can you fall in love with some 1 you hav never seen not even a pic only herd over the phone n emails (49)

Jun 8, 2009 1:25 PM CST can you fall in love with some 1 you hav never seen not even a pic only herd over the phone n emails
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
ch71sha: I think you can become interested in a person sight unseen, but I am not sure any deep chemistry or affection can develop without voice, visual, mannerisms, no this is not a outer superficial thing either. Sometimes points of attraction can actually come from some "imperfections" sorry a better word escapes me.

Besides if you have not even heard their voice, my biggest fear hear is she may sound like Fran Drescher (the Nanny). Her voice can peel the enamel right off your teeth.


Oh,I did hear his voice.

moping


laugh
Jun 8, 2009 1:29 PM CST can you fall in love with some 1 you hav never seen not even a pic only herd over the phone n emails
retroprincess
retroprincessretroprincessleek, Staffordshire, England UK183 Posts
no , you can feel you like someone and get on well with them ,but you have to actually meet a person and spend time with them to fall in lovepurple heart
Jun 8, 2009 1:30 PM CST can you fall in love with some 1 you hav never seen not even a pic only herd over the phone n emails
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
lol...some threads or "polls" are really funnylaugh
Jun 8, 2009 1:30 PM CST can you fall in love with some 1 you hav never seen not even a pic only herd over the phone n emails
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
Falling in love happens through projective identification.
What feels so good about the 'in love' state is that the
'other' is, for the moment, able to reflect our missing
piece(s) back to us.
A sense of euphoria then occurs. This kind of 'in love'
state doesnt usually last for long, reality has the
habit of replacing fantasy.

So yes, you can fall 'in love' with someone you havnt
met.

Before reality sets in of course.


grin
Jun 8, 2009 1:31 PM CST can you fall in love with some 1 you hav never seen not even a pic only herd over the phone n emails
sultryash
sultryashsultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados36 Threads 3,203 Posts
ch71sha: I think you can become interested in a person sight unseen, but I am not sure any deep chemistry or affection can develop without voice, visual, mannerisms, no this is not a outer superficial thing either. Sometimes points of attraction can actually come from some "imperfections" sorry a better word escapes me.

Besides if you have not even heard their voice, my biggest fear hear is she may sound like Fran Drescher (the Nanny). Her voice can peel the enamel right off your teeth.




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Jun 8, 2009 1:33 PM CST can you fall in love with some 1 you hav never seen not even a pic only herd over the phone n emails
sultryash
sultryashsultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados36 Threads 3,203 Posts
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GaElH0EHjIs







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Jun 8, 2009 1:34 PM CST can you fall in love with some 1 you hav never seen not even a pic only herd over the phone n emails
sultryash
sultryashsultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados36 Threads 3,203 Posts
sultryash: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GaElH0EHjIs



Besides if you have not even heard their voice, my biggest fear hear is she may sound like Fran Drescher (the Nanny). Her voice can peel the enamel right off your teeth.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Jun 8, 2009 1:35 PM CST can you fall in love with some 1 you hav never seen not even a pic only herd over the phone n emails
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
i think that the idea of 'love is in the air' came from this intense desire to fall in love without seeing each other, because the only channel through which love can travel back and forth is "Air" in the sky.
Jun 8, 2009 1:36 PM CST can you fall in love with some 1 you hav never seen not even a pic only herd over the phone n emails
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
bodleing: Falling in love happens through projective identification.
What feels so good about the 'in love' state is that the
'other' is, for the moment, able to reflect our missing
piece(s) back to us.
A sense of euphoria then occurs. This kind of 'in love'
state doesnt usually last for long, reality has the
habit of replacing fantasy.

So yes, you can fall 'in love' with someone you havnt
met.

Before reality sets in of course.


roll eyes

Pleeease!! grin
Jun 8, 2009 1:40 PM CST can you fall in love with some 1 you hav never seen not even a pic only herd over the phone n emails
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
Polarbutterfly: Pleeease!!


You have been warned. professor




rolling on the floor laughing
Jun 8, 2009 1:47 PM CST can you fall in love with some 1 you hav never seen not even a pic only herd over the phone n emails
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
So are you all saying that Blind people can't fall in Love?


dunno
Jun 8, 2009 1:51 PM CST can you fall in love with some 1 you hav never seen not even a pic only herd over the phone n emails
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
bodleing: You have been warned.



blah blah

No,you have been...
professor
Sorry,just having
some fun before I
saying byeeeeeeee!! hug
Jun 8, 2009 1:53 PM CST can you fall in love with some 1 you hav never seen not even a pic only herd over the phone n emails
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
SummerUK: So are you all saying that Blind people can't fall in Love?


Now,I've been waiting for that
one question.Peeps?? professor
Jun 8, 2009 1:54 PM CST can you fall in love with some 1 you hav never seen not even a pic only herd over the phone n emails
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
SummerUK: So are you all saying that Blind people can't fall in Love?


Hmmmm.....that's a very interesting question.
Jun 8, 2009 1:55 PM CST can you fall in love with some 1 you hav never seen not even a pic only herd over the phone n emails
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
Polarbutterfly: No,you have been...

Sorry,just having
some fun before I
saying byeeeeeeee!!


Hope you have a great time. yay


hug
Jun 8, 2009 1:56 PM CST can you fall in love with some 1 you hav never seen not even a pic only herd over the phone n emails
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
bodleing: Hope you have a great time.



I know I will devil



























I hope...moping


laugh
Jun 8, 2009 2:08 PM CST can you fall in love with some 1 you hav never seen not even a pic only herd over the phone n emails
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
SummerUK: So are you all saying that Blind people can't fall in Love?
Hi Sommer wave I'm not saying that, but for me i would have to meet a person and spend time with them before i could truly say i loved them.

On the internet we really only see of a person what they want us too. I had been talking to a guy on here, phone web cam all seemed good. Within 2 days of meeting him i couldn't stand him, he was so different to what i has believed he would be.

Personally, i think you need to spend timw with a person before you really can begin to know them bouquet
Jun 8, 2009 3:15 PM CST can you fall in love with some 1 you hav never seen not even a pic only herd over the phone n emails
iceman88
iceman88iceman88wakefield, West Yorkshire, England UK7 Threads 5 Polls 35 Posts
SummerUK: So are you all saying that Blind people can't fall in Love?
thank you that was the reply no 1 thought of n the 1 i was waiting 4 very clever x
Jun 8, 2009 3:26 PM CST can you fall in love with some 1 you hav never seen not even a pic only herd over the phone n emails
hualapaiguy
hualapaiguyhualapaiguyKingman, Arizona USA146 Posts
IF one exchanges correspondence awhile and what's revealed is just right....there are a lot of possibilities. It could happen.

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