Though I am relatively new here I can see where this community, though friendly and supportive, could become like a modern day "old maids" club, a placebo/substitute for the real reasons why folks might have initially come here in search of their mate. In some way it almost, and I say this nicely and with no implications otherwise, "could" tend to breed apathetic reactions as well, and more quickly than in the real world hunt.
Then again, everything and everyone has expectancy levels, and this venue does distill what is normally a righteous and sometimes time consuming effort of finding a mate into an almost "shop-like" atmosphere, compressed, captioned, annotated and thus imbues one with hope due to numbers of prospective people present here.
And that is all the quest for love has ever been, really. A search amongst numerous souls while maintaining hope.
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It does wonders for the soul!!!