's not getting exactly what you want...and just something that each person can live with...this way the relationship wins too...which should always be the main thing...

.......Ahem to that one.....woman fight dirty...that is an understatement.....they fight dirty,hard and mean.....



J.D

......Why didn't I think of that,what a good logical answer.....well done....can tell you are all 'Heart'....


J.D

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J.D

unless you don't already have children then you should probably accept it as being over, consider yourselves lucky and do yourselves and each other a favor and end it.

well u can try councelling but not leave, being in a stressfull marriage eats you away makes u in 2 a mess, and if there is children involved its not good for them to see or hear that kids are happy when mum or dad is happy,

I love a good pillow fight.

Oh, and a food fight!! Love that too, ever since I could afford a cleaning lady.

It actually helps to never go to bed angry.

Mad - yes, but not angry.

Make love and not war