how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??... (144)

Aug 19, 2009 11:42 AM CST how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
phoenixrising1: how many times????


How many times.... what?! dunno I have answered the question. I am not clear on what your post means or why directed at me?!
confused

So...... tongue
Aug 19, 2009 5:17 PM CST how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
namcazam
namcazamnamcazamPiermont, New Hampshire USA2 Threads 241 Posts
roseofsharon: Of course....

Cool, Thank you roseofsharon and btw it is nice to meet youhandshake

My hypothetical question:

If we were happily married or in a happy relationship, and you have been diagnosed with a terminal illness, and ended up at the hospitial. Your chances for survivial is 2%.

Would you rather have me say to you "Honey you are going to be fine and you will pull through this." Knowing in my mind this will not be the case. I would be lying to you. Would you kick me out of your hospital room and refuse to see me again?

Or

I could say "Honey you are going to die." which would be the truth. Wouldn't that just make you lose all hope of being the lucky 2% that may survive?

I would be curious to hear from everyone on this hypothetical, man or woman, just reverse the roles.

Thank you again roseofsharon.handshake
Aug 19, 2009 7:41 PM CST how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
lorax888
lorax888lorax888richmond, Virginia USA8 Threads 294 Posts
namcazam: Cool, Thank you roseofsharon and btw it is nice to meet you

My hypothetical question:

If we were happily married or in a happy relationship, and you have been diagnosed with a terminal illness, and ended up at the hospitial. Your chances for survivial is 2%.

Would you rather have me say to you "Honey you are going to be fine and you will pull through this." Knowing in my mind this will not be the case. I would be lying to you. Would you kick me out of your hospital room and refuse to see me again?

Or

I could say "Honey you are going to die." which would be the truth. Wouldn't that just make you lose all hope of being the lucky 2% that may survive?

I would be curious to hear from everyone on this hypothetical, man or woman, just reverse the roles.

Thank you again roseofsharon.


A two percent chance means that your truth may be a lie. The truth is the chances if even that. I once dated a girl that had a five year expectancy, i saw her ten years later and she looked fine.

Dennis ( truth is always best, in so many ways )
Aug 19, 2009 8:00 PM CST how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
lorax888
lorax888lorax888richmond, Virginia USA8 Threads 294 Posts
namcazam: I think we all lie from time to time. Sometimes lies are necessary, For example I work at a medical facility. I sometimes see people who are in really bad shape. But I tell them "You are going to be alright" full well knowing in my mind that they will not be.

...... i agree with the rest of the post,,,,,


If they are not dead then you do not know that they will soon be. Your words are going to be transparent and coming from a soothsayer. I know that if you give a farp then it will be more difficult when the patient dies. What you say you should try and believe, it will help with the patient attitude of whether to just give up or fight to live.

Dennis
Aug 20, 2009 6:04 AM CST how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
Medical research shows that telling lies is bad to heart. It make you nervous and unhappy. So it's bad to your health if you telling lies too much. At last it make you unhealthy and ugly.

I always tell truth, that's why I look so young and charming..... rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Sorry I should be a little modest.hehe. laugh
Aug 20, 2009 6:27 AM CST how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
Amenda: Medical research shows that telling lies is bad to heart. It make you nervous and unhappy. So it's bad to your health if you telling lies too much. At last it make you unhealthy and ugly.

I always tell truth, that's why I look so young and charming.....

Sorry I should be a little modest.hehe.


You do look young and charming, dammit! moping
Aug 20, 2009 8:14 AM CST how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
namcazam
namcazamnamcazamPiermont, New Hampshire USA2 Threads 241 Posts
lorax888: A two percent chance means that your truth may be a lie. The truth is the chances if even that. I once dated a girl that had a five year expectancy, i saw her ten years later and she looked fine.

Dennis ( truth is always best, in so many ways )


Good pointthumbs up
Aug 20, 2009 8:14 AM CST how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
namcazam
namcazamnamcazamPiermont, New Hampshire USA2 Threads 241 Posts
Good pointthumbs up
Aug 20, 2009 8:15 AM CST how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
namcazam
namcazamnamcazamPiermont, New Hampshire USA2 Threads 241 Posts
lorax888: If they are not dead then you do not know that they will soon be. Your words are going to be transparent and coming from a soothsayer. I know that if you give a farp then it will be more difficult when the patient dies. What you say you should try and believe, it will help with the patient attitude of whether to just give up or fight to live.

Dennis


Good pointthumbs up
Aug 20, 2009 9:24 PM CST how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
lorax888
lorax888lorax888richmond, Virginia USA8 Threads 294 Posts
Amenda: Medical research shows that telling lies is bad to heart. It make you nervous and unhappy. So it's bad to your health if you telling lies too much. At last it make you unhealthy and ugly.

I always tell truth, that's why I look so young and charming.....

Sorry I should be a little modest.hehe.


Medical research saids that the heart only beats so many times before its done. Lies increases the heart rate and decrease the life line. Exercise actually decrease the heart rate in normal status, increasing the life expediency.

Dennis
Aug 21, 2009 12:14 AM CST how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
RobertC2: You do look young and charming, dammit!


You do look old and ugly, dammit!!!!!laugh

I can only answer your dirty words like this, though I dislike to use dirty words.
Aug 21, 2009 8:16 AM CST how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
Amenda: You do look old and ugly, dammit!!!!!

I can only answer your dirty words like this, though I dislike to use dirty words.


Didn't cha mother teach u



If you cant say anything kind, dont say it at all.
Aug 21, 2009 1:59 PM CST how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
phoenixrising1: I was talking with a friend who was upset because someone lied about to her about their age..i was wondering if my new sweetheart lied to me ...what would i do..would it be over..what would you do? kds
I had a girl lie to me, I was heartbroke when I found out that that buldge in her pants wasnt a bottle of booze.
Aug 21, 2009 6:30 PM CST how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
lorax888
lorax888lorax888richmond, Virginia USA8 Threads 294 Posts
Amenda: You do look old and ugly, dammit!!!!!

I can only answer your dirty words like this, though I dislike to use dirty words.



I think RobertC was giving you a compliment. It apparently did not translate well, read it again without the "damnit". The explicative was just expressing the intensity of the statement.

Dennis
Aug 21, 2009 10:43 PM CST how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
lorax888: I think RobertC was giving you a compliment. It apparently did not translate well, read it again without the "damnit". The explicative was just expressing the intensity of the statement.

Dennis


Yes, I've learnd this from my friends I've sent email to say sorry to RobertC. I was wrong indeed.

Anyway thanks a lot for saying all this.
Aug 21, 2009 10:49 PM CST how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
Merriweather: Didn't cha mother teach u
If you cant say anything kind, dont say it at all.


Yes, I should learn English more harder later. sorry about that.

frustrated

My head is full of swelling now. Now I can tell you all that I 'm the ugliest woman in the world. okay??laugh
Aug 21, 2009 11:28 PM CST how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
Amenda: Yes, I should learn English more harder later. sorry about that.



My head is full of swelling now. Now I can tell you all that I 'm the ugliest woman in the world. okay??

that is trouble with international sites, you have to be careful how you word things as they can be taken wrong, i know how you took it and it was not your fault, you are not ugly either don't feel bad just learn from reading and robert was not wrong he was being nice to you
Aug 21, 2009 11:28 PM CST how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
Amenda: Yes, I should learn English more harder later. sorry about that.



My head is full of swelling now. Now I can tell you all that I 'm the ugliest woman in the world. okay??

that is trouble with international sites, you have to be careful how you word things as they can be taken wrong, i know how you took it and it was not your fault, you are not ugly either don't feel bad just learn from reading and robert was not wrong he was being nice to you
Aug 22, 2009 7:36 PM CST how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
mastic55: I had a girl lie to me, I was heartbroke when I found out that that buldge in her pants wasnt a bottle of booze.


LIES....LIES..LIES
Aug 22, 2009 10:06 PM CST how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
caspatch: that is trouble with international sites, you have to be careful how you word things as they can be taken wrong, i know how you took it and it was not your fault, you are not ugly either don't feel bad just learn from reading and robert was not wrong he was being nice to you


Yes, I know, he is a very humor kind man with wide minded.
Aug 23, 2009 10:08 PM CST how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
Amenda: Yes, I know, he is a very humor kind man with wide minded.


amenda...how many times???
Aug 23, 2009 10:10 PM CST how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Anyone that states they never lie is a liar..doh
Aug 23, 2009 10:13 PM CST how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
HJFinAZ: Anyone that states they never lie is a liar..


Nobody's perfect.....we strive for honesty.....no?
Aug 24, 2009 12:41 AM CST how many times do i need to lie to you..before its over??...
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
thewall2: Nobody's perfect.....we strive for honesty.....no?


i guess it is weather you learn from your mistakes ..and where your heart and commitment really are

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