I was talking with a friend who was upset because someone lied about to her about their age..i was wondering if my new sweetheart lied to me ...what would i do..would it be over..what would you do?
any lie is a no no to me. and i've always meant that and acted upon it. we live in 2009. adults should've realized that lying only causes more problems than we already got.
I don't have a problem with white lies, such as if you ask someone what they got you for christmas or your birthday and you respond "nothing" or lies of that nature that are intended in gest. I do however have a problem with lies that have a way or either leading to more lies, are about the relationship itself, etc.
virgosingle: would you lie about your age on cs ???
Good question. The only thing I could think of is, if you are underage, or are ashamed of your age somehow. Don't quite see why someone would be ashamed of their age for the simple fact, if someone can't accept you for something so minor, then it's a relationship you are better off without.
Da10th: Good question. The only thing I could think of is, if you are underage, or are ashamed of your age somehow. Don't quite see why someone would be ashamed of their age for the simple fact, if someone can't accept you for something so minor, then it's a relationship you are better off without.
Hi Da I can't see the point in lying about your age,height or anything else in your profile, if you actually meet someone their going to work it out anyway
morgan5: Hi Da I can't see the point in lying about your age,height or anything else in your profile, if you actually meet someone their going to work it out anyway
morgan5: Hi Da I can't see the point in lying about your age,height or anything else in your profile, if you actually meet someone their going to work it out anyway
Hi Morgan, always love to hear from you. You'll have to forgive me for my slow response, my modem is currently damaged..
But to respond, yes, I agree, it's pointless to lie about issues such as that. Matter of it's pointless to lie in general (again, except those innocent times in life such as I mentioned previously).
To answer why they may do it in the first place, all I can think of is that, they get themselves so caught up in wanting to please that person in the hear & now , that they forget that one day that the lie is going to catch up to them, especially should they ever meet.
I met a guy on here for a date, his profile stated he was 5'8", when he turned up he was shorter than me!! i'm about 5'3". The fact he was short didn't really bother me what put me off was the fact he had lied.
Sorry...I just forgot to wear my platform shoes that night....
morgan5: I met a guy on here for a date, his profile stated he was 5'8", when he turned up he was shorter than me!! i'm about 5'3". The fact he was short didn't really bother me what put me off was the fact he had lied.
Da10th: Hi Morgan, always love to hear from you. You'll have to forgive me for my slow response, my modem is currently damaged..
But to respond, yes, I agree, it's pointless to lie about issues such as that. Matter of it's pointless to lie in general (again, except those innocent times in life such as I mentioned previously).
To answer why they may do it in the first place, all I can think of is that, they get themselves so caught up in wanting to please that person in the hear & now , that they forget that one day that the lie is going to catch up to them, especially should they ever meet.
Thank you I think that is true can be very akward if you do meet.
morgan5: I met a guy on here for a date, his profile stated he was 5'8", when he turned up he was shorter than me!! i'm about 5'3". The fact he was short didn't really bother me what put me off was the fact he had lied.
its hard to be more than just freinds here on cs when we are nearly half a world away , but we still can feel for each other
it is hurt if someone lied to u,especially the one u trust and think to be with him forever.age is not a reason to lied just he or she need a good explanation ..
krisha: it is hurt if someone lied to u,especially the one u trust and think to be with him forever.age is not a reason to lied just he or she need a good explanation ..
yes is been great to bang the last nail in that coffin and bury it , but it still a big thing about being lied to , but we will just carry it and move on
phoenixrising1: I was talking with a friend who was upset because someone lied about to her about their age..i was wondering if my new sweetheart lied to me ...what would i do..would it be over..what would you do? kds
hi, phoenix, lying is not always bad. I have lied many times in my life to console someone, but I have never lied to hurt someone. I have never lied to fulfill my selfish needs.
phoenixrising1OPnorthern, British Columbia Canada1,086 posts
kindheart74: hi, phoenix, lying is not always bad. I have lied many times in my life to console someone, but I have never lied to hurt someone. I have never lied to fulfill my selfish needs.
Lying is not always bad
hi
im supprised to hear that from you.......i see your point...?
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