Would you date a good friend you've known for yrs? (26)
ROMEO10201981: THIS GIRL I HAVE KNOWN FOR LIKE 10 YRS WE LOST CONTACT FOR ABOUT A TEAR OR SO. WELL WE REUNITED AND AFTER ABOUT A MONTH OF BEING REUNITED SPARKS FLEW AND SHE ASKED ME OUT. I DO LIKE HER BUT DONT KNOW IF I SHOULD CHANCE MESSING UP THE FRIENDSHIP THAT WE HAVE.... UUGGGHHH NEVER BEEN IN THIS SITUATION BEFORE. SHE HAS BEEN AN AWSOME FRIEND AND HAS BEEN RIGHT THERE BY MY SIDE FOR SUPPORT THE WHOLE TIME. SHE CAME TO ME THE ONE DAY AND TOLD ME ""I HAVE LIKED YOU SINCE WE FIRST MET, I JUST DIDNT THINK YOU WERE INTO ME LIKE THAT. IT HAS KILLED ME SEEING YOU WITH OTHER WOMEN AND GETTING TREATED LIKE $H1T"" SO SWEET. BUT WHAT TO DO RACKING MY BRAIN HERE. I DO HAVE FEELING FOR HER BUT DONT KNOW IF I SHOULD ACT ON THEM AND RISK A FRIENDSHIP IF THINGS DON'T WORK, BUT DONT WANT US TO LOSE OUT IF THING'S COULD/WOULD WORK
Seems to me you should be speaking to her and not us. 
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I would say don't, because the fact that you are already questioning it means something in you is not really for it and that thing may keep on growing and become a stumbling block to your endevours in this relationship, should you decide to give it a chance. This will be a love affair that is not run freely because you are already afraid of the out come so you will not be yourself in it.
Check yourself if you are really in love or just in need for love and therefore vulnerable.review your feelings really good then decide.
Check yourself if you are really in love or just in need for love and therefore vulnerable.review your feelings really good then decide.
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Well, you know how she feels about you. You were apart for a year and she comes back with this, I say go for it. 
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ROMEO10201981: THIS GIRL I HAVE KNOWN FOR LIKE 10 YRS WE LOST CONTACT FOR ABOUT A TEAR OR SO. WELL WE REUNITED AND AFTER ABOUT A MONTH OF BEING REUNITED SPARKS FLEW AND SHE ASKED ME OUT. I DO LIKE HER BUT DONT KNOW IF I SHOULD CHANCE MESSING UP THE FRIENDSHIP THAT WE HAVE.... UUGGGHHH NEVER BEEN IN THIS SITUATION BEFORE. SHE HAS BEEN AN AWSOME FRIEND AND HAS BEEN RIGHT THERE BY MY SIDE FOR SUPPORT THE WHOLE TIME. SHE CAME TO ME THE ONE DAY AND TOLD ME ""I HAVE LIKED YOU SINCE WE FIRST MET, I JUST DIDNT THINK YOU WERE INTO ME LIKE THAT. IT HAS KILLED ME SEEING YOU WITH OTHER WOMEN AND GETTING TREATED LIKE $H1T"" SO SWEET. BUT WHAT TO DO RACKING MY BRAIN HERE. I DO HAVE FEELING FOR HER BUT DONT KNOW IF I SHOULD ACT ON THEM AND RISK A FRIENDSHIP IF THINGS DON'T WORK, BUT DONT WANT US TO LOSE OUT IF THING'S COULD/WOULD WORK
Well, I say go for it because love (as I see it) is based on a great frienship to start with.So, one of you has made the move , now it is time for you to make the move.
The only way this frienship can be ruined is not acting on yur own feelings for her because if is only one way for her then she will find it hard to be friends with you in the future and will have to let you go as a friend.
You admitted thaqt you have feelings for her so get on with it and try it out or lose altogether. J.M.O.
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Go for it mate,she has the right feelings for you, you have known each other so long you should know weather or not it will work.If your friend is such a good friend,she will remain a friend even if it goes wrong.Go with your feelings and see what happens. The Potter!
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I see it as friendship is a great base to start from so long as you both agree that friendship is what you will always retain 
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jeepers: Well, you know how she feels about you. You were apart for a year and she comes back with this, I say go for it.
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jeepers: Well, you know how she feels about you. You were apart for a year and she comes back with this, I say go for it.
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Arlene101: I had to check you out to see if you were a Leo or Gemini and true enough you are.
OMG, I had 2 beer and I am stuttering.
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"My advice is to go with how you feel;
she's obviously into you and you/her.
Either way,I wish you come to the right
decision for YOU.And,that there will be
no regrets".
she's obviously into you and you/her.
Either way,I wish you come to the right
decision for YOU.And,that there will be
no regrets".
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Arlene101: I had to check you out to see if you were a Leo or Gemini and true enough you are.
True Gemini to the max ! Both of me.
You are a clever lady detective--->
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jeepers: True Gemini to the max ! Both of me. You are a clever lady detective--->
You better watch yourself , it sems allmy attractions are those two signs and Sagitarious (sic.). 
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I am beat out so I must get off here for now. G'night all.
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Arlene101: I am beat out so I must get off here for now. G'night all.
Hey, I just got here, and you are leaving?
I hope it's not because of me...
G'nite! Thanks for the laughs... again!
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you never know until you try .
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Arlene101: OMG, I had 2 beer and I am stuttering.
Just the way i like em.
Well hello there beautiful.
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Arlene101: I am beat out so I must get off here for now. G'night all.
That was fast.
Guess we are off to bed already.
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I actually dated a very good friend of mine & we are no longer in contact.... He just disappeared.. not sure what happened so at this point I would rather become friends & date at the same time!javascript:emot('');
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I would say don't, because the fact that you are already questioning it means something in you is not really for it and that thing may keep on growing and become a stumbling block to your endevours in this relationship, should you decide to give it a chance. This will be a love affair that is not run freely because you are already afraid of the out come so you will not be yourself in it.
Check yourself if you are really in love or just in need for love and therefore vulnerable.review your feelings really good then decide.[/quote]
This is a valid point as well, being in love or in need of love, a nd therefore vulnerable. Be careful with your heart and hers...
Check yourself if you are really in love or just in need for love and therefore vulnerable.review your feelings really good then decide.[/quote]
This is a valid point as well, being in love or in need of love, a nd therefore vulnerable. Be careful with your heart and hers...
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friendsfirst: That was fast.
Guess we are off to bed already.
Guess we are off to bed already.
Thank you so much but I am not in bed, I just needed a break from the computer for a while. I have been on here day and night for 5 days and now I am caught up in my housework and long hot tub and ready to play. 
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Yeah I don't know................I think a friend is a friend and taking it past that is like playing with fire.
Not sure. I don't think I would to be honest.
But hey it could be the worst thing you have done, or it could turn out to be the best thing you have done.
Not sure. I don't think I would to be honest.
But hey it could be the worst thing you have done, or it could turn out to be the best thing you have done.
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sxc666: Yeah I don't know................I think a friend is a friend and taking it past that is like playing with fire.Not sure. I don't think I would to be honest.
But hey it could be the worst thing you have done, or it could turn out to be the best thing you have done.
But hey it could be the worst thing you have done, or it could turn out to be the best thing you have done.
So you might say that a hard friend is good to find!
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friendsfirst: So you might say that a hard friend is good to find!
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I don't know if I could ever date a man who was my best friend for along time and then date them.I'd feel pretty awkward if he didn't feel the very same way about me. If the relationship went sour then I may have lost a very good friend.
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somechick: I don't know if I could ever date a man who was my best friend for along time and then date them.I'd feel pretty awkward if he didn't feel the very same way about me. If the relationship went sour then I may have lost a very good friend.
Matters of the heart are usually unpredictable Anna.Friends or not.
Applying logic to this stuff doesn't work.
Let Passion rule the day.
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