Cool, Thank you roseofsharon and btw it is nice to meet you
My hypothetical question:
If we were happily married or in a happy relationship, and you have been diagnosed with a terminal illness, and ended up at the hospitial. Your chances for survivial is 2%.
Would you rather have me say to you "Honey you are going to be fine and you will pull through this." Knowing in my mind this will not be the case. I would be lying to you. Would you kick me out of your hospital room and refuse to see me again?
Or
I could say "Honey you are going to die." which would be the truth. Wouldn't that just make you lose all hope of being the lucky 2% that may survive?
I would be curious to hear from everyone on this hypothetical, man or woman, just reverse the roles.
namcazam: Cool, Thank you roseofsharon and btw it is nice to meet you
My hypothetical question:
If we were happily married or in a happy relationship, and you have been diagnosed with a terminal illness, and ended up at the hospitial. Your chances for survivial is 2%.
Would you rather have me say to you "Honey you are going to be fine and you will pull through this." Knowing in my mind this will not be the case. I would be lying to you. Would you kick me out of your hospital room and refuse to see me again?
Or
I could say "Honey you are going to die." which would be the truth. Wouldn't that just make you lose all hope of being the lucky 2% that may survive?
I would be curious to hear from everyone on this hypothetical, man or woman, just reverse the roles.
Thank you again roseofsharon.
A two percent chance means that your truth may be a lie. The truth is the chances if even that. I once dated a girl that had a five year expectancy, i saw her ten years later and she looked fine.
namcazam: I think we all lie from time to time. Sometimes lies are necessary, For example I work at a medical facility. I sometimes see people who are in really bad shape. But I tell them "You are going to be alright" full well knowing in my mind that they will not be.
...... i agree with the rest of the post,,,,,
If they are not dead then you do not know that they will soon be. Your words are going to be transparent and coming from a soothsayer. I know that if you give a farp then it will be more difficult when the patient dies. What you say you should try and believe, it will help with the patient attitude of whether to just give up or fight to live.
Medical research shows that telling lies is bad to heart. It make you nervous and unhappy. So it's bad to your health if you telling lies too much. At last it make you unhealthy and ugly.
I always tell truth, that's why I look so young and charming.....
Amenda: Medical research shows that telling lies is bad to heart. It make you nervous and unhappy. So it's bad to your health if you telling lies too much. At last it make you unhealthy and ugly.
I always tell truth, that's why I look so young and charming.....
lorax888: A two percent chance means that your truth may be a lie. The truth is the chances if even that. I once dated a girl that had a five year expectancy, i saw her ten years later and she looked fine.
lorax888: If they are not dead then you do not know that they will soon be. Your words are going to be transparent and coming from a soothsayer. I know that if you give a farp then it will be more difficult when the patient dies. What you say you should try and believe, it will help with the patient attitude of whether to just give up or fight to live.
Amenda: Medical research shows that telling lies is bad to heart. It make you nervous and unhappy. So it's bad to your health if you telling lies too much. At last it make you unhealthy and ugly.
I always tell truth, that's why I look so young and charming.....
Sorry I should be a little modest.hehe.
Medical research saids that the heart only beats so many times before its done. Lies increases the heart rate and decrease the life line. Exercise actually decrease the heart rate in normal status, increasing the life expediency.
phoenixrising1: I was talking with a friend who was upset because someone lied about to her about their age..i was wondering if my new sweetheart lied to me ...what would i do..would it be over..what would you do? kds
I had a girl lie to me, I was heartbroke when I found out that that buldge in her pants wasnt a bottle of booze.
I can only answer your dirty words like this, though I dislike to use dirty words.
I think RobertC was giving you a compliment. It apparently did not translate well, read it again without the "damnit". The explicative was just expressing the intensity of the statement.
lorax888: I think RobertC was giving you a compliment. It apparently did not translate well, read it again without the "damnit". The explicative was just expressing the intensity of the statement.
Dennis
Yes, I've learnd this from my friends I've sent email to say sorry to RobertC. I was wrong indeed.
Amenda: Yes, I should learn English more harder later. sorry about that.
My head is full of swelling now. Now I can tell you all that I 'm the ugliest woman in the world. okay??
that is trouble with international sites, you have to be careful how you word things as they can be taken wrong, i know how you took it and it was not your fault, you are not ugly either don't feel bad just learn from reading and robert was not wrong he was being nice to you
Amenda: Yes, I should learn English more harder later. sorry about that.
My head is full of swelling now. Now I can tell you all that I 'm the ugliest woman in the world. okay??
that is trouble with international sites, you have to be careful how you word things as they can be taken wrong, i know how you took it and it was not your fault, you are not ugly either don't feel bad just learn from reading and robert was not wrong he was being nice to you
caspatch: that is trouble with international sites, you have to be careful how you word things as they can be taken wrong, i know how you took it and it was not your fault, you are not ugly either don't feel bad just learn from reading and robert was not wrong he was being nice to you
Yes, I know, he is a very humor kind man with wide minded.
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How many times.... what?! I have answered the question. I am not clear on what your post means or why directed at me?!
So......